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From ancient times to the present, we have paid attention to "filial piety first", after all, the grace of nurturing is greater than everything.
However, some children not only do not provide for the elderly when their parents are old, but also put the elderly in nursing homes.
What's more, I don't want to show up when my parents pass away, and I want to witness the departure of my parents by voice or video.
What is it that makes them treat their parents this way?
Things reviewed
Recently, after the death of a couple, none of the three children came to visit, which caused everyone to condemn on the Internet.
The couple are professors in Shanghai and have been focusing on the education of their children since childhood.
Even in order to give their children a better education, the Shanghai couple sent them abroad to study.
In a foreign country, the three children felt a different feeling from the country, and met people who knew each other and loved each other all their lives.
As a result, several people went through immigration procedures, and they had less and less contact with their parents when they were in a foreign country.
But the parents are getting older and older, and there is no one to take care of them, so they are arranged in a nursing home by their children.
The three children have their own families and children, so naturally they can't take into account their parents' feelings.
Being in two countries, the round-trip ticket alone costs a lot of money, so they hardly ever visit their parents.
Even if their parents are sick, they don't care at all, and the elderly are prone to poor health.
Doctors at the nursing home have been resuscitating them several times, and they have not returned until their mother leaves.
After my mother died, my father rarely spoke, and it wasn't long before my father followed.
The old man did not see his children in the last moment of death, and the children were very perfunctory in the face of their funeral.
All the aftermath is troubled by the staff of the nursing home, and even attend the funeral of their parents by making videos or taking pictures.
Parents provide the best resources they can to educate them, and they do not hesitate to abandon their parents when they are able.
What kind of person can do such a conscientious thing?
Netizens have something to say
"Even if you are usually in a nursing home, you should come back when your parents have passed away."
"Even if you don't usually come back, you should come back to see your parents at a critical moment."
"When I see my parents, I don't like the high cost of travel, but I should come back when I receive the funeral expenses."
"Even if you can't come back from the country, you should be by your side when your parents leave, although you can't support the elderly, but you can send them to the end."
"It is important to cultivate children's interests, but it is more important to be sophisticated than to become talents."
It's embarrassing that something like this happens, and my closest parents can treat it like this, which shows that my usual character is worrying.
The point is that the three children all think like this, is it negotiated?
Parents use their own efforts to let their children see the distance they can't reach, but on the contrary, the children are so cold-blooded.
I wonder if years from now, their children will treat them the same way they treat their parents.
Parents are the best teachers for their children, and although the Shanghai couple is expensive as professors, they do fail to educate their children.
For the sake of the child's busy life, but in the end before leaving but not seeing the child for the last time, they will also have regrets!
epilogue
Such immoral things often play out in life, and parents play a very important role in our lives.
We will also be parents one day, and I hope you will leave a share of kindness to your parents!
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