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The vast majority of really powerful people are quiet. People who are high-profile in everything and like to be admired very much are often not so powerful.
In "Know It or Not", on the duan position, the Big Lady of the Sheng Family who is grinning a lot must be far inferior to the Lin Xiaoniang who knows how to dress, because all the thoughts and emotions of the Grand Lady of the Sheng Family are on the surface.
People with heavy hearts like to "pretend", they all have two faces, and they like to pretend to be good people, and in order to get a good name, they all do all kinds of shady tricks behind their backs.
People who are "talented" and lose their virtues, even if they have a thousand calculations in their hearts, they will eventually lose their calculations to God. Lin Jiaoshuang, the Gu family lady is also a little bit smart, the reason why they have not been able to have a good end, all stem from "loss of morality", even if they pretend to be virtuous and pretend to be understanding...
In "Know It or Not", those who act quietly and low-key are often the more patterned people, such as: the old lady of the Sheng family, Grandma Kong...
The Sheng family can have such a development, thanks to the credit of the old lady of the Sheng family. When Sheng Hong was difficult to decide, he always went to the old lady to ask for advice, which was enough to prove how simple the old lady of the Sheng family was.
Although Minglan is talented and intelligent, she is also trained by the old lady of the Sheng family, so Minglan can be orderly in the face of things, can give advice to the empress, and can have courage and strategy when seeking justice for her grandmother.
The old lady of the Sheng family is not a person who likes to join in the fun, so she never easily argues about other people's private affairs and lives her own small life with peace of mind.
The quietness of the old lady of the Sheng family is not the cowardice of retreating in the face of an incident, but the great enlightenment after experiencing the world, so she guards the boundary, does not involve her bottom line, never interferes too much in other people's affairs, and does not easily give advice to others.
The "quietness" of the old lady of the Sheng family with boundaries and strategies also allows people to obey her from the heart.
Stillness gives birth to wisdom, and stillness is a transcendent attitude, able to see the truth and essence of life and live out the true meaning of life.
Women who can be "quiet" in these few things are mostly not simple.
First, they rarely publicize their achievements outside
Powerful women often rarely say their "merits" to the outside world, even if others mention their "achievements", they will attribute the credit to the help of others and weaken their own merits.
In the crowd, people's egos are constantly competing for energy, striving to get more appreciation and attention. At this time, active people may not be really strong, and those who are really powerful often stay quiet in their seats with a peaceful attitude.
In "Know It or Not", even though Minglan did make a difference and got the queen to go down, she always hung up herself as "stupid", did not dare to speak up, did not take credit for herself, was particularly quiet and low-key, and appeared very inconspicuous.
Mo Lan regards himself as high, thinks of himself as talented, loves to stand out, loves to show off, and loves to climb high skills. Although she has some talent, in the end, her love is obvious, which makes people understand that she is far less powerful than Minglan.
Truly powerful people are often humble, because they are rich in their hearts and do not need to take anything from the outside to show their value.
Second, never judge other people's private affairs
Women's nature is to like "gossip", that is, because the curiosity is too strong, so they like to talk about other people's private affairs in private.
Really powerful women often don't like to get together, especially don't like to get together and talk about other people's private affairs.
If someone comes to her and talks about someone else's private affairs, she will often listen quietly, but she will not express any opinions, and she will never pass them on afterwards.
Smart women don't like to spend too much time and energy on irrelevant things, so they don't want to talk about right and wrong.
Smart women, in fact, are more border-bounds and care more about moral qualities, so she never judges other people's lives by her own standards.
She often just respects everyone's choices as a bystander, but at the same time maintains her own principles of life, quietly being a bystander in other people's worlds, and concentrating on her own life.
This kind of woman is too wise and too patterned, so whenever someone comes to her to talk, she will listen patiently and quietly, and when she is a good listener and confidential, she will never easily give advice to others, because she knows that for most people, telling someone about their troubles is not to get a solution, just to find someone to vent their emotions.
A smart woman has a strategy in her heart, but she will not speak easily, she will approve of the emotions and needs of others, because she deeply understands that a person who does not want to change from the heart, even if you talk about more ways to solve difficulties is useless.
If someone really asks her for advice and is eager to get a solution to the difficulty, she will also humbly point out and give you enough space to "become enlightened."
In "Know It or Not", the old lady of the Sheng family is a wise old man, she rarely cares about other people's business, one is to guard the boundary, and the other is that everyone needs guidance from others, so sometimes Minglan's presumptuous initiative to solve problems for others The old lady will feel inappropriate.
The old lady of the Sheng family did not act selfishly, but was too aware of human nature and the world. If someone really asks for advice, she will also give guidance, just like Minglan's sister can't give birth to a boy, or the old lady of the Sheng family thinks of a way, let Hualan go home and give Mrs. He a needle...
Third, act in a low-key manner and speak quietly
People who act impetuously and do things too emotionally always say more than they do at work, or want to do more than they do, so they always stand still.
This kind of person, the ability to resist pressure is relatively weak, so it is likely that there will be many complaints at work, like to use language to pour out their emotions, rather than focus on work.
Great women tend to be quiet, especially at work.
Quiet is not without emotions, but when encountering difficulties, she will use her rational brain to overcome the emotional fluctuations, let herself try to calm down, and then concentrate on thinking about solutions.
Smart people are focused on doing their work well, so most of them do more things and talk less when they work, so they appear low-key and cautious in words and deeds.
If a woman can be "quiet" in these three things, then it means that she is not simple, has great wisdom inside, knows how to look inward, and concentrates on her life.
May each of us be closer to the truth of life, maintain peace and joy, and find our way home.
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