Author: Hao Dongdong
After the mobile banking popped up the news of the successful transfer, I took a big breath, and suddenly felt the fresh air inhaled in the body, unspeakably smooth. Buying a house in July last year was sudden, and for a time the funds on hand were tight, and the property market in Shanghai was changing rapidly. When I had no choice but to borrow money from my friends.
Borrowing money is an awkward thing, and I remember someone saying that when you borrow money, you will mentally estimate the friendship between the other party and you, and then say an amount of money that you expect to borrow. However, the truth is that the other side will do the same. So the beginning of borrowing money is a game of balance between the two sides. Feelings are mounds, borrowing money is water. The mound that looked very tall, as soon as the water was poured, collapsed.
Last year, I didn't have the courage to borrow money to call, I was really embarrassed, I always felt that good affection was loaded by me with a time bomb. Therefore, I am extra careful, with the note of each friend's key moments, the love of the snow. At that time, he was naturally grateful to Zero, and secretly resolved not to let his friends take the initiative to urge him to repay the loan on time as soon as possible. It turns out that when the house arrived, I was also hollowed out. But every month, I always dare not slacken off, and when I have a balance in my hand, I will slowly pay back my friends' money.
So there was an unexpected scene: every time I told my friend that I had transferred the money I owed, the friend would say thank you. At first I was inexplicable, and somehow my friend wanted to thank me. Until one time, a friend returned my money, saw the text message reminder suddenly Kari more than ten thousand yuan, not to mention how happy. It was as if the ten thousand yuan was as excited as if it had come in vain, so I couldn't help but say thank you.
It turns out that between people and people, there is a default contract boundary, this line exists between feelings, you don't say, he doesn't say, but it has always been. The love between everyone and their friends, this line is the last barrier, once the boundary is crossed, the barrier that wraps the temperature of the love is cracked, then only indifference and strangeness remain. How happy you are when you receive someone's money back, you know how hateful it is to owe money. What is hateful is not only the amount of money, but also the disrespect for the love between the two people, and the arbitrary trampling on the contract in the love.