"Speak Well": Niu Zhiling and Li Hengji's little thing, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders

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Before, because of Liao Wang, his feelings about "Speak Well" were not very good, but for Wang Yaoqing, he then chased after it.

Fortunately, although it is still inseparable from the domineering president, the characters on TV have their own characteristics. It can be said that the drama is a good drama and it is worth watching.

It is obvious in the play that there are three pairs of protagonists and three emotional lines. In addition to the other two pairs, the more special is the couple played by Wang Yaoqing and his wife.

Others are happy that the enemy does not get together, and these two people start with Wang Bang and divorce.

The reason for the divorce turned out to be the reason for Niu Zhiling's body, and it was difficult to get pregnant. Before getting married, she did not tell Li Hengji, but deliberately said that she did not like children, so she did not want children in the future.

Now 15 years later, perhaps because of Li Hengji's performance, Niu Zhiling mistakenly believes that he actually wants a child. But with Niu Zhiling's pride and understanding of Li Hengji, she chose a divorce without excuses.

In Niu Zhiling's view, she was giving Li Hengji freedom. But in his heart, he loves Li Hengji deeply and does not want to divorce. Because of deep love, I thought of being good for each other, so I made a decision to divorce.

In this regard, Niu Zhiling represents the ideas of most people.

I believe that no matter whether the love is still in marriage, there are such people, because of their own problems, are not willing to drag each other down. So I thought of finding an excuse to let the other person leave me, so there was something to pretend that I had someone else, but actually had a bridge break in the terminal stage of cancer.

According to this view, Niu Zhiling's idea is correct.

After all, if you really love someone, you are not willing to let the other party be sad, and you are even more unwilling for the other party to accompany you to suffer and love tired.

But to be honest, this is just a one-sided idea.

Very cruel to the unwitting other.

In the name of being good for you, although it is good, it ignores the wishes and ideas of the parties.

In the play, Li Heung Ki has been trying to chase his wife. The two divorced, and he didn't take it seriously. Only when Niu Zhiling was playing with him, so he kept accompanying her and coaxing her.

Later, the cow mother came over and accidentally discovered the truth of Niu Zhiling's divorce. She knows that Li Hengji loves her own daughter, and she also knows that only Li Hengji is willing to spoil her daughter. As a mother, she does not want the two to be separated, so she persuades Niu Zhiling to tell Li Hengji the truth, believing that he has the right to know everything.

On the topic of children, Yang Guang also talked privately with Li Hengji, for Li Hengji, he loves Niu Zhiling, and it does not matter whether he has children or not.

Li Hengji, who loves Niu Zhiling deeply, is naturally fooled by her and has always been spoiled.

It's just like I said in the previous article, obviously the TV is called "Speak Well", and Niu Zhiling and Yang Guang, as the person in charge, are unwilling to speak well in the face of their own problems.

But when the two persuade each other, they have their own set of reasons. Niu Zhiling is well aware of Yang Guang's heart knot, and when choosing a case, she also intends to let Yang Guang contact it, hoping to let him sort out his family situation through these cases.

Interestingly, Yang Guang is willing to face himself truthfully because of Liao Wang.

Niu Zhiling also wanted to make it clear when she wanted to make it clear to Li Hengji, but Li Hengji sent An An to the hospital to see a doctor, and Niu Zhiling, who followed her, saw that scene.

Therefore, she was unwilling to make it clear to Li Hengji anymore.

But is the truth really as Niu Zhiling saw?

No, it's just that the two did not explain it clearly in time because of such and such things.

Therefore, the problem should be solved or it must be solved.

If Niu Zhiling had made a decision earlier, would all this misunderstanding have happened?

However, it can also be understood, as Yang Guang said, as long as things are not his business, he can always mediate on other people's problems.

Niu Zhiling is the same way, she does not want to face it, she thinks that her purpose is for the good of the other party, and she also thinks that doing this now is to let the other party be free and give the other party what she wants.

But in fact, she gave it, not what the other party wanted.

To put it bluntly, it is the authorities who are confused, and the bystanders who are clear.

There are some truths that everyone understands, but they just can't do it.

When we don't know, we can console ourselves that no one ever told us. Now after watching the play, combined with the two in the play, back to yourself, you can suddenly realize that it is not a good way to solve the problem by running away all the time.

At the beginning, we must be brave, speak out the problem, and face it together.

You know, the reason is understood, still not good now, it is our lack of behavioral power.

As the saying goes, practice produces the truth, and it is useless to be too alarmist when things have not happened.

It's going to rain, and the mother is going to get married. What should happen is still going to happen, and what should be faced has to be faced.

For Li Hengji, he didn't care at all whether Niu Zhiling could have children. And Niu Zhiling, it is not that she cannot be born.

The problem between the two of them is that there is information that is not common. Nowadays, all kinds of misunderstandings come out, if they are in real life, or other plots that are more dog-bloody.

Maybe Niu Zhiling made unreasonable trouble, and Li Hengji was unwilling to explain. Then Niu Zhiling has a small fresh meat to pursue herself, Niu Zhiling's series of behaviors are also confusing, and finally Li Hengji has to believe that Niu Zhiling really changed her mind, and the two really can't go back to the past because of misunderstanding.

If you look at it this way, is it better to be honest and honest at the beginning, or is it better to wait for the misunderstanding to occur and the feelings can no longer go back to the past?

No choice, of course, it is better to be direct and honest at the beginning. If the two are truly in love with each other, like Li Hengji and Niu Zhiling, nothing is a problem. On the contrary, it will make Li Hengji feel more sorry for his wife, and likewise, feeling Li Hengji's love, Niu Zhiling will only love this man more.

No need to do anything, the feelings of the two are blended and get a better sublimation.

As for children, although Dink will eventually change his mind. In reality, this will indeed exist. Still, I believe that someone is willing to do so.

If someone really regrets it, then it is time to face it. It is better to take into account all possible bad outcomes before making this decision, and use them as a response plan in advance.

If nothing has changed, then life remains the same. If there is a change in the middle, like Andy, there is a way out.

If it says, the other party chooses to give up on himself. Although it will be sad and sad, at least I will not be kept in the dark.

Feelings are not the whole of life, without this person, but back to the days when I did not know him.

Life will go on and the good will happen.