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Ms. Hui Di, a widely acclaimed theatre superstar for her brilliant performances and outstanding talents, has not only won many awards in the entertainment industry, but also shined brightly in many film and television works.
Born in 1958 in the bustling capital of Beijing, she has taken on the responsibility of taking care of her two younger siblings since she was a child, so she has shown excellent ability and wisdom in household management.
Whenever the New Year is approaching, Xu Di always becomes the best person in the family to buy New Year's goods, and the first thing she does is carefully choose new clothes for herself, and then it is her siblings' turn to put on her remaining old clothes.
Although sometimes her younger brother may behave a little mischievous, Xu Di knows that only strict discipline can make him gradually mature and sensible. She has always played an important role as a parent in this family, and the responsibility she shoulders is admirable.
However, due to their busy schedules, their parents spend most of their time working outside the home, and are unable to be with their children all the time.
In 1975, the Beijing Opera Troupe released enrollment information everywhere, providing a convenient path to success for young people with dreams. Xu Di did well in her studies, but she was not much interested in the opportunity until her teacher persuaded her to give it a try.
After much deliberation, she finally made up her mind to step into this temple of art and learning.
At the age of 17, Xu Di's heart ignited a fervent desire to devote herself to the art career, so she resolutely joined the Beijing Opera Troupe and began to write a new chapter in her life. When she first arrived, she found that most of the students had received solid basic training from an early age, and she had missed the best opportunity.
When she first joined the opera troupe, the leg press training brought her unbearable pain, and even cried bitterly, but the instructor did not lower her standards.
It was during those arduous years that she unexpectedly met the "he" in her life - Yu Jianwei. At a grand banquet, this feast became a turning point in the couple's life trajectory.
At that time, Xu Di reprimanded Yu Jianwei in public because of his anger, but it also left a deep impression on him of this "fierce" girl. With the later acquaintance, the two gradually fell into the whirlpool of love and began to carefully devote themselves to this relationship.
After deep thinking and inner pain, Xu Di finally confessed to her husband Yu Jianwei her ardent desire to pursue career achievements like a warrior. Surprisingly, instead of forcibly interfering with his wife's decision-making, Yu Jianwei firmly informed his wife in the early morning after a whole night of reflection, that he had made the decision to resign and devote himself to family life and protect the growth of his children wholeheartedly.
Xu Di was touched by her husband's selfless dedication. However, Yu Jianwei bravely made a request: considering the family's financial situation, he hoped that Xu Di would be able to spend half of his salary on family expenses as a way to ease his heavy responsibility.
Since then, Yu Jianwei has become a conscientious "full-time househusband".
When she learned that the famous opera artist Wei Xikui was willing to accept her as a disciple, Xu Di was so excited that she couldn't sleep all night. At dawn, she asked her husband to verify the authenticity of the matter, and Yu Jianwei could only nod helplessly in agreement.
From this detail, it can be seen that Xu Di is enthusiastic and determined to learn opera.
Under the careful teaching of Wei Xikui, Xu Di created a highly acclaimed masterpiece - "Yang Naiwu and Little Cabbage". This work is undoubtedly an important milestone in her path to opera, and it has also won her the favor of her mentors in the music industry.
Once, Yu Jianwei was extremely proud that his wife could become a disciple of Master Wei Xikui. He often reminded himself: "Don't find a strong wife like Xu Di." This seemingly unintentional ridicule actually reflects his admiration and praise for his wife.
Faced with the discussions of the surrounding neighbors, the confusion and contradictions in Xu Di's heart became more and more intense.
She persevered in the opera troupe until 2008, and Xu Di retired with honor. However, her love for art never stopped, and she began to get involved in the field of film and television, challenging the theme of modern urban family for the first time in "My Father and Mother", and successfully created the unforgettable image of "Mother Cuihua".
Whenever Xu Di stepped into the filming scene, Yu Jianwei always accompanied her intimately and gave his wife meticulous care and support. He once confessed that as long as he left his wife's environment, his heart would be filled with endless loneliness and anxiety.
There is no doubt that she is absolutely a priceless treasure in his life and his deepest love.
Back in 2017, it is undoubtedly an extremely precious and critical year for Xu Di. In the popular TV series "The First Half of My Life", she successfully played the controversial role of "Xue Zhenzhu", completely subverting the public's stereotype of her, and won the high honor of Magnolia Best Supporting Actress in one fell swoop.
In order to create a more in-depth portrayal of this unique and stubborn woman, Xu Di resolutely decided to move to Shanghai, and became proficient in the local dialect in just one month.
Although she was confused by the setting of the role at first, with her strong belief in her acting career, she eventually managed to overcome many difficulties and won the warm applause of the audience with her superb acting skills.
In the period after that, many media focused on Xu Di's private life, digging deep into the marital status and daily life between her and Yu Jianwei.
One of the unforgettable scenes is that when Xu Di witnessed her husband's hard work for work, she did not hesitate to hold an umbrella for him, which deeply touched the heartstrings of countless audiences.
Whenever her husband is mentioned, Xu Di is always filled with a smile of satisfaction and trust. She proudly praised Yu Jianwei as a solid pillar of the whole family and an indispensable strong backing in her life.
And Yu Jianwei is also proud of his wife, their deep affection for each other is sincere and strong, and people can't help but feel that the degree of love between this couple is really enviable.
