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Today, Xiaowen saw a hot topic on a certain topic: Why are many officers single, and it is not easy to get off the list?
In our society, officers have always played an important role in guarding the security of the country and the people. However, many may find that these valiant warriors seem to be a little powerless in the face of love. So, why are many officers single, and it's not easy to get out of singles?
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[doge]现在的小姑娘都有点军人滤镜吧，我开个小号打王者还加到一个神神秘秘暗示我自己是部队的，笑死，是觉得现在的举报通道不够完善吗
军官都很现实，我觉得是因为部队本身就是一个等级观念非常强的地方，里面的人都能深刻认识到阶级带来的巨大鸿沟，那每个人都想过得好点，肯定得找个能帮助自己往上爬的
本来就是，想起之前抖音我发的一条评论是，当军人的男生你能确保他爱国，但是不能确保他不渣，结果被一堆女的追着我骂，就离谱[捂脸]
军人也是普通人，军官就是一份职业，赞美他们的奉献可以，但拿来当老公还是要和其他职业男人一样考察清楚
坐标南京，父亲空军现役，大校正师。 When I was still in high school, I made it clear that I would not be asked to find a young man in the army, and none of the sisters who grew up together in the compound married an officer. The process can also be reversed from the results.
嘎嘎嘎做梦都想找军官背景的女孩，我小时候就住在部队大院，我就这么说吧，家里有女孩的，一早就被各种预定，尤其是以前还是独生子女的时候，那些同个大院的男孩家庭就莫名的害怕以后找不到对象，听我妈说，我小时候抱下去晒太阳，就有叔叔伯伯来，甭管好看还是不好看，就一副要娃娃亲的样子。 I'm just a baby, the Abba Baba kind
其他都是假的，估计是有人介绍条件更好有户口的了
这些人都这样！ It's all like that! It's all like that! Little sister, you are not alone, believe me!
其实吧，这种人找的不是老婆，而是跳板。。。
大概率他是北方的，大概率他家官本位思想比较重，大概率他有了新的优质对象，大概率他是个狠人，你都放弃自己事业去他那边跟他团聚他却翻脸不认人。 Such a person is suitable for leadership. Able to climb up by stepping on people
在BD待过的人，比外面的人更现实，他们更在意你能为他的前途舔多少砖加多少瓦。
不只军官 底层读书一路往上 拿到国家人才帽子的人也是这样 男人真的很现实 [微笑]
我一亲戚家的孩子也是被当成跳板使了，亲戚帮他工作稳定后各种嫌弃亲戚家女儿，白吃白喝几年后离婚收场。
副团结婚立刻就可以随军落户（有可能因为名额稍微排个队），几年后（我们那会是4年）他转业也可以落户北京。 The house can be solved by his unit, which basically does not require much effort from the woman. But I can't understand this man's operation, the deputy regiment is a bird in Beijing, and he doesn't have a skill, I can only say that the JD environment is easy to distort some people's personalities. Now anyway, my colleagues consult me about J marriage, and I am basically persuaded to quit.
我有女儿也不会让她嫁军人，两地分居没意思，过不下去了，离婚太难。
自己出轨坐牢，军方出轨该吃该喝啥不误
离婚难，不离婚也很难，有孩子就要过单亲妈妈的生活，军婚，无论男的多优秀，外人看着光鲜，内里的辛苦不容易，女性全部承担了！ I have a daughter, and I don't want her to marry someone who is a soldier, no matter how good he is...... Ordinary people, just live a normal family life~
确实，我亲戚就是，说过他们那出去玩的是真花
给这个爸爸点赞，也同样是女儿，我是妈妈，我不希望以后我女儿嫁给军人，有能力我养女儿一辈子。
其实军官结婚难是伪命题，就像女老师结婚难一样，只要降低要求怎么可能不能结婚？ It's nothing more than being demanding [covering his face]
男的出轨被开除，我有个认识的人，军人本人出轨，被开除了！ The organization is strictly disciplined, and it is just a guess to say that the military is okay to cheat!
军属在考编的时候只是有专门设置军属名额，不是直接安排的，符合要求就去考，考的上就进考不上照样进不了。 Now that even the special position of flying has been canceled for family members, how can others be arranged directly for you [embarrassing] [embarrassing]
要这么安排的话，没几年体制内不全是军嫂啊
我们这副团职的老婆也只是一个社工，普通士兵咋安排事业编[流泪]
现在的普通军官退伍转业都不一定能分到事业编呢，还军嫂直接给编制
我爹是当兵三十年的大校，军队里的教授，就这样我也没听家里说过可以给我直接安排进体制的，平时偶尔发给我的部队文职还一堆专业不符
There are many reasons why it is not easy for officers to get out of their orders. From the perspective of occupational characteristics, working environment, social cognition and personal factors, there are certain difficulties and challenges. However, we should also recognize that these difficulties and challenges are not insurmountable. As long as we can know and understand this group more deeply, and give them more support and love, I believe they will be able to find their own happiness and love.
In this regard, why are many officers single, and it is not easy to get out of singles? 您对军官的婚姻有何看法？ Welcome all friends to leave a comment in the comment area, don't forget to like and follow!