Children who are not blessed by their parents should not be born.
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Today, Wang Sicong's "illegitimate daughter" incident is on the hot search again.
also connected several entries and occupied the hot search list.
This time, the new melon is the woman Huang Yiming who released a new chat record this morning.
After reading it, Shuangmu-kun was so funny.
This chat is from October last year.
Huang Yiming directly asked the other party for the child's milk powder money. (In other words, Wang Sicong was informed about the birth of the child)
Wang Sicong replied simply, "I didn't tell you that I had no money."
Some netizens grabbed the words "milk powder money" and felt that Wang Sicong was so rich, so he casually missed a few thousand yuan and sent it away.
It's still naïve.
Can the "milk powder money" that the rich say be the same as the "milk powder money" of ordinary people?
And what Huang Yiming means here must be child support, so it's even more difficult to say.
What's more, this is an opening, the first time it is opened, there will be a second time, and Wang Sicongming obviously doesn't want to give it once.
Immediately afterwards, Huang Yiming was probably angry.
Don't let Wang Sicong live a life of showing off his wealth, otherwise he will be red-eyed.
Wang Sicong is also the upper body of the boss:
"You're threatening me?"
And the funniest thing is the following sentence:
"Bear with yourself, and I'll have money for you next year."
Hahaha, I have to say that Wang Sicong can always contribute golden sentences.
But looking at the chat records of these two people, there is always a sense of "elementary school students quarreling".
Subsequently, Huang Yiming also left a message at the top, saying that the child is not an illegitimate child, but an existence recognized by his father.
Netizens also ate melons and enjoyed eating.
"Didn't you say you were in it for the money? Hahahahahaha
"She said she didn't ask for a penny, it turned out that she didn't ask for a penny."
"Brother Wang means that he won't drink milk powder next year and eat staple food."
In short, the comment section is full of jolly air.
Now, these two people-
One wanted to be a mother and a daughter, but he didn't expect the other party to recognize him at all, and finally the chicken flew and the egg was beaten.
A lingering flower bush, trying not to stick to the leaves, but as a result, it can't be shaken off after being glued.
It can only be said that both of them deserve it.
But I always have a feeling that Huang Yiming should still have a lot of melons in his hands.
She deliberately did this, releasing one every once in a while, and turned this matter into a serial.
Even if Wang Sicong is not in a hurry, it is estimated that Wang Jianlin will have eye disease when he sees that his ugly things are always posted on the Internet.
Do you think Huang Yiming is forcing Wang Sicong, maybe people have already started to negotiate with the Wang family in private.
This wave, people are in the atmosphere.
02
But when you eat melons and eat this, you will always think of another story of the same kind.
Jackie Chan's illegitimate daughter, "Little Dragon Girl" Wu Zhuolin.
The same men are strong and women are weak, the same women try to kidnap each other with their children, and the same children are not recognized.
In 1999, Wu Qili was pregnant unmarried, and it was announced that the child's father was Jackie Chan, causing an uproar.
It's not that she doesn't know that Jackie Chan has a family, but she tried to tie up Jackie Chan with her child and force Jackie Chan to comply.
But she didn't expect that such a threat would touch Jackie Chan's "reverse scale".
Jackie Chan is a machismo who eats soft rather than hard.
He once confessed that if a woman was pregnant with his child and hid in a place to give birth, he would feel guilty about the woman's "overall consideration".
But what he must not bear is that the woman "threatens" him.
Therefore, at the press conference, he only said light words and sent it away:
"I just made a mistake that all men in the world make."
After that, whether it was using the media to exert pressure or complaining miserably, Jackie Chan really achieved ruthlessness:
Not a penny was given.
And over the years, the situation of "Little Dragon Girl" Wu Zhuolin has become worse and worse.
has been photographed queuing up to receive free relief food many times;
homeless, so depressed that he slept on the street for a month;
Holding the quilt in her hand, she took out the name of her father Jackie Chan and begged the owner to take her and her girlfriend in......
