As the heroine, Sheng Minglan definitely has a protagonist aura, but in the original work, Sheng Minglan does not have such a strong protagonist aura, in my opinion, meeting the old lady Sheng who loves her, cares for her, and is resourceful, is her strongest protagonist aura. Without her grandmother, Sheng Minglan would not be able to become a winner in life.
In fact, without mrs. Sheng's many mentions, it would be difficult for the Sheng family to prosper. When Mrs. Sheng met a scumbag, she was dead set on love and marriage, and concentrated on raising her son Sheng Xuan for him to study, and chose Wang Ruofu, the daughter of Taishi, as her wife, and repeatedly dialed him to deal with official affairs. Under the cultivation of Mrs. Sheng, although Sheng Xuan was sometimes not very reliable, spoiled concubines and killed wives, and was eccentric, he was still generally powerful, conscientious as an official, never ventured in, strictly taught his children, and chose suitable objects for his children, and finally revitalized the Sheng family.
In addition to Sheng Xuan, the marriage of the two boys of the Sheng family, Sheng Changbai and Sheng Changfeng, was also run by Mrs. Sheng herself. In addition to Sheng Minglan and Sheng Molan, who was disgusted by the whole family, Mrs. Sheng also gave many advice to other girls.
As for Sheng Minglan, she was even more favored by Mrs. Sheng. Although Sheng Minglan's soul is a modern person, when she first came, she was just a daughter who had lost her mother and was not much concerned by her father, and she had no one to rely on, if it were not for Mrs. Sheng raising her under her knees and taking good care of her, It would be difficult for Sheng Minglan to grow up on her own.
After reading the original work of "Knowing or Not" several times, Mrs. Sheng raised Sheng Minglan richly, and overall used 4 tricks. With mrs. Sheng's 4-point richness, Minglan can live well no matter who she marries.
First, whether boys or girls want to have vision, they must learn;
After Sheng Minglan arrived at her room, Mrs. Sheng focused on two things, one was to improve the food, let Sheng Minglan eat well, grow more meat, and have a good body, and the other was to stare at Sheng Minglan's homework.
Sheng Hualan wanted to give it to the Zhongqin Earl's Palace, and in order to help her adapt to the life of the rich, Mrs. Sheng invited her old friend Grandma Kong to the palace to teach Sheng Hualan the etiquette rules, and also sent sheng Minglan and the three little girls over.
...... Last night I took off my old face and begged Grandma Kong to let her work harder, and when I taught the big girl, I also took the rest of the little girls with me, although they were still young, but listen to them and look at them, and it was better to increase their cultivation..."
Mr. Zhuang went out of the mountain, and Sheng Xuan also sent his daughters over, and his point of view with Mrs. Sheng was the same: "Although the girl's family does not need to learn to be full of economics, but for people to live in the world, reason is the first thing to do, and it is also good to understand more reason, so as not to go out in the future to be laughed at by people." ”
After that, Sheng Minglan also studied female red under the guidance of Fang's mother, and when Sheng Minglan moved to Huanruixuan to have her own cottage, Mrs. Sheng supported her behind her back and gave advice, so that she could learn to be a housekeeper, learn to control the bearded woman, and the income and expenditure of silver money.
Boys and girls, if they want to have vision, they must learn, as long as they study, they can have a long insight and learn from their predecessors the experience of dealing with the world.
Second, it is indispensable to raise a daughter and teach a correct view of marriage;
When Mrs. Sheng was dealing with some things, she would not avoid Sheng Minglan, and from the very beginning, she did not intend to raise Sheng Minglan into a flower in the greenhouse. When Sheng Minglan makes mistakes and does things that make him dissatisfied, Mrs. Sheng will also punish Sheng Minglan fiercely, and education and punishment will go together to avoid Sheng Minglan from taking a detour.
For example, Zhu Manniang ran to the Yu family to make trouble, angered Yu Yanran's grandmother, so that Yu Yanran was helpless, Sheng Minglan took the initiative to go out for the sake of her girlfriend's two ribs, and a word without loopholes blocked Zhu Manniang's dumb mouth and had to get out of the egg in gray.
After Mrs. Sheng knew about it, she was very angry and reprimanded Sheng Minglan for being in the limelight, only because Mrs. Sheng knew that girls were too prominent and had a strong mouth, and they would suffer hardships.
"The old lady is angry that you are in the Yu family, it is also a piece of bitterness, you know, the daughter's family is strong in the heart, the strength in the face is to suffer losses, not only to make people slander, but also not necessarily to the top!" The more powerful that is, the more you can't see it on your face! ”
When Sheng Shulan and left, Mrs. Shengda and Mrs. Sheng allowed Sheng Minglan and Sheng Pinlan, two unmarried girls, to observe the scene and let them grow up and see.
When you are a parent, you are most distressed about your daughter, and don't raise your daughter into a flower in a greenhouse like Yu Yanran. No matter how capable you are, you can't protect your daughter for a lifetime, and you can't do anything for your daughter. If you want your daughter to live well, you must let your daughter go through some trials, personally deal with some things, and let your daughter learn from experience in order to apply what she has learned.
Third, pick the right spouse, and the marriage will be more than half successful;
In choosing a husband for Sheng Minglan, Mrs. Sheng used a lot of thought.
She has seen Li Yu, seen Tai Sheng, and belonged to He Hongwen, only because she and He Hongwen's grandmother, Mrs. He, are handkerchief friends and understand the situation of the other family, if it were not for Cao Jinxiu coming out to stir up trouble, He Hongwen was gentle and elegant, his ability was outstanding, his mother was weak and sickly, the portal was simple, and it was a good match.
However, when Cao Jinxiu came out, Mrs. Sheng knew that He Hongwen was not a superior choice and was not willing to marry his granddaughter to him.
As for Gu Tingye, Mrs. Sheng's attitude towards him changed from resolute opposition to acceptance, also because Gu Tingye proved herself. Gu Tingye's meticulous calculation to marry Sheng Minglan shows his importance to Sheng Minglan, and he has not been able to marry Sheng Minglan easily, and naturally he will not treat Sheng Minglan badly.
"It's okay! Someone beats you up with all their heart, it's better than getting cheap and selling well! ”
Pick the right spouse, and the marriage will be more than half successful. When the parents who really love their daughters look at their son-in-law, their character, economic conditions, door style, native family, and especially their in-laws will be screened.
Fourth, no matter when, money is the basis for women to live a good life.
After finalizing the marriage between Sheng Minglan and Gu Tingye, Mrs. Sheng began to prepare a dowry for Sheng Minglan.
"Grandmother!" Minglan finally couldn't listen to it anymore, just the village mountains and forests alone added up to seven or eight thousand taels, she couldn't help but interject, "These silver is enough to marry a lady of the gongfu, I can use this better!" ...... Besides, you also have to keep some leanings, as the saying goes, a thousand children are not as good as the silver around you... ouch! ”
In that era, the task of a woman was to marry and teach her children, to handle family affairs, to honor her in-laws, not to produce, and to have no income. Therefore, in order to let their daughter straighten her waist in the husband's family and not be looked down upon by the in-laws, the parents will give their daughters a rich dowry, so that the daughters can have money to use, and will not reach out to the in-laws for money as soon as they encounter things.
No matter when it comes, money is the basis for women to live a good life. With money, women's waist rods are hard, do not have to rely on people's sniffles, and will not obviously pay a lot for the family and be tied to a hat that does not make money and does not contribute. If the marriage fails and there is money in the body, the woman will at least have a good way back.
Raising a rich daughter is not as simple as saying it, nor is it just throwing money at it.
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