Zhuang Di Xiaomeng / Seeing the essence through the story
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It was once thought that men and women are two completely different creatures, and women are more inclined to be emotional, easy to be impulsive when things happen, and often bad things because of emotions.
Men, on the other hand, are mostly rational, they know what real life is like and will not be deceived by others.
But recently it was found that "poisonous chicken soup" poisons not only women, but also men.
Women immersed in "poisonous chicken soup" are all ages, while the men who believe in "poisonous chicken soup" are mostly leftover men over 30 years old.
They may cover their ears and use this way to confuse themselves, or they may really believe those words, but no matter how they say them, they are harmful and useless.
Poisonous chicken soup that is spreading to men
Most of the poisonous chicken soup comes from the Internet, especially some video websites, and there are often some bloggers who tell you things that have nothing to do with reality.
Although what they say is fantastic, there are still many people who believe it, and they just rely on pleasing some people to get traffic.
Those poisonous chicken soups aimed at men can be roughly divided into the following two types.
First, the older men get, the more valuable they are
What men have forty-one flowers, the older men are, the more valuable they are, these words are very common in the Network.
They tell men that age doesn't matter to men, as long as they have money.
But everyone never thought that as long as you have money, these few words are enough to beat 90% of men.
The older men get, the more valuable they are, referring to those men who have successful careers and stand at the top of the pyramid, and the reason why they are valuable is not because they are men, but because they stand at the top of the pyramid.
Many people do not understand this truth, they will only attribute all their advantages to gender, thinking that they can also share a piece of the pie, and it is really sad to think about it carefully.
Second, men who are over 30 years old will feel old for their peers
I don't know when I can often brush up on some videos of men who start to dislike their peers after 30 and just want to marry girls in their early 20s.
After the older single men brush up, I am afraid that they will think that this is the norm in the world, and they will even think that they do not dislike their peers and are a little out of place.
In fact, this is just a poisonous chicken soup to fool them, because the blogger next door also has a special pair of poisonous chicken soup for women - I would rather marry a second-married man than an older leftover man.
What are the consequences of lifting you up to the sky in front of you and stepping you into the dirt in front of girls? Makes you more unpopular in front of women, and also accelerates self-inflation, so that you will have a hard time getting off the list for the rest of your life.
Everyone only knows how to believe in poisonous chicken soup, but they have never considered a question, you can't marry girls in your twenties in your 20s, do you still have the capital to hate your peers in your 30s and marry girls in your twenties?
This in itself is a false proposition.
Third, girls like uncles
Many people tell you that girls like uncles, because uncles are mature and stable, so many 30-year-old leftover men begin to rejoice, they think they are loved by young girls.
But when they really go after young girls, they often backfire, and some even get angry rebukes from each other.
The uncle in the girl's mouth: tall and handsome, successful in career, dedicated and romantic; the uncle in the eyes of men: old.
It can be seen from this that what everyone is talking about is basically two completely different kinds of people.
Brutal real world
Because they have been living in an illusory network, many men have begun to forget the truest appearance of real life, so that they have missed many opportunities.
No matter how reality is always reality, it will not change with everyone's words.
"The Law of Two Eights": Most people are ordinary people all their lives
The biggest illusion of men is that they will become different in their 30s, in fact, most people who have achieved nothing in their 20s still achieve nothing in their 30s.
The only difference, about the same, is that they can do their best to lend a house, but they need to pay off the mortgage for decades.
Compared to themselves, they have made a little progress, but compared to the male group, they are still ordinary people.
Everyone must always believe in the law of two eight, in this world 80% of people are ordinary people, all their lives.
You don't have a successful career, you don't even have a career, at most you have a job that can support yourself, which is what most men look like.
It will be twice as difficult for the average man to marry after the age of 30
Men have to trust their parents because they are the people who love you the most in the world, they will not harm you, and their performance just happens to be your real situation.
They've been urging marriage in your 20s, hoping you can hurry up and finish your life events, and in your 30s, they're anxious like ants on a hot pot because they know how hard it is for a man to get married after 30.
They're people who come over, and they know too much about what real life really looks like, which is why they keep urging marriage and worrying.
Only by eliminating poisonous chicken soup can we avoid a tragic life
A man does not want to face a tragic life, he must stay away from poisonous chicken soup, because poisonous chicken soup has always been harmful.
First, get married early when you are young
You must understand one thing, for ordinary people, youth is the biggest capital, in the 20s you will be less difficult to get married, but once you pass the age of 30, it is another scene.
Therefore, getting married at a young age is the wisest thing any ordinary person has ever done.
Second, the mentality is peaceful, not high and far-reaching
Everyone must not listen to the internet poisonous chicken soup, think that they are a different person, in fact, people are not gender-specific, divided into only classes, ordinary men and women are the same, age is fatal to you.
You have to understand your true points to avoid high or low, if you waste even the last chance, you may not be able to get married in this life.
Original author of the Zhuang Di Xiaomeng/Emotional Column
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