Whether it is in love or marriage, many times because one party does not consider the feelings of the other party, he does his own thing, is arbitrary, generous to himself, stingy with the other half, lenient with himself, and cautious with the other half. Especially for couples entering the palace of marriage, these are not advisable, marriage is a partnership based on mutual understanding, support and respect, which requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife to maintain and operate. However, the following zodiac signs will become more and more selfish after marriage, do you want to know what causes it? Let's take a look.
Virgos have certain requirements for themselves and those around them, they strive for perfection, they are very sensitive to details, and sometimes they can seem a little demanding and fussy. Virgos are constantly striving for self-improvement, while also hoping that those around them will be able to progress towards perfection as they do. As a result, they may point out each other's shortcomings in the relationship, hoping that the other person will also be able to improve and grow.
In a marital relationship, a Virgo may make various demands and suggestions for improvement from his partner, and if the other person is unwilling to accept or does not improve in the direction they expect, Virgo may feel disappointed or even angry, believing that the other person does not value their feelings. This behavior may seem to outsiders as selfish and nagging, but in reality, deep down the Virgo's heart is not selfish, but rather a manifestation of wanting the other person to be better.
Virgos are hard-mouthed and soft-hearted, they may present themselves outwardly in a strong and demanding way, but in reality deep down they are eager and hoping that the other person will improve and grow. They are not really selfish, but they want to be better for themselves and those around them. They have a persistent and hard-working attitude towards the pursuit of perfection and self-improvement, which is also a reflection of their inner kindness and desire for beauty.
Cancerians do attach great importance to security in their relationships, they are often easily affected by emotions, and their sensitivity and delicacy to their feelings often make them worry and worry, and they are prone to loss of security. This condition may persist after marriage, causing them to become suspicious of their partner and even lose their temper.
Cancerians may be more demanding of their partner, and they may feel betrayed or disappointed if they feel that their partner has deviated or made a mistake. This behavior may seem selfish and unreasonable to outsiders, but in reality, Cancerians want to show love and care for the other person by making their partner more caring and attentive to themselves in this way.
Cancer's emotionality and quest for security are not something that only manifests itself after marriage, but is a trait that is already present during the period of love. Therefore, once entering the marital relationship, their partner should understand and accept this. Their demands and performances towards their partners are not entirely selfish, but more of an expression of deep love and need for their partner, and they hope to attract the attention and concern of the other person through their actions in order to maintain and strengthen the emotional connection between them.
Scorpios do have a unique personality trait, and they are often considered to be deep, intense, assertive, and determined. They may appear straightforward, persistent, and unrelenting when dealing with problems, and can even appear venomous and critical at times. This direct expression can feel hurt or distressed, especially in families, where they may show a more aggressive and possessive side when they want to consolidate their family position.
Scorpios place a high value on emotions and family relationships, and they want to be able to have a higher level of dominance, which can lead them to show a selfish and aggressive side in the family. They may behave elusively because of their emotional instability, easily lose their temper and lose their temper with their significant other, causing tension and conflict in family relationships.
Although Scorpios may show a certain level of selfishness and control, it does not mean that they have malicious intentions or bad intentions. They often just want to assert their emotional needs and family status, hoping to be respected and cared for in family relationships. For them, direct expression may be their way of dealing with problems, although sometimes it can be too direct and sharp, but it is not out of malice, and when you understand their personality traits and communicate with them, it can help to ease tensions and conflicts in family relationships.