Every time I look back on the past of Xu Di and Yu Jianwei, people can always be deeply moved by this touching love story. From their acquaintance in the Beijing Opera Troupe to embarking on a new journey in life together, they have written their unswerving loyalty to love with practical actions.
Although it was taboo to fall in love in the opera troupe at that time, they still had sincere feelings and carefully cared for this love. On and off campus, they sometimes pretend to be strangers and argue with each other; Sometimes they hold hands, show deep friendship, and move forward together.
Although they once attracted strange eyes around them, they always stuck to their true love and came together firmly.
Some people questioned that Xu Di's discretionary entrustment of all assets to her husband seemed a bit hasty. However, behind this seemingly rash decision, there is actually an implicit amount of Yu Jianwei's long-term dedication and care for her and the whole family, and he has become a "wife slave".
It is precisely because of Yu Jianwei's meticulous care and selfless dedication that today's Xu Di is famous everywhere, and she can display her talents to the fullest and exude dazzling light!
When Xu Di felt angry and helpless because of some of her family's behaviors, Yu Jianwei was always by her side, giving her comfort and understanding. They are like the perfect partner in each other's lives, supporting each other and weathering the storm together.
Now, the couple who have entered the age of sixtieth year have walked hand in hand for more than 40 springs, summers, autumns and winters, and they have long regarded each other as the most important and closest one in their lives.
In the face of her husband's tolerance and support for herself, Xu Di was full of deep gratitude. She once proudly declared: "Yu Jianwei is not only the pillar of our family, but also the solid backing of my life."
And Yu Jianwei is also proud of his wife, and his praise for her is overflowing, showing their deep affection for each other, sincere and strong, which makes people feel the infatuation and deep love of this couple.
In 2020, Xu Di was fortunate to co-star with two senior actors in the TV series "Old Girl". In this work, three powerful actors competed on the same stage and launched a silent but fierce competition for acting skills.
With her unique comedic talent and ability to detonate the audience's laughter with just a few words, Xu Di undoubtedly became the final winner of this competition, once again winning warm applause and high praise from the audience.
Whenever she shows a sad face and beating her chest on the screen because of her family, the audience can't help but be amused by her funny expressions and movements.
This can't help but remind people of the loving couple Xu Di and her husband Yu Jianwei in real life, the relationship between them that has become deeper and deeper after the baptism of the years, as well as the cherishing and dependence on each other, even after the age of sixties, the sincere love still seems to have never been far away.
In 2022, Xu Di was invited to participate in the costume drama "The Splendid Stars and the Moon Rises in the Sea", in which she successfully created the humorous image of "Mrs. Cheng".
Behind the ups and downs of the plot and the clever use of comedy elements, Xu Di has shown outstanding acting talent and unique comedy talent. When we watched her gesture and exaggerated expression on the screen, it was hard to control our laughter! However, when we think of the true identity of this "Cheng Laojun" - a well-respected "old drama bone", we can't help but feel that the actor's life is so colorful and shining.
In an interview with the crew, Xu Di humbly said that she only barely completed the task assigned by the director and did not put in too much hard work. However, all the staff who have worked with her have deep admiration for her dedication to drama and her tenacity.
It is with this love and perseverance for her career that Xu Di is still able to show her strength in the film and television industry after entering her sixtieth year, constantly challenging herself, and creating unforgettable roles.
With her own practical actions, she vividly interprets the artist's firm pursuit of dreams. Without Yu Jianwei's unwavering support for his wife's pursuit of artistic dreams, he would not have been able to put down his personal career so decisively, devote himself to family life, and become a meticulous "full-time househusband".
Although this decision has caused widespread controversy and doubts from all walks of life, his deep affection for his wife has never wavered.
It is precisely because of Yu Jianwei's full support that Xu Di was able to make a name for herself in the entertainment industry and won many awards. Whenever they look back on that period of youth, the husband and wife seem to have returned to the young and innocent love time, and they still have deep nostalgia for the persistence and attachment back then.
In this loving marriage relationship, Xu Di has never become a "wife slave", but her husband has taken the lead in becoming a "husband slave", giving up his career and wholeheartedly supporting his wife's dreams, and his wife is full of gratitude for this, and he does not hesitate to hand over every penny of his hard work to her husband to manage.
However, this does not diminish the reverence for them in the slightest, but rather makes this beautiful marriage even more precious, a model for contemporary couples. When we explore this magnificent love journey in depth, it is not difficult to realize that this is what many ordinary people have been pursuing all their lives - to be able to share the ups and downs with family and friends, support each other, and jointly write their own legendary life chapters.
The reproduction and inheritance of life are inseparable from the ordinary, however, the so-called "bland" is by no means synonymous with "mediocrity" with incomparable sincerity to give, that sincere love can cross the gap of time and sublimate ordinary life into a great feat Xu Di and Yu Jianwei It is with their lives that they interpret this great love on the road of art, Xu Di has always been a tireless dreamer However, in the emotional world, she is so lucky to find the other half of the soul fit, and he is close to him, Cherish each other and weave their love stories in the most simple way, this loving elderly partner has brought us endless touching and understandingIn the bustling metropolis, people are often easy to lose themselves; And they proved to us with practical actions that as long as we stick to our beliefs and cherish what we love, ordinary life can create extraordinary brilliance.