What is worse than the economic embarrassment is the character that was ruined because of the bad original family and because of the lack of love from parents.
Yes, not only does Jackie Chan not love her, but even Wu Qili doesn't love her.
In other words, Wu Qili's love is deformed.
Wu Qili herself is also a single-parent family, and her mother has constantly vented her misfortune on her because of the failure of her marriage.
After raising Wu Zhuolin independently, she also fell into the same extreme as her mother, unable to control her emotions, and confronted her daughter.
Now, such a tragedy has recycled to Wu Zhuolin.
Every time she is on the news, it is almost always negative:
Smoking, drinking, stealing from home, coming out, running away from home, reporting mother abuse, suicide...
It can be seen that the core of her whole life is just one word:
Ambition.
She was rebellious, self-harming, had a nervous breakdown, and lived harder than most.
Many netizens looked at her situation and "hated iron but not steel", but I was more "angry at her misfortune".
When you meet such parents, it can be said that it is the beginning of the collapse.
Asking her to love life like an ordinary person is unrealistic in itself.
03
In these two similar farces, everyone has different goals and cares about their own interests.
Only those two children who have no choice, in the whirlpool, how innocent.
Although Huang Yiming said that he didn't care about Wang Sicong's money at all, the child could raise it himself.
Indeed, even if Wang Sicong doesn't give money, with her current traffic, it is absolutely no problem to ensure that her daughter has enough food and clothing.
But the question is, is it enough to raise a child and give him enough materials?
What about parental love? What about companionship? What about responsibility? What about the role of role models?
I really feel sorry for them inexplicably.
They were brought into the world at will, but they were used as tools by their parents when they needed them most.
Huang Yiming keeps saying that she loves her child, but she pushes the child to the forefront in this way, letting the world know that she is an "illegitimate child", is this really love?
It is a very sad thing for a person to come into the world without being blessed by his parents.
If it is still regarded as a bet, a coercion, and a tool for making money, it is even more sad.
On Zhihu, there is such a question: What is the experience of being an illegitimate child?
The following answers are striking:
"Growing up, I can always hear the sound of pointing and pointing around me."
"Living in the shadows all the time, thinking that you don't deserve to exist, that your existence is a mistake."
"Because no one loves me, I want to love and work myself, but I can't seem to do it."
reminds me of a sentence from the movie "What is Home":
"I want to sue my parents because they gave birth to me."
The protagonist stands in court and sues his parents:
He came into this world, but he was not able to raise him well, and failed to give him the education, health and love he deserved.
Standing in the courtroom, he shouted:
I hope that adults will listen to me, and I want those who can't take care of their children to stop having children, otherwise what will we be able to remember when we grow up?
If I was brought into this world only for abandonment, abuse, abuse, abuse, then why did I come into this world?
Japanese novelist Kotaro Isaka once said:
"It's scary to think about being a parent without having to go through an exam."
The relationship between parents and children is inherently unequal.
Parents can choose whether they want to have children or not, but children can't choose whether to come into this world or not, let alone choose their parents.
For some parents, having the wrong child can even not be raised, can be abandoned, and can be started again;
But for a child, once born, it is a lifetime.
Finally, I would like to present you with a little poem by Gibran:
"Your child, not your child
They are children born out of the desire for life itself
They came into the world through you, but they didn't come because of you
They are with you, but they are not yours
What you can give them is your love
And not what you think......"
Each child is an individual and not an accessory to his or her parents.
Creating a life is not great, it's just instinct.
It is to nurture, to teach, and to care that can give life its true meaning.
Finally, I really hope that everyone can be more pure in the matter of childbirth.
May all children in the world come to this world because of the love of their parents.
*Author: Shuangmu Jun, a middle-aged man born in the 90s with three positive views, deep thoughts and a clear attitude, also used to be fresh and angry when he was a teenager, and he hoped to see all the Chang'an flowers in his life. Pay attention to [Shuangmu's outlook on life], and I will help you interpret everything in the world from a unique perspective.