There is a kind of marriage, which is jokingly called garbage marriage by many netizens. Although this word is harsh, it is not an exaggeration to describe the reality of marriage for many people. The so-called garbage marriage is completely for the sake of marriage.
There is no emotional basis, no business awareness, after marriage are tortured; only the expectation of the other party, do not realize that they also need to change; after marriage are demanding each other; when they encounter problems, they will only quarrel, quarrels can not be controlled, and in the end, they will not end without distinguishing who is right and who is wrong; they all hope that the other party will pay, compromise, and hope that the other party can consider themselves more, and no one is willing to give in.
Marriages like this are bound to divorce, but it is only a matter of time. Maybe you will say that anyone's marriage can have this situation, is it all a garbage marriage? Yes, in fact, every marriage will be more or less this situation, but the garbage marriage is garbage because both people are not willing to work hard to keep the marriage in a garbage state.
【Law 1: Zero communication】
Back home, you play your phone, I watch my TV; you play games, I chase Korean dramas. Even sitting on the same couch, it's two completely different worlds. How destructive is "0 communication" to marriage? The so-called "closest relatives and estranged couples" are the most intimate couples in the world; the most distant in the world is also a husband and wife.
【Law 2: Unequal Giving】
Marriage is an equal combination of two people and requires common effort, compromise, understanding and support. When the "unequal pay" state continues, it means that the other party has thrown all the obligations and responsibilities of the marriage to you. Yeah, that's better than leaving, saying that you have to shield me from the wind and rain, and as a result, you are the biggest storm in my life.
【Law No. 3: There is always no time for companionship】
There is no reason or excuse, if your lover doesn't even have time to accompany you to dinner in a day, it is not important and does not care. Even if the lazy person has an interview at 7 a.m. the next morning or wants to catch a plane, he will definitely set the alarm clock at 6 o'clock, and set it many times in a row. Because of the importance, we will find ways to do it. There is no time to accompany a dinner a day, and any excuse is the embodiment of not paying attention to this relationship, and such a lack of companionship must be a garbage marriage.
【Law No. 4: Attention Dilution】
Man, absent heart. This is attention dilution. When newly married, the beautiful promises and expectations when they are together, why do they end up with a vendetta and an end of old and dead. I used to want to end up with you, but now I just want to end up with you quickly. This is the reality in many people's marriages.
Law 5: Sexless Marriage
Come home every night. The husband and wife each played with their own mobile phones, and when it was time to go to bed, the two of them each covered a bed, turned off the lights, and did not have the slightest hormone breath, so they slept.
This is true not only for men, but also for many women.
Even in sexless marriages, women are acceptable if the husband is constantly complimented and cared for. In fact, in sexless marriages, husbands basically turn a blind eye to their wives. The same is true for men.
Behind the sexless marriage, it is not only a sexual problem, but a problem of the needs of both parties, and it is better to turn a blind eye in marriage than to really disappear.
Law 6: Cold Violence
Cold violence, another form of violence, does not require punches and kicks, does not bring physical pain, but can make your mind full of holes.
How can it be improved?
Writer Zhou Zhou said it well: "Marriage is a long run starting from love, whether this love can always push you to the end, in addition to love, but also depends on your persistence, but also depends on your rhythm." "
Any successful marriage is achieved by hard work. People whose marriage is not smooth, in the case of knowing in advance through the eight-character marriage prediction, to find the appropriate person in numerology to combine, while avoiding some bad emotional state of the flow of years, will also be conducive to emotional development. Therefore, life depends on cultivation, marriage also depends on cultivation, and their own changes and efforts will play a beneficial role in the path of feelings.
The eight characters not only contain the message of wealth and poverty, but also show the signs of bad marriage.
Analyze your marriage from your own numerology in advance, find the key problems, try to resolve the problems, and actively play well, so that you will find that the world is so beautiful and life can be so happy!