The matter of love has always been the vision of those who have not yet had it, and those who have already had it experience the happiness and beauty in it.
Although there will be bumps and bumps, but those are all stepping stones to motivate each other to become better, as long as you work hard, love will become very aggressive.
For women, the luckiest thing in this life is to find someone they like and who is also very much about themselves.
In this way, we will not worry about whether the other person loves himself or not, because the appearance of such a person will dispel all our worries and tell us that he has been and will never leave.
It's just that we don't know how to determine a man's feelings, not sure whether his so-called likes are long-lasting or short-lived.
We hope that that love can stand up to scrutiny, and we also hope that from green silk to white hair, the person who accompanies us has always been him.
Psychology has found that in a relationship between the sexes, after a man is emotional about you, there will be three "allows", don't know.
Body language: Allow you to have intimate physical contact with him
There is a law of the cup in psychology, that is, when we want to determine whether a person accepts himself in his heart, he can put the cup near the other person's cup when he has finished drinking water.
If the other party removes the cup, it means that the other party has not accepted us in his heart, and there is still rejection;
If the other person does not move away, then it means that the other party has accepted us in their hearts.
In the same way, the same is true of two people's physical contact.
If we don't like a person, then the other person is close to ourselves, we will not adapt, we will instinctively reject, let alone physical contact;
If we like a person, then when the distance between each other's space is closer, we may be shy, we may be embarrassed, we will be helpless, but there will never be rejection or dislike.
The book The Five Languages of Love says: "Physical contact can establish or destroy a relationship, it can convey hatred or love." For people whose primary love language is physical contact, the touch of the body is far better than the words 'I hate you' or 'I love you'. ”
A person's body language represents his knee-jerk reaction, and spatial distance also indicates the intimacy of their relationship to a certain extent.
So, a man's body language is also a truth worth trusting.
In terms of the way you get along: allow you to be unscrupulous and unrestrained in front of him
In Sanmao's book "Sahara Desert", there is a content "Desert Hotel", which tells the story of Sanmao and her husband Jose, who opened an interesting Chinese hotel in the desert where materials are relatively scarce.
Most of the ingredients were mailed by Sanmao's mother, among which there were fans, sanmao made an ant on the tree with vermicelli, and Jose ate it for the first time and thought it was particularly delicious.
Moreover, he had never met a fan, so he asked Sanmao what it was.
Sanmao played with his heart and said that it was rain.
Jose was obviously not able to do so, saying that Sanmao was teasing himself.
Sanmao said that in China, after every rain, these "rains" will grow out in the ground, bundle by bundle, and then people will cut it down and tie it well, and cook a little when they eat it.
Jose was half-convinced, but after a few days, he pestered Sanmao to make "rain" for himself to eat.
In the presence of people who do not love themselves, we are forced to become an adult;
And in the presence of those who love ourselves, we become a child.
Because we know that no matter what we look like, whether we are mature, naïve, or nonsensical, all the looks will be liked by the other party.
And the other party also happens to do just that, if not emotional, childish childish will only feel bored, if emotional, then childish childishness will become cute.
In the future of life: allow you to have your presence at every step of his future
In the movie "Palace Lock Agarwood", Liu Li thought that Brother Jiu liked herself and would marry herself, so she waited with joy for the day when Brother Nine would marry herself.
However, Brother Nine never had any affection for her from beginning to end.
In the face of Ruri's joyful inquiry, Brother Nine scoffed, thinking that she was really whimsical, what identity she was, and what identity she was.
How could a brother of his own, a nobleman, condescend to marry a palace maid?
It can be seen that the so-called scene is like this.
George Bernard Shaw once said: "At this moment, there are about twenty thousand people in this world who are in tune with your soul, depending on which one you meet by fate." ”
And after the emotion, you will care about this person who has a fate with yourself, and you will think that in every day in the future, there will be the participation of the other party, and you will follow the steps.
Those who are just scene-making people, they must be impatient in dealing with feelings, they must be hot for three minutes.
They don't give each other any promises, and of course, there are very few actions to actually take.
Because they know that they won't have the other person's involvement in their future, there is no need to spend time and energy to give the other party a promise that is simply impossible to fulfill.