Hua Yuhan | wen
Maybe it's deliberate, or maybe it's inadvertent willow.
Jin Jiajun's mother, Liu Xiaomin, is an obstetrics and gynecology nurse who even feels dirty in her own toilet.
His father, Jin Bo, is a lonely brother who has no wine or joy.
I really don't know how Jin Jiajun, such a bully, can get along with such parents.
Maybe it's to spark a series of stronger dramatic conflicts.
These habits of Liu Xiaomin and Jin Bo not only bring out many small bridges that are ridiculous, but also deepen the audience's understanding of these two characters.
Moreover, it has established the very recognizable personality characteristics of Liu and Jin, which can be described as a multitude of achievements.
When I first saw these habits and problems of Liu Xiaomin and Jin Bo, I wouldn't care too much or investigate deeply.
It's just that as the story progresses, I seem to see or understand the point that "Little Min's House" wants to tell us.
Liu and Jin are indeed sick, and they are not lightly ill and can be cured!
Cleanliness
Originally, I thought that Liu Xiaomin had relatively high requirements for personal hygiene because of the nature of her work.
But along the way, her requirements for cleanliness have almost reached the level of "enchantment".
Not only did she not have access to the public toilets in the restaurant, but even the toilets in her own home were unbearable for her.
Not to mention that no matter who wants to enter Liu Xiaomin's door, they must spray alcohol on their hands to disinfect, and even luggage and backpacks are also "doomed".
In contrast, when Liu Xiaomin was eating out, the operation of spraying alcohol to disinfect her hands and washing dishes and chopsticks became pediatrics.
And all the people around Liu Xiaomin and those who are familiar with her know it, but no one will remind her that there is a problem.
Maybe it's the relationship between cultural habits, many times people will treat cleanliness as a good habit, and will not think that it is actually a disease.
Cleanliness is a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder, and people with this disorder usually consider things within the normal sanitation range to be dirty.
Further will have a sense of anxiety about these "dirty things", Liu Xiaomin's cleanliness can be regarded as a behavioral cleanliness, in addition to physical cleanliness and spiritual cleanliness.
Most cleanliness habits usually do not have a negative effect on the human body or life.
But patients with excessive cleanliness can easily be mentally in a state of anxiety and tension for a long time.
And because of the relationship between cleanliness, people will be over-cleaned, which will lead to low immunity of the body, making people with cleanliness more likely to get sick.
It's like it's often said that putting a child in a vacuum growing up can easily lead to counterproductive results.
As for the causes of cleanliness, there will be many different situations.
For example, the unscientific education of minors, parents are too strict to require children to wash their hands frequently, do not dirty their own clothes and other behaviors.
Another cause is a serious mental blow or life setback, and so on.
And these causes, Liu Xiaomin more or less experienced when she was young, but even she herself did not seem to realize this.
Although Chen Zhuo once said to Liu Xiaomin: You are sick and can be cured, how to listen to and how to look at it is like a flirtation between lovers.
No one will deeply investigate whether Liu Xiaomin's cleanliness will cause harm to her, and no one will deliberately reject her cleanliness.
Everyone is accustomed to Liu Xiaomin's cleanliness and is accommodating to her cleanliness, and no one realizes whether Liu Xiaomin has a mental problem?
binge drinking
Before Jin Bo appeared, we learned through Wang Sumin's mouth that this was a master who often drank a lot of wine.
A middle-aged man who is drunk and dreaming almost every day, a completely incompetent father.
He can start drinking liquor as soon as he gets up in the morning, and he can also prepare beer to quench his thirst anytime and anywhere when he has no place to live and work.
It's just a pity that Jin Bo's appearance is not very reliable, he does not have the appearance that a perennial alcoholic should have, and perhaps the skinny and bony appearance is what this kind of person should look like.
Broadly speaking, any form of drinking that can lead to serious mental or physical health problems can be considered alcoholism.
From a medical point of view, the correct name for alcohol abuse is: alcohol use disorders, or alcohol dependence.
Chronic excessive alcohol consumption can cause damage to all organs in the body, especially the brain, heart, liver and pancreas, and immune system.
The most severe cases can also lead to impaired cognitive abilities, as well as cases of marked dementia.
Judging from Jin Bo's performance in the play, he not only has the habit of alcoholism, but even has the problem of alcohol dependence.
This kind of physical or psychological dependence on alcohol can be classified as a mental illness for diagnosis and treatment in medicine.
And this dependence on alcohol once addicted, it is very difficult to quit.
This also shows from the side that Jin Bo's exaggerated performances, it seems that the performance is a little too strong, but it is actually a real restoration of the real state of an alcoholic.
When a person with alcohol dependence suddenly stops drinking or reduces the amount of alcohol they drink, alcohol withdrawal symptoms will occur.
And this withdrawal symptom will produce many different degrees of performance according to the length of the drinking history, whether it is a heavy drinker, how much alcohol will be drunk every day, and other factors.
There is still a long way to go
Liu Xiaomin's cleanliness and Jin Bo's alcoholism can be controlled or alleviated to some extent by hospitals or drugs.
However, from the perspective of global cases or practices, these diseases that are mental illnesses are not enough to rely on doctors in hospitals.
They need to get more attention and understanding from society, and they need to let the public face these diseases, just like colds and fevers.
They should not be discriminated against or discussed, and they deserve more aggressive interventional treatment.
Such as psychological counseling, psychological education, anonymous gatherings, social service care and so on.
Because although mental illness should be treated as an ordinary disease, he has a different place from colds and fevers.
These psychological disorders have a high recurrence rate and withdrawal problems, and if they are treated in a forced or coercive way, it is likely to be counterproductive.
I am very grateful that "Xiao Min Jia" can create two characters such as Liu Xiaomin and Jin Bo for us, although Jin Bo's body shape is somewhat not suitable for the characteristics of the character.
But his acting skills are really nothing to say, but he can be regarded as a qualified old drama bone, and he plays an alcoholic person to the fullest.
In addition to hating this indisputable father, people also feel a little worried about his future life path.
Will he still have the opportunity to attend his son's college graduation ceremony?
Will he still have the opportunity to share the joy of his son getting married and having children?
Isn't that worth giving each of us something to think about?
Those who use "for the sake of the family, for the sake of the cause" as an excuse all the time.
Don't think that these are not things, these are diseases, they must be cured!
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