Marry someone without marrying a mother and a man, and marrying a wife without marrying a brother-in-law.
Regardless of men and women, the marriage is not clear, the small family will be tired of "everyone", in the original work of "Know It or Not", there are two women who have no bottom line to supplement the mother's family.
One was Lady Yuan, the eldest lady of the Zhongqin Bo Mansion, who was Hua Lan's mother-in-law.
Lady Yuan is an evil mother-in-law. The eldest son married his niece, Lady Yuan simply held the eldest daughter-in-law in the palm of her hand, after Hualan entered the door, Lady Yuan could not see that Hualan was doing well, and she had been calculating to pinch Hualan.
To Yuan Wenshao's room, the people who kept plugging up, to be pregnant Hualan stood in the rules, and even in order to pinch Hualan, even his own grandson could calculate, in order for his daughter Yuan Wenying to marry decently, Lady Yuan did not want to pay for herself, so she forced Hualan to hand over the good land that came to Hualan to marry.
This move of his mother completely chilled Yuan Wenshao's heart, and at that time, the Sheng family was on the way, where did Yuan Wenshao dare to let Hualan be wronged, so Yuan Wenshao stabbed his mother's behavior in front of his father.
Lady Yuan was not ashamed to worry about her daughter-in-law's dowry, but felt that since Hua Lan had married into the Yuan family, the dowry was all of the Yuan family. Uncle Yuan felt that Lady Yuan's oil and salt could not enter, so he showed the Book of Hugh placed in the ancestral hall, and Lady Yuan was sad to do it.
There is a way that only a thousand days to be a thief, where there is a thousand days to prevent thieves, Lady Yuan still covets Hualan's dowry, from time to time to Find Hualan is not happy, and later Minglan gave Hualan an idea, gave Yuan Boye a noble concubine, since then, Hualan's life has been much calmer.
This noble concubine Aunt Zhang is a person with a clear heart, she knows that in order to gain a foothold in the Zhongqin Bo Mansion, it is not enough to have the favor of Uncle Yuan, it is inevitable to have a backer, and Aunt Zhang's choice is Hualan's room, when
Lady Yuan also thought that the children and grandchildren of the Yuan family were gradually increasing, and there were not enough houses to live in, so she wanted to expand the courtyard in the back garden of the Bo Mansion, and when she proposed to Hua Lan to 'turn around' some silver, Aunt Zhang blew the pillow wind in a timely manner, and Uncle Yuan immediately asked for a thorough investigation of the accounts of the Bo Mansion.
Under thorough investigation, I learned that Mrs. Yuan took a lot of silver money from the account every year to take it to help her mother's family, and later she also did business under the help of her brother and sister-in-law, and the money was lost.
After the Yuan family was removed from the plaque, they have been diligent and thrifty in running the family, but they did not expect that the savings saved by the previous generation were half lost by Lady Yuan, and even Lady Yuan's beloved eldest son and daughter-in-law were resentful of her, no matter how Noisy Mrs. Yuan made trouble, the big house did not say anything to help.
Mrs. Yuan's bad is all bright and shaky, while another woman who has no bottom line to supplement her mother's family is doing evil in the anger of others.
This woman is He Hongwen's mother, He Mu.
Mother He has been lying sick in bed for many years, giving people the feeling of being soft and weak, but everything you see she does is like taking a knife to cut her son's heart.
He Hongwen marrying Sheng Minglan is the best choice in the current society, and when Mother He learned that her sister's family had returned to the capital with amnesty, she constantly forced Sheng Minglan, who had not yet passed through the door, to accept Cao Jinxiu as a concubine.
Mother He did not know that the Cao family had fallen, but she was full of thoughts, that is my sister, I want to save her and her daughter out of the sea of suffering. And how Cao Jinxiu's mother and daughter treated Mother He, full of lies, showed off their affection in front of Mother He.
Cao Jinxiu at first said that he was guarding He Hongwen like a jade, and later learned under the investigation of Mrs. He that Cao Jinxiu had already made a concubine room for others, and He Jinxiu only felt that Cao Jinxiu was forced after knowing the truth, and such a life was even more pitiful, and He Hongwen should take Cao Jinxiu into the door.
The turmoil between Mother He and the Cao family led to the marriage between He Hongwen and Sheng Minglan completely yellow, Old Lady He was completely angry, and He Hongwen also resented his mother, but Mother He still cried and pleaded every day, and must let Cao Jinxiu enter the door.
After Cao Jinxiu entered the door, Mother He was still supplementing her sister's family, and she kept saying good things about Cao Jinxiu in front of He Hongwen, forcing her son to be close to Cao Jinxiu and wanting them to cultivate their feelings well in their lifetime, so that even if they were gone, Cao Jinxiu could gain a firm foothold in the He family.
It is said that the love of parents and sons is far-reaching.
He Mother's various deeds to He Hongwen are simply not like what a mother has done, the future and happiness of her son, she completely disregards it, and in her eyes she only has a poor big son of her sister, holding a weak posture, but doing the most lethal things, and on such a mother, He Hongwen is really unlucky.
Whether it is Lady Yuan or Mother He, they are women who have no bottom line to supplement their mother's family and cannot be clear, these two women are disgusted by their husbands, and they really do not know whether to describe them as deserved or pitiful.
Maybe it is the husband's family's reluctance to see, help the mother's family, let them find their own sense of value, but their help in exchange for something, their own blessings are also patched up together.
Regardless of men and women, after marriage, they still have to focus on their own small family, but everyone can understand this truth, and there will not be so many unfair things.
Expecting confused people to understand is a long way to go.