Feng Huacheng cheated on them, bringing a disgraceful end to their marriage of more than ten years. How determined Zhou Rong was at the beginning, how much she punched her face now. Why did two people who loved each other so much come to this point?
First, the status change
When she was a teenager, Zhou Rong, smart and beautiful, went to Guizhou alone, which gave Feng Huacheng a great sense of accomplishment. He was wholeheartedly good to Zhou Rong, and was even willing to climb the cliff to pick flowers for Zhou Rong.
All this is because at that time Zhou Rong was a young man in the countryside and a teacher, and Feng Huacheng was a labor prisoner, their status itself was different, Zhou Rong was willing to marry him, he was grateful to Zhou Rong at the same time, he also felt that he was not worthy of Zhou Rong, for his status as a labor prisoner inferior, so in the relationship with Zhou Rong, Feng Huacheng was always willing to do more.
With Feng Huacheng's rehabilitation, his status changed accordingly, perhaps Zhou Rong did not feel that Feng Huacheng was any different, she admired Feng Huacheng at the beginning, and she did not treat him as a "rightist". But Feng Huacheng's heart has changed, he put herself on the same level as Zhou Rong, and his efforts are no longer so hard and complaining, no longer so deserved.
Marriage is to be run by two people, so is the housework, Feng Huacheng, whose status has changed, the division of household chores in the family has not changed. Cooking and doing housework are still Feng Huacheng's tasks, and even sometimes the family is confiscated and picked up, and it has to be counted down by Zhou Rong. Zhou Rong still did not stick to the Yang Spring Water with ten fingers.
Second, love is consumed by trivialities
Zhou Rong once said: Worship is the foundation of love. She thinks that she loves Feng Huacheng herself, but does she still worship Feng Huacheng? That kind of worship has long been worn away by reality. When she was just in college in Beijing, every time Feng Huacheng published a new poem or recited it in the auditorium, Zhou Rong not only looked at it herself, she also pulled Zhou Bingyi to see it.
At that time, Zhou Rong admired Feng Huacheng, and she still admired his talent. Feng Huacheng went to college, he was knowledgeable in front of Zhou Rong, and later Zhou Rong also went to college, graduate school, and doctorate, and the gap between them was getting smaller and smaller. Zhou Rong no longer had that lofty admiration for Feng Huacheng.
Although Feng Huacheng still wanted to read the poems to Zhou Rong after writing the poems, Zhou Rong was always busy doing other things, and she did not have the energy to care about the poems he wrote, and she no longer had the energy to take care of Feng Huacheng's emotions, and she never sincerely praised the poems written by Feng Huacheng.
Third, the effort is not understood
Feng Hua became a residence in Beijing, gave up the opportunity to enter the Writers Association, and chose to go to a library with no future. In order to have a residence in Beijing, it is better to take Yue Yue to live in the future, and Feng Huacheng is working hard for this family.
Feng Huacheng is still responsible for cooking and doing housework, taking over the work at home, and Zhou Rong is single-mindedly studying for graduate school and doctoral studies. For Feng Huacheng's efforts, Zhou Rong did not say a word: Huacheng, hard work. She did not say any words of thanks, in her opinion, everyone should pay for her studies, including Bing Kun and Zheng Juan, who did her adoptive parents and children, and Feng Huacheng, who did housework for her, worked to earn money to support her.
Zhou Rong actually married Feng Huacheng's married life is very happy, she manages few things in the family, and everything has Feng Huacheng. After returning to Jichun, they had real troubles, no house to live in, and they couldn't take Yue Yue over. Zhou Rong has a complaint about Feng Huacheng, especially after Cai Xiaoguang became the director and was divided into a two-bedroom apartment, she was even more. At first, she didn't like Cai Xiaoguang, but now, Cai Xiaoguang mixed better than Feng Huacheng.
Why isn't Feng Huacheng in a hurry? So for a suite, he pulled down his face and smiled and gave gifts everywhere, just so that he could share a suite. But there are a lot of gifts, and the house has not yet landed. Zhou Rong, as a wife, still does not understand, thinking that he is depraved and despicable. It was no better than taking a knife and turning Feng into Ling.
Feng Huacheng did this in order to get assigned to the room as soon as possible and take his daughter over early, his grievances and his efforts were not understood by Zhou Rong, and Zhou Rong even looked down on him. When he was held so high at the beginning, and now he is worthless, Feng Huacheng has a big gap in his heart, he thinks that Zhou Rong has no love for him anymore, and does not divorce only because of his daughter.
Fourth, reality and ideals
Feng Huacheng was also a very high-minded person at the beginning, he was reluctant to communicate with others, but for the sake of the house, he had already compromised with reality. But Zhou Rong did not, she was still living in her own world, what she did not want to do was not to do, she loved face, Qinggao, she could not do the thing of asking for gifts, and she did not allow Feng Huacheng to do it.
Watching her daughter grow up day by day, she can't pick up if she doesn't come to her side. Feng Huacheng began to urge Zhou Rong to find someone who divided the room, but Zhou Rong did not want to ask for someone and went to find Cai Xiaoguang.
Cai Xiaoguang came forward to give a gift to Director Miao, saying that the next time there was a quota for Zhou Rong, but when the results came out, zhou Rong found that she did not have her own name, in addition to calling Cai Xiaoguang to question, she also went to Director Miao to get back the gift sent by Cai Xiaoguang. Zhou Rong's move is really jaw-dropping.
The gift was sent by Cai Xiaoguang, nor was it the money that Zhou Rong spent, she was not qualified to get it back at all, she still did it, and she was justified. She said: Entrusted by others, loyal to others. Her righteous appearance is really childish and funny, obviously she went to ask for someone's family, but it seems that people beg her.
Zhou Rong's unreasonable approach really pushed Feng Huacheng farther away. The collision of ideals and reality is destined to be hurtful and cruel, Feng Huacheng does not understand Zhou Rong, Zhou Rong does not understand Feng Huacheng, and the seeds of contradiction slowly sprout in the heart, waiting to erupt.
Fifth, it is difficult to break the mirror
After two years, Director Miao fell, Zhou Rong finally got the house, and the two had a fierce quarrel, Zhou Rong taunted Feng Huacheng for sending so many gifts, not even the unity household, such a taunt is fatal for a man.
But Zhou Rong did not realize her own problem, Zhou Rong grew up with her parents spoiled, brothers let her, she did not want to raise children, so she put the children in her brother's place, no one said her. She developed the habit of thinking only for herself, doing things impulsively, not thinking about the consequences, thinking that someone would always help her.
Husbands are not relatives, and they will not be unconditionally coaxed, let go, and endured. Feng Huacheng cheats, and he meets another little girl who adores him. The girl was just like Zhou Rong when she was young, with the same eyes, full of adoration and blazing heat. Feng Huacheng fell.
Although Zhou Rong, reminded by Cai Xiaoguang, knew that she had done something wrong, it was too late. Zhou Rong still divorced Feng Huacheng. Cai Xiaoguang said: Zhou Rong has no femininity. Will not show weakness, will not spoil.
In fact, the marriage between Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng failed, not only because she did not have femininity, but because her words that poked her heart were rooted in Feng Huacheng's heart, and their marriage was already in ruins.
The end of their marriage is a matter of sooner or later, and Although Feng Huacheng's betrayal is shameless, it is not because of how good the third party is, but Because Zhou Rong really did too badly and woke up too late, which is the real reason for regret and regret.
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