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——【· Preface ·】——»
On August 9, 2021, actor Yu Yuexian died in a car accident at the age of 50. As soon as the news came out, the whole country was shocked, and the voice of mourning resounded on the Internet. People lament the abrupt end of her brilliant life, and also lament her ill-fated life: the first half of her life was accompanied by suffering, supporting a broken family with thin shoulders; In the second half of his life, he did everything he could to treat his seriously ill brother, and even gave up the right to be a mother. Just when she was about to unload her burden and embrace happiness, she encountered a flying disaster, which made people sigh. Today, let's get closer to Yuexian and listen to the untold stories of her life.
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Yu Yingjie's condition worsened again.
The moment she got the diagnosis certificate, Yu Yuexian felt that the sky was about to fall. Over the years, in order to treat her younger brother, she almost hollowed herself out, but in the end she still failed to stop the erosion of the disease.
Her parents were sad, wiping tears from their eyes and muttering "Evil", but no one really cared about her feelings. Yes, in this family, the existence of her eldest daughter seems to be to "shelter her younger brother".
Yu Yuexian has deeply experienced such thoughts since she was a child. In 1971, she was born in an ordinary peasant family in Chifeng City, Inner Mongolia. As the first child in the family, she did not enjoy the favor that should have belonged to her, but what greeted her was the dislike of her father's "loss of money" and the cold eyes of her grandparents who "had another one".
In those days, the idea of patriarchy was deeply ingrained, and girls seemed to be inherently inferior.
The sensible Yu Yuexian seems to have accepted such a setting. She silently took on household chores, chopping wood, cooking, feeding pigs, and became her parents' right-hand man at a young age. However, the successive birth of three younger sisters made this not wealthy family even worse, and also made Yu Yuexian feel even more unvalued.
The grandparents even said in front of them: "The girl is the water that is spilled, and it is everyone's sooner or later." ”
In the bottom of Yue Xian's heart, there is always a flame burning. She secretly vowed that she must go out of the countryside and live her own world.
She studied hard and was finally admitted to Chifeng No. 1 Vocational Secondary School with excellent results, becoming one of the few secondary school students in the village, which also brought a glimmer of hope to the family.
After graduating from secondary school, Yu Yuexian stayed in school to teach, and finally had a stable and decent job. Her parents' attitude towards her also began to change, but this recognition was based on the oppression of her responsibility as "eldest sister as mother". They wanted her to take on the responsibility of taking care of his younger brother and helping him start a family.
However, fate always seems to love to play a joke with her.
When his younger brother Yu Yingjie was 8 years old, he was diagnosed with severe scoliosis, with a 174-degree bend of the spine and severe compression and deformation of internal organs. The doctor's words were like a bolt from the blue, which made this already stormy family completely fall into despair.
In order to treat her younger brother, Yu Yuexian shouldered the burden of the entire family without complaint. She saved money, sent home her monthly salary, and even borrowed a lot of money from friends.
However, these are still just a drop in the bucket in the face of huge medical expenses.
Just when Yu Yuexian felt cornered, in 1992, she happened to see the enrollment information of the Central Academy of Drama. At that moment, her long-sealed artistic dream seemed to be ignited again.
She is eager to stand on the stage, interpret life with performance, and infect the audience, which is not only her dream, but also a ray of light in her gloomy life.
However, her decision was opposed by the whole family. In their opinion, the profession of an actor is illusory and unrealistic. Her parents, in particular, strongly objected to her "not doing her job". "The most important thing for you now is to make money to treat your brother, don't think about anything else!" Her father's words were like a basin of cold water, extinguishing the flame of hope that had just been ignited in her heart.
With her seriously ill younger brother and begging parents on the one hand, and her long-awaited artistic dream on the other, Yu Yuexian is in a dilemma.
Do you compromise with reality and continue to live a depressing life, or do you gamble for your dreams, even if the road ahead is full of thorns?
After thinking about it again and again, Yu Yuexian finally decided to follow her heart. She attended classes during the day and stayed up late at night practicing dance and acting. In order to save money, she often eats the cheapest steamed buns and pickles, and when she is sleepy, she lies on the table to rest.
With her solid dancing skills and love for performance, Yu Yuexian stood out in the professional examination of Chinese opera, and an amazing "chopsticks dance" conquered all the teachers present.
The examiner praised her and encouraged her to go back and prepare for the cultural class, and the professional class had been stabilized.
However, things are far from going as smoothly as they seem. When Yu Yuexian returned to school with joy to ask for leave, she was obstructed by the school in every way. They were reluctant to let go of a good teacher, and even transferred her to the mailroom to watch the door, trying to get her to retreat.
At the critical moment, it was the teachers of Chinese opera who lent a helping hand. They communicated and coordinated with the school many times, and finally helped Yu Yuexian to obtain admission qualifications.
The moment she got the admission letter, Yu Yuexian cried with joy, and after years of persistence and hard work, she finally got the favor of fate.
