01. People who don't like it, so refuse
Kang Yuan'er wanted Minglan to embroider something for her, but Minglan politely refused and took Hualan as a reason.
In "Know It or Not", Kang Yuan'er is as disliked as her mother, really responds to the above is not correct, the lower beam is crooked, the mother is a confused person, the daughter of education is also as unpleasant as her, and there is nothing wrong with the copy of the child being a parent.
Kang Yuan'er is the daughter of Rulan's sister (aunt) family, living in the Sheng family, others respect her because of Mrs. Wang, making her seem to be the big miss of the Sheng family, talking as harsh and mean as her mother, and like to make things out of nothing, so even Mo Lan does not like her.
Because Kang Yuan'er is in her own home because she is a concubine, her mother is more spoiled, so she bullies her brothers and sisters at home, and everywhere she goes, she will be able to talk to Minglan, even If Lan usually does not dare to talk to Minglan like that, let alone her?
In addition, Kang Yuan'er calculated that Minglan did not regard her as his own, the Baichasheng family did not have her, And Minglan gave it to the Hualan family Wen miao as his own share, so that Kang Yuan'er could not calculate it, after all, compared with her own daughter, Mrs. Wang was more to her daughter.
At this time, she wanted tea to fail, and began to ask Minglan when the two accounts that she had let her help her mother embroider before were good, Minglan replied that it was far away, just made a belly pocket for Brother Shi and brother, such as Lan asked if the belly pocket was two, Minglan hinted that it was.
In this way, it seems that Minglan's cleverness is that sending things also has Rulan's share, so that Rulan has face, and he has won over Rulan, so that Rulan can help himself more in the future.
Let's explain that brother and brother Are one is The grandson of Mrs. Wang, the other is the grandson, but they are both their own families, but she Kang Yuan'er belongs to outsiders after all, so Kang Yuan'er can't sue.
Because doing belly pockets says that Rulan did it, Rulan naturally wants to be affectionate and will not help her cousin to bully her sister, it can be seen that Minglan's refusal is also just right, that is, not to offend people, and let her say no reason.
Like Kang Yuan'er blamed Minglan for the white tea thing, she didn't want her to have anything to do with Minglan herself, and she took it for granted that she wanted something, she thought it was in her own home.
02. People who can't see themselves clearly are the saddest
Kang Yuan'er disliked Minglan for doing things slowly, and Minglan deliberately changed the topic, suggesting that Rulan could have a few more sisters, and there would be more people doing this
Minglan refused Kang Yuan'er's unreasonable request, and then changed the topic to say that the Sheng family had a sister of their own, wanted needle and thread well, and could let the fifth sister want more sisters, so that Rulan did not like to ask for the heart of the sister, and satirized that the sisters out of their family were not in the Y ring, doing heavy work at home every day, and she was a concubine who bullied the old bully.
It can be seen that Kang Yuan'er's father is more careful, there are more wives and concubines, followed by Aunt Kang's heart is relatively small, can not tolerate other children, whether growing up or marrying people are the worst, only afraid of being better than them, which makes their family more and more defeated.
A good mother affects three generations, although Mrs. Wang does not like women, but she will never abuse or use bad eyes, which is much better than Aunt Kang.
But Kang Yuan'er couldn't see his identity clearly at all, which is why he was so stubborn.
03. People like Kang Yuan'er don't like to reject it directly
A person like Kang Yuan'er is more self-centered, everything is centered on me, has become accustomed to doing this, and does his own thing, a little dissatisfied with the feeling that others do not regard her as a family, but she never knows that she is old in the Sheng family, and she is still from her own family.
Just like Mo Lan pointed out and scolded Huai, saying that Xiye and Xizhi could not be compared, Laozi's forces were different, and it was also implied that Kang Yuan'er and Rulan had no way to compare, which made Kang Yuan'er very angry, but she could not resist.
Therefore, people like Kang Yuan'er who can't be clear are very annoying, and they should be their own homes everywhere, and when they meet such people, they directly refuse, saying that eating soft and afraid of hard Lords is really annoying.