The first time to check the three-dimensional B ultrasound
Informed notice about B ultrasound
We finally saw what the kids looked like!
A month ago made an appointment today's three-dimensional B ultrasound at three o'clock in the afternoon, in the afternoon a work to speed up the processing of the work at hand, hurry up, finally at 14:20 to do almost, hit a car straight to the hospital, to the intersection near the hospital, because the road is very congested, simply get off the car and walk directly over, Monday's hospital is generally very busy, I don't want to be late and queued for a long time.
I hung up the number, paid the fee, only to find that the place where the B ultrasound was not in the outpatient building, through several buildings, walked through a long corridor, and finally arrived at the outside of the B ultrasound room on the second floor of the third building, and there was still 2 minutes just three o'clock.
The staff in charge of the platoon number let me sign an informed consent form, I glanced at it first, and found that it was to inform the role and limitations of the B ultrasound, first stand and sign, and then look at it slowly!
< h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > the limitations of the three-dimensional B-ultrasound</h1>
The rush made my heart beat so hard that there was still someone checking inside, and I could sit down and rest for a while and use this time to read the informed consent form. The main and most critical meaning of this notice is that "B ultrasound can only exclude most of the deformities, and cannot find all the deformities"? The ears, toes, genitals, deformities that can be found at a glance after the birth of these children are not easy to detect during the fetal period. Seeing my heart sinking, I immediately understood that this is actually a risk notice, if the child is found to have some deformities that cannot be checked by the B ultrasound after birth, it is not the responsibility of the hospital, it is an objective risk. The progress of science and technology also takes time, and even advanced technology is not omnipotent. I had learned before that routine obstetric examinations could not detect mental and genetic diseases, so I immediately accepted this reality helplessly.
When checking the B ultrasound, the doctor reminded the limitations of the B ultrasound again, and I said that I understood it, because I had just read the informed consent form. They immediately breathed a sigh of relief, saying that a pregnant woman before them could not understand how to explain. In fact, if the B ultrasound wants to exclude all deformities, it is almost impossible, then it may not be able to do two tests a day. The development of children is a dynamic process, and the next thing I have to do is check the B ultrasound regularly.
Do your best, obey the destiny, what else can you do. Giving birth to a child is too much like smoking a blind box.
On the day that the pregnancy test could not find autism, I discussed this matter with my husband, and he said very frankly, no, we do not have any bad habits. I said, what if? He said, there's no way, we just did what we had to do, and we don't owe him. Well, he's right, one of the benefits of having a nervous husband is that he's very good at lifting weights, and I can easily relax.
No wonder I have heard people say before that before the child is born, his parents only hope that he is healthy, and when he is healthy and healthy, he gradually has higher and higher expectations for him. This change in the mind of parents is also in line with human psychology. At the beginning, we tried our best to get a good thing, thinking that if we got it, we would be complete, but once we got it, we took it for granted, we saw him as a common thing, and instead we had new expectations, higher and higher expectations, and always desire dissatisfaction.
My current state is still stuck, I hope that the child will be born healthily. His future, who knows what will happen, what kind of parents he has, whether the family is rich, what school he attends... Two school bully children may also be very ordinary, not to mention that my husband and I are not school bully, the expectations for children, do not dare to be too high, I hope he can grow up healthy and safe, to be a mentally sound, emotionally stable child.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > amount, the child's appearance is really not flattering</h1>
When I got the report sheet, I immediately went to see his (her) "photo", the little person, the face has developed relatively clearly, the big forehead and face shape seem to be like a husband, the nose and nostrils are so big, the lips are very thick... Oh, this look really does not dare to compliment, I took a photo and sent it to my husband, he also said, so ugly. I can't refute it...
Ah, the heart.
Sorry, kid, we talked so much about what you look like! People like good-looking people, because there are too many advantages in good looks, so we don't want you to lose too much in looks. However, the appearance of your parents is here, and you can't expect your genetic mutation to grow into a big handsome guy or a big beauty in the future. If you don't add points to your looks, let's eat by strength! In the end, life is to be happy, healthy and healthy.
Oh, boy, who the hell are you like? Three-dimensional B super photo resolution of course and photos can not be compared, you may be a little better looking, right? Your appearance will change, what will you be like when you are born? Like me or like your dad? He said if you're too ugly, consider taking you to a facelift early. I think he must be talking about playing.
