"You are a niece, why dare you hide it from my own daughter and mourn!"
In 2021, Ms. Chen from Hunan suddenly learned the news of her father's death. It's just that in terms of time, it was after my father had already completed the funeral and was buried in the ground.
Feeling ashamed, she asked everyone overnight. Only then did I find out that it was not only her own daughter who could not be present. Even his father's two stepsons were completely unaware.
Although it is said that his father, Mr. Chen, has had three marriages in his life, but Ms. Chen is the only child who is related by blood, why did she finally make trouble and not notify the funeral?
And what kind of way is this niece who handles the whole process?
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Uncle Chen's last days
Uncle Chen, whose real name is Chen Guojian, is a retired engineer in his 70s.
was originally an age to enjoy his old age, but he didn't think about it, but fate played a cruel joke on him.
Six months before the incident, he was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer.
At that time, in the face of high medical expenses, Uncle Chen was in a predicament for a while.
Although the elderly have a pension of more than 4,000 yuan per month and a real estate in the city, the money they can take out immediately is far from enough to pay for treatment.
What's even more poignant is that Uncle Chen in his later years has actually been living alone and has no one to take care of him.
So, at the end of his life, he had to seek help through the TV station.
However, what he was looking for at that time was not his biological daughter Ms. Chen, but his ex-wife's son, who had been divorced for many years, that is, his stepson.
It's just that this scene happened to be seen by Uncle Chen's biological daughter Chen Mengjia.
After learning that his father was sick, he did not look for himself first, but sought the help of a stepson who was not related by blood, Chen Mengjia's heart was full of complicated emotions.
After thinking about the past, she finally chose to remain silent, did not take the initiative to contact her father, who was seriously ill.
And behind this, which seems to be a bit contrary to common sense, there is actually a very complex history of family relationships.
Uncle Chen, who has complicated feelings
To understand the complex relationship of this family, then we need to go back to Uncle Chen's marriage history.
His first marriage was to Ms. Chen's mother, Zheng Yinghong. However, the ending of this marriage was not happy.
According to Zheng Yinghong's recollections, Uncle Chen's temper when he was young was very irritable and he often did things to her.
What's worse is that he was very stingy with his wife and daughter.
Unable to bear it, Zheng Yinghong officially filed for divorce by mutual agreement when Ms. Chen was 12 years old.
According to the original agreement, Uncle Chen should pay 300 yuan a month in child support, but in fact, for many years, he has never fulfilled this promise, and he has not even taken the initiative to visit his daughter.
When Ms. Chen was 19 years old, she traveled thousands of miles to find her father alone.
However, what awaits her is the cold rejection of her biological father.
"Don't come again, it will affect my new family."
This sentence was like a sharp blade, deeply piercing Ms. Chen's fragile heart.
Since then, the father and daughter have not interacted with each other.
As for Uncle Chen's second marriage, it was also unsatisfactory.
He married Wang Liyun, who remarried with two sons, but soon revealed that there was a problem with his personality.
In the interview, Wang Liyun recalled that Uncle Chen attaches great importance to money, is wary of her everywhere, and even has to strictly follow her AA system for daily expenses.
Although the two sons go to school, he has contributed a lot. But on the whole, Uncle Chen is not kind to his stepson.
But what makes Wang Lili even more difficult to accept is Uncle Chen's values.
In his heart, his wife and children are always outsiders, and only his brothers and sisters are the closest people.
Although he is very stingy with his wife and children on weekdays, he is quite generous to his sister and niece Xiaofang.
This kind of eccentric behavior is also the main reason why the husband and wife often quarrel.
In the end, when Uncle Chen was in his 60s, he took the initiative to file for divorce on the grounds that he was worried that Wang Lili and his stepsons would divide his property and pension in the future.
As for the last relationship, it was launched by Uncle Chen in his later years with a lady named Zhang Ting.
This Zhang Ting originally still had the good wish to grow old together, but she didn't think that the reality gave her a blow.
Not long after the two were together, Uncle Chen fell ill.
After that, Zhang Ting never gave up, and took care of herself in the hospital alone. However, Uncle Chen didn't trust her at all, but hid all the documents, even the wallet.
What made Zhang Ting feel the most chilling was that she found that Uncle Chen would transfer a lot of money to his niece Xiaofang every month.
When she persuaded her in good faith, she was furious by Uncle Chen.
Not only that, Uncle Chen also told Xiaofang about it, which caused Xiaofang to come to the door and quarrel with Zhang Ting.
Faced with this situation, Uncle Chen not only did not defend Zhang Ting, but supported her to be kicked out of the house.
Zhang Ting, who felt disheartened, finally chose to leave this relationship.
In this way, although Uncle Chen has had three relationships in his life, when he finally fell seriously ill, he actually had no one around him.
A ruined suicide note
When Uncle Chen found out that he was terminally ill and saved money and manpower to help, he immediately thought of his stepson who had been raising him for the longest time.
Only then did they find them through the media, and the two stepsons were not bad, they really showed up, and they also left a sum of money.
But don't think about it at all.
Originally, the two thought that this stepfather would be able to survive a little longer, but they didn't expect that their half-sister found them and informed Uncle Chen of his death.
Back to Ms. Chen, she suddenly received a call from her father's former unit more than 20 days after Uncle Chen's death.
Ask her, an immediate family member, to sign for the termination of the pension.
But this news was like a bolt from the blue, which made Ms. Chen fall into, shocked and confused.
Why did her father die for so long, and no one even informed her after the funeral was completed?
With doubts and uneasiness, Ms. Chen contacted all the people who had a relationship with her father, along with the TV reporter, hoping to have an explanation.
After a confrontation, the truth finally surfaced.
It turned out that Uncle Chen's funeral was handled by his niece Xiaofang.
When Ms. Chen asked Xiaofang why she didn't inform herself, Xiaofang's answer was shocking.
"You have not been in contact with my uncle for more than 20 years, you have no conscience, why should I inform you?"
That's not all, the property in Uncle Chen's name before his death is now found to have been sold, and the price has reached 580,000 yuan.
It's just that Uncle Chen's purchase price plus all his savings is now only 80,000 yuan.
According to Xiaofang's explanation, her uncle spent a lot of money during his illness, and with the expenses of dealing with the aftermath, there was not much left.
Xiaofang also claimed that before his death, Uncle Chen left a will.
If Ms. Chen comes to participate in the funeral, she will be given 20,000 yuan; If she doesn't come, the rest of the money will be inherited by Xiaofang.
However, when Chen Mengmeng asked to see the details of the will and treatment costs, Xiaofang said that these documents had been burned.
In this way, a fierce dispute broke out between Ms. Chen and Xiaofang.
Xiaofang accused Ms. Chen of ignoring her father for many years, and now that she has passed away, she came to make trouble, just for money.
However, Ms. Chen's response was unexpected.
She said that she now has a good life and does not care about these possessions.
Her biggest regret is that she didn't see her father for the last time, and she didn't participate in her father's funeral.
Facing the two people who were arguing, everyone, including the reporter, came up together to persuade them.
In the end, after negotiation, Ms. Chen agreed and assisted in the post-event formalities and signature. And the niece Xiaofang provided some relics of Uncle Chen during his lifetime for Ms. Chen to use as a memory.
It is estimated that if Uncle Chen has knowledge, he must be very embarrassed, I didn't see everyone so concerned when I was alive, but I didn't expect that after I died, everyone would be so "concerned".