The Hengheng children in the class were angry at every turn: the teacher did not ask him to be angry when he asked the question, the classmate accidentally touched him to get angry, when he grabbed something when playing with toys, he was criticized for being angry...
Every time he was angry, the teacher or nurseryman had to patiently coax him to slowly dissipate his anger, but after a while, as long as he was unhappy, he would start to get angry again. When angry, Hengheng is like a frog, pouting, frowning, and staring at you with his eyes open.
After repeating this a few times, I realized that simply following his mood would not help, and it would only make him gamble harder. And because someone coaxed him every time, he got angry more and more often.
Thursday morning exercise, the instrument in his hand was unstable, I asked him to pick it up, he stood motionless again, staring at me, no one who called him by name did not respond.
This time I decided to treat him coldly and could no longer indulge him, so I deliberately pretended not to look at him and ignored his angry behavior.
Until the end of the morning exercise music, I took the child back to the activity room, but still did not call him. Unexpectedly, he came back with the team himself, and went to eat snacks and drink milk as usual. In fact, HengHeng is very smart, he has been observing me, if I pay attention to him, he will continue to be angry, see me still ignore him, he will find his own steps down.
After eating a good snack, I took Heng Heng aside, talked to him seriously, and then told him: "It is not good to be angry casually; it is impolite to say no to others."
In the next activity, Heng Heng performed very well, and there was no anger in the activity. Of course, changing a habit is not an overnight thing, but teachers and parents should pay attention to the method and stick to it for a long time, and there will always be changes.
Love the child, do not have to blindly follow the child, when the child has inappropriate behavior, timely let the child calm down, reflect on it, the effect may be better.
Text: Sunny Day of Lucky Grass (Hideko Time)