Wen'er
I used to always listen to the elders around me, buy a pig to see the pigsty, marry to see the other party's family, the pigsty environment is not good, run away decisively, no matter how good the pig is, there is no way to get out of the pigsty, no matter how big the difference, that is also a family.
I didn't believe these words very much before, but after a few years of marriage, I found that the old saying is really the words of wisdom. Some of the traits in my husband are exactly the same as his mother's, my father-in-law is a good man, he dotes on my mother-in-law, and my husband treats me the same. So I will now advise my unmarried female friends to have more contact with each other's parents when talking about marriage, if the other party's parents make you feel comfortable on the premise of being sincere and not acting, the happiness index after marriage will really be higher. Girls must understand that marrying someone is marrying the parents behind the boy, and if you don't believe it, you will suffer a big loss sooner or later.
The far-reaching influence of family background
A person's family background is often the cradle of the formation of his character, habits and values. The words and deeds of parents and the edification of the family atmosphere will leave a deep imprint on the hearts of children. Therefore, when we think about marriage, the family background of the other party is particularly important. A healthy family background can raise a responsible, loving, and responsible partner, who is more likely to become a trustworthy and dependable person in the future married life.
At the same time, we should also pay attention to the economic situation and social status of the other family. Although this is not the only factor that determines marital happiness, a stable family environment can provide a solid material foundation for marriage, allowing both spouses to be more relaxed and confident in their pursuit of a happy life.
The shaping power of family atmosphere
Family climate is the result of the interaction and influence between family members. A warm and harmonious family atmosphere can bring endless warmth and strength to a marriage. In such a family atmosphere, couples can understand and support each other to face life's challenges and difficulties together.
On the contrary, if the family atmosphere is tense, cold, or even violent, then such a family atmosphere can become a stumbling block to the marriage. In such an environment, it is difficult for couples to build a deep emotional foundation, and it is even more difficult to face the challenges of life together. Therefore, when choosing a partner, we must pay attention to the atmosphere of the other party's family and ensure that we can fit in and enjoy a happy married life.
Co-growth and adaptation in marriage
Marriage is not only the union of two people, but also the integration of two families. In married life, husband and wife need to adapt to each other and grow together. This means learning to accept each other's family backgrounds, habits, and values, while also trying to change ourselves to fit in with the new family environment.
In marriage, we may encounter a variety of problems and challenges, such as family conflicts, children's education, financial pressures, etc. These issues need to be faced and resolved by both husband and wife. In this process, we need to support each other, understand each other, and work together to find solutions to problems. Only in this way can our marriage become happier and more satisfying.
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