You must remember that any man is ready to spend money before he chases a woman.
Because men know that it costs money to fall in love. When he was really penniless, it was impossible for him to embarrass himself and provoke any love.
Of course, men don't pay more than your own charm and worth.
Why do men stop spending money after falling in love? This comes first of all from a man's luck mentality, such as a kind of temptation. He judged whether you were stupid or not by pretending to be stupid, and when he found out that you were really stupid, then he continued to pretend to be stupid, which is a real cost saved.
If he finds out that you are not stupid, in the case that he is interested in you, and according to the level of interest in you, give it step by step.
In fact, it is also possible that the reason why he stopped spending money was because he had to spend money to get what he could have gotten without spending money.
Let's get down to business and talk about why men like to "cry poor" in relationships, or what it means to "cry poor" at every turn.
In the relationship, there are 3 deep meanings behind the man's "crying poor" behavior!
- 1. Rationalize your own "white prostitution".
To put it bluntly, he is evading what he should have paid and undertaken.
Take your birthday, for example, he was supposed to give you a gift, but he has told you in advance that he has no money, he is in trouble now, or he is financially strained. Is it that if you ask for a gift again, you are not sensible? Isn't it possible for him to reasonably escape his own efforts?
Originally, this birthday, there was no three or five hundred that I couldn't pass, but as long as I cried poor with you, maybe thirty or fifty could pass it.
Everything is fake, everything is an excuse, and I want to hold you and trap you at the lowest cost, this is the goal.
In other words, he didn't come to love you in the first place, just to take advantage of you. Now that the advantage has been taken, it is simply a showdown.
Rationalize your own slamming and taking advantage.
Pick yourself up first and retreat as advance, so that you don't have a good idea of accusing him of anything. Otherwise, it will appear that you are very materialistic, you are very utilitarian, and you are very vain.
Including getting along with each other, eating, shopping, and watching movies, he can rationalize his "frugality". It can even guide you to post it upside down, further squeezing your value.
- 2. You don't deserve him to spend money on you.
It's not that you're not good enough, it's just that for a relationship that is motivated by "self-experience", such a man will not give any true feelings.
He thinks you're not worth it, and no woman is worth it.
Even in his cognitive concept, only a woman can stick to him and serve him, and there is absolutely no possibility for a man to please and please a woman.
To put it bluntly, he can't love anyone, he just needs to have someone by his side.
At most, he can give you a small favor, and if he really asks him to give you hundreds or thousands of gifts, he will weigh what you can give him in return. For example, resources, connections, and the economy, but not emotions and emotions. Because in his heart, emotions and emotions are not worth so much money.
Such a man is calculating, and even if he has a good conscience, he will never allow his money to suffer. It's often a matter of how much you spend on him first, and then half of it is given back to you, leaving you speechless.
Or he owes you something that will compensate you in another form. Otherwise, if you ask him to take the initiative to spend money on you, you are simply asking for his life.
- 3. Decided to end the relationship.
Not only does he like to "cry poor", but his attitude towards you is becoming more and more indifferent and perfunctory, even if he encounters emotional contradictions, he is too lazy to deal with them, and begins to treat them in a cold and violent way.
He doesn't have the patience to coax you anymore, and he doesn't have time to care about you. Even if you look for a chance to talk to him, he is impatient.
So "crying poor" is also telling you that he is ready to leave.
When a man loves you, he can't wait to give you the best of himself, but he often feels indebted because he can't give you the best and better.
But when a man doesn't love you, he doesn't want to "raise" a girlfriend for someone else anymore.
In the end, it is you who will be fulfilled, but he has no intention of being with you, sooner or later you will be with others, and naturally the fulfillment he gives you will be possessed and enjoyed by others.
When a man decides on your relationship, he will only think in his heart, don't keep it.
You must remember that no man will "cry poor" in front of his beloved woman, this is his last pride and vanity. On the contrary, only for a woman he doesn't care about, it doesn't matter what.
When a man falls in love with a woman, his first instinct is to buy something for you. It's not about wealth, it's about feeling sorry for you.
He will do his best to give you the best, because the performance that he genuinely likes is always like that. Including, this is also common to all men.
Yes, the girl who feels sorry for him doesn't want to spend his money, but what you don't know is that a man just wants to spend money for the woman he likes, and he will be proud and proud of his whole person.
Especially when giving you a gift, compared to the excitement of receiving the gift, the happiest and most anticipated person is the one who chooses the gift.
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