Yang Guang discovered Li Hengji's secret, one of his houses actually lived a woman with a child, he was very angry at night to ask Li Hengji to come out to talk.
Yang Guang and Li Hengji are good friends, he has always hoped that Li Hengji and Niu Zhiling can reconcile, and he has been working hard to match in the middle.
At this meeting, Yang Guang did not turn around and directly asked Li Hengji, who lives in the house of Tianhaoyuan?
Lee Henderson said, this is a child I sponsored.
Yang Guang teased him and said, I believe that with your conditions, you will not be able to give birth to such a carved child.
It turned out that when Li Hengji was taking an elevator once, a little girl saw that he was looking at his mobile phone and reminded him: "Uncle don't look at the mobile phone." He thought the little girl was very kind, but then he learned that the little girl's mother always regarded the child as a cash cow, and he lent one of his own houses to the two of them for the sake of the child's good.
Li Hengji wondered how Yang Guang knew about this?
Yang Guang told him it was an "experimental primary school".
Li Hengji suddenly realized that it turned out that he went to the experimental primary school that day to watch the child's performance, and he put a sticker on his body, but he did not expect to be seen by his ex-wife Niu Zhiling.
In fact, Li Hengji has always liked children, but his ex-wife Niu Zhiling proposed not to have children before marriage, and Li Hengji also agreed at that time.
Yang Guang asked him, didn't you dislike children before?
Li Hengji said, "Before it was before, maybe you reached the age, and you began to think again, are you so hard, is this effort really just for yourself?" ”
Li Hengji originally agreed to the proposal not to have children because he loved Niu Zhiling, and now that he is middle-aged, he has gradually developed new questions about this matter, what is the purpose of everything he has worked hard to get? How did two people without children get to the point of divorce?
Yang Guang tentatively asked Li Hengji, you could have opposed it, but you didn't, so why do you regret it now?
Li Hengji quickly denied it, and I have no regrets!
He explains, "Even though I like kids now, I don't think I have to have one myself." And I've never told her about it. ”
Yang Guang asked him what he was thinking now?
Li Hengji asked Yang Guang helplessly, "Can you tell me what she thinks?" I've been married to her for so long, and you know that you tell me what I'm not doing well, even if I'm doing something bad, she can say it. She just kept making trouble, making a fuss and getting divorced, and I was in the clouds. ”
Yang Guang looked at his depressed brother, and for a moment he was speechless and could only sigh: Woman! It is indeed the hardest thing in the world to figure out.
The two talked and pulled out their lungs, and finally Li Hengji was drunk. But after getting drunk, his heart was still thinking of Niu Zhiling, and even the drunken words were "Why don't you tell me what I did wrong?" ”
At this time, Li Hengji was very pitiful, he still did not know why Niu Zhiling divorced himself, he always thought it was his fault, although he had been pursuing Niu Zhiling after the divorce, but the other party was hot and cold to make him scratch his head.
In fact, Li Hengji did not know that Niu Zhiling had been hiding a big secret from him for 15 years.
After Niu Zhiling came home from work, she saw her mother sitting on the sofa breathlessly.
When the mother asked her and Li Hengji what was wrong, Niu Zhiling still hid and avoided the question, until the old mother angrily threw the divorce certificate on the table, Niu Zhiling did not admit it.
The mother is very angry, angry that her daughter even has such a big thing as a divorce to hide from herself, in fact, she has long found that her daughter and son-in-law are not right, so she insisted on moving to her daughter's house, the purpose is to see if the couple is okay.
Mom cried and asked Niu Zhiling, why didn't you tell me sooner?
Niu Zhiling saw her mother crying, and said honestly, "When I graduated from college and entered the physical examination, the doctor told me that my uterus was smaller than normal and it might be difficult to have children in the future." But he didn't tell me that he was going to die and gave me a glimmer of hope. ...... Later, I married Henderson, and I didn't deliberately contraceptive, but I never got pregnant, so I knew that the possibility of getting pregnant was very, very small. ”
Therefore, Niu Zhiling did not tell Li Hengji about this matter, and she silently endured it.
Li Hengji is very good to her, taking care of her like a baby, if this matter is said, she is afraid that her image in Li Hengji's heart has become imperfect, and she is more afraid that Li Hengji's gene is not good for herself.
The mother was very upset with her daughter, but did not approve of her approach, she asked her daughter: "So, when he proposes to you, you let him agree not to have children?" ”
Niu Zhiling said: "No, mom, I told him very clearly at that time, he chose it himself." ”
Mom said, "Chi Ling, you are cheating!" ”
Niu Zhiling said: "I let him choose it himself, he can disagree." ”
Mom said in an aggravated tone: "You tell him the truth and let him choose, this is the choice." If you hide the truth and don't tell him, that's deception. Zhiling, you can't stand Henderson. ”
Niu Zhiling cried and said that she had made a lot of efforts to study medicine and medicine but there was no result, and I also wanted to have a child with him.
It is not terrible to have problems in marriage, but it is terrible to hide something from the other party and think that there is nothing wrong with what you have done. Niu Zhiling became fearless with Li Hengji's preference for herself.
She really wanted to give Lee Heung Ki a baby, but she also really cheated on Lee Hen Ki.
Barbara Angelis said: "Honesty, integrity and integrity are key components of a happy marriage. Knowing that "my lover will always treat me with sincerity" will bring you a great sense of security. ”
When your lover hides his life situation from you and lacks integrity in marriage, once you find out about his dishonesty, you will become suspicious, will reduce trust in him, and will also reduce the level of respect for him.
Niu Zhiling, she felt that she lied to Li Hengji that she did not like children, and chose to enter into marriage with herself? At that time, Lee Heng Ki, who did not know the truth, agreed because of love.
Niu Zhiling believes that this concept of stealing can not be deceived, so that he can get Li Hengji's love, and he can also secretly seek medical treatment to give birth to him, and even if he can't be born with ten thousand steps back, Li Hengji will not have any ideas.
Therefore, Niu Zhiling's mother said to the point that her daughter "told him the truth and let him choose, this is the choice." If you hide the truth and don't tell him, that's deception. ”
Niu Zhiling cried that she had not told Li Hengji the truth before, and it was even more impossible to tell him now. She was afraid that Lee Henderson would hate herself for the rest of her life.
Things have come to this point, there is no room for redemption, Niu Zhiling can only be wrong in this way.
Some people say that trust between people is like a piece of paper, once broken, it will not return to the original appearance.
The same is true of trust in marriage, which is difficult to repair once a rift occurs. Therefore, at the beginning, Niu Zhiling should be frank with Li Hengji to speak out the problem, and only on the basis of mutual trust can the marriage be firm.
And Li Hengji, who was in the dark, still didn't understand why Niu Zhiling divorced himself, and was still looking for his own mistakes, if one day he knew the truth, could he really accept it?