Recently, a news about all the staff of a middle school and health center in Dejiang County being arranged to "wake the spirit" of a deceased person has sparked heated discussions on the Internet. According to reports, this arrangement has aroused many netizens' doubts and complaints, believing that this practice is too spoiled, and there is no kinship, and there are certain moral flaws. In the face of netizens' questions, the local relevant departments responded, saying that the deceased was the father of a teacher, and only the union sent wreaths, and there was no collective condolence. Such a response did not calm the doubts of netizens, but instead caused more suspicion and questioning, believing that such an explanation was far-fetched and unconvincing.
Event recap
Recently, a news about all the employees of a middle school and health center in Dejiang County being arranged to "wake the spirit" of a deceased person spread on the Internet, followed by various doubts and complaints. Some netizens also questioned the practices of schools and hospitals, believing that such an arrangement is indeed a bit "against the sky" and does not conform to conventional funeral customs.
originally thought that such a response could explain everything clearly, but it backfired, and such an explanation was not recognized by netizens, but caused more suspicion and questioning. Some netizens said that even if it is a teacher's relative, the teachers and students of the school and all the staff of the health center should not be arranged as "wake", which is undoubtedly spoiling.
Interpretation of events
If such incidents are not uncommon on the Internet, events similar to "wakes" will cause fierce public controversy from time to time, and similar situations are not uncommon in our daily lives, and these events will generally receive widespread attention from everyone. For example, in some places, in the traditional customs of people exceeding the dead, there will be some ironic phenomena, which have aroused widespread discussion in society. The Beijing News has interviewed the masses, and some people think that excession is just a way to vent emotions, but some people think that excessibility is just a superstitious behavior without any scientific basis.
In these incidents, we can see that no matter what the reason, public institutions and enterprises have no right to ignore the personal wishes of employees, let alone participate in the arrangement of funerals, which in itself is a relatively private matter and the wishes of the parties need to be respected. In modern society, people's life rhythm is getting faster and faster, and the pressure of work is also increasing, and many people often feel very helpless and painful when facing the death of their loved ones. In this case, if public institutions and enterprises can give their employees some support and help so that they can better deal with their emotions, then their work efficiency and quality of life will also be greatly improved.
In this context, we need to strengthen the supervision of public institutions and enterprises, so that they can better fulfill their social responsibilities and provide better support and assistance to employees. At the same time, we also need to strengthen the education and guidance of employees, so that they can better deal with their emotions and improve their psychological quality and work efficiency. Only in this way can we better cope with various challenges in work and life and realize the value of our lives.
Whether it is a school or a hospital, it is a public institution, and their every move may become the focus of public discussion, so when dealing with similar incidents, we must be cautious, not to act arbitrarily, let alone impose our will on others. There may also be some special reasons for this, such as the wishes of the deceased's family, or local customs, but in any case, such a practice needs to be understood and approved by the person concerned, and it also needs to respect the different opinions of others.
No matter what the reason, public institutions and enterprises need to do a good job of guiding public opinion, and should not simply and rudely arrange employees as "wakes", but should respect the wishes of employees and give them appropriate choices, so that they can decide whether to participate in the "wake" according to their actual situation and wishes, and the specific ways to participate.
Deep conjecture
There are still more problems and conjectures behind such incidents, such as the way society handles funerals and rituals may have regional differences, and it is necessary to respect local customs and habits, and not simply "blame" and "criticize", but should be understood and tolerated.
When dealing with similar incidents, it is also crucial for the authorities to be more transparent and truthful, to tell the truth to the public, rather than making up excuses to avoid arousing more suspicion and questioning, or even public distrust.
Such incidents also demonstrate the power of online communication, once the incident is exposed, the pressure of public opinion will also force the relevant departments to make more informed decisions, which also gives the general public a kind of "supervision" power, through various ways to express their views and opinions, to promote social progress and reform.
The society should strengthen the regulation and guidance of funeral etiquette to avoid similar controversies and doubts, and also need to give some help and support to public institutions and enterprises, so that they can better handle similar incidents and make more reasonable and considerate arrangements.
No matter what kind of incident it is, we should look at it with a tolerant heart, not simply "blame" and "criticize", but should guess from multiple angles, give understanding and love. It is also hoped that the relevant local departments can pay attention to it, take the public's opinions and suggestions seriously, and do a good job in guiding public opinion, so that the society can develop more harmoniously and beautifully.
I also hope that everyone can be more "tolerant" and "understanding" in life, respect the different choices of others, give care and support, and jointly create a warm and harmonious social environment.
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