After entering the Chinese opera, Yu Yuexian cherished this hard-won learning opportunity even more. She trained hard, studied hard and constantly improved her professional skills. Although the road to acting is full of hardships, she has never given up, but has used her sweat and hard work to move towards her dream step by step.
From an obscure small role to the well-known "Xie Dajia", Yu Yuexian's acting career has not been smooth sailing.
But she has always maintained her love and awe for acting, interpreted every role with her heart, and finally won the recognition and love of the audience with her superb acting skills and unique personal charm.
The success of "Xie Dajia" is not only a milestone in Yu Yuexian's acting career, but also reflects the impact of her childhood experience on character building. She vividly interpreted the kindness, pungency, love and hatred of "Xie Dajia", as if letting people see the self who is still optimistic and strong in the face of adversity.
From "losing money" to "country love", Yu Yuexian used her personal experience to break the prejudice of "girls are not as good as boys", and also lived a wonderful life of her own. Her story is not only a vivid portrayal of women's self-improvement in the face of adversity, but also inspires more people to bravely pursue their dreams and live their own wonderful lives!
——【·2·】——»
On August 9, 2021, a piece of news shocked countless people: the famous actor Yu Yuexian died in a car accident at the age of 50. For a while, the Internet was full of regret and mourning, and everyone didn't want to believe that the actor who created the classic "Xie Dajia" image in "Country Love" left suddenly.
Yu Yuexian's death left people not only with the fiery and warm-hearted "Xie Dajia" in the TV series, but also the touching story of her dedication to love and perseverance for her family along the way.
Many people know that Yu Yuexian became famous because of "Xie Dajia", but they don't know what kind of bitterness and ups and downs she experienced before becoming famous. Yu Yuexian, who graduated from the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama, did not have a smooth star journey from the beginning.
At the beginning of graduation, she and her husband Zhang Xuesong were just unknown young actors, with no background and no resources, so they could only play tricks in some film and television dramas and play some inconspicuous small roles.
The pressure of life and the bottleneck of their careers did not crush this young couple who supported each other, but made them cherish each other more and chase their dreams harder.
However, fate always seems to play a joke. Just as Yu Yuexian and Zhang Xuesong were working hard for the future, a sudden change put their lives in trouble - Yu Yuexian's younger brother Yu Yingjie was diagnosed with severe spinal curvature and urgently needed a huge amount of surgery.
In order to treat their younger brother, Yu Yuexian and Zhang Xuesong almost exhausted all their savings, but they were still a drop in the bucket. In order to raise money, Yu Yuexian began to take over the drama desperately, no matter how big or small the role was, no matter how much she was paid, as long as she could make money, she would not hesitate. During that time, she became a frequent guest of major crews, running around various studios, just to earn a little more money and let her younger brother get rid of his illness as soon as possible.
In 2005, it was a turning point in Yu Yuexian's life, and she finally waited for the opportunity to change her fate. That year, Zhao Benshan was preparing to shoot the TV series "Country Love", and was worried about the role selection of "Xie Dajia" in the play.
Yu Yuexian, who learned the news, took the initiative to ask Ying, hoping to play this role. In order to play the image of "Xie Dajia", a rural woman, Yu Yuexian gave up the comfort of urban life and went to the countryside to experience life.
She eats and lives with the villagers, observes their words and deeds, learns their living habits, and even in order to get closer to the character image, she does not hesitate to gain more than a dozen pounds, and insists on wearing ill-fitting plus-size shoes, resulting in her feet often being worn out. In the end, Yu Yuexian, with her accurate grasp of the role and her love for acting, successfully created the popular role of "Xie Dajia", and became an instant hit and became a well-known actor.
After becoming famous, Yu Yuexian did not forget her original intention, she still put her family first. With her careful care and encouragement, her younger brother Yu Yingjie finally overcame the illness and got back on his feet, and later got married and had children, and had a happy family. Seeing her brother's family happy, Yu Yuexian's heart was full of relief, which meant more to her than any award.
However, due to years of exhaustion and missing the best childbearing age, Yu Yuexian finally failed to have a child of her own, which became a regret in her heart. But she is kind, but she poured this maternal love into her younger brother's children and became their most loving aunt.
Yu Yuexian's sudden death made people grieving, and it also caused some gossip about the inheritance. Faced with doubts, Yu Yuexian's husband Zhang Xuesong chose to face it calmly. He said that he would follow his wife's wishes, take care of her family, regard Yu Yuexian's younger brother as his own, and fulfill her unfulfilled wishes for her. Zhang Xuesong's promise made people see the truth and feel the depth of his love for Yuexian.
Now, Yu Yuexian has been gone for more than two years, but her voice and smile still remain in people's hearts. She is not only an excellent actor, but also a great sister and wife. She used her love and responsibility to write an extraordinary life, and also left us a precious spiritual wealth.