Du Xinzhi was born in 1963. My father worked in a department store, but in the planned economy years, it was a hot unit and a well-off family. Since childhood, he has been the pearl in the palm of his parents, with a cheerful personality, loves to talk and laugh, although he is not a famous bridesmaid, but he is also a small family jasper. After graduating from high school, he failed to enter the university and was placed in a state-owned unit. In the wave of reform in the eighties, like most of their contemporaries, they were laid off. Du Xinzhi is smart and smart, and his cooking skills are very good. "The people take food as the sky", Du Xinzhi made a clever move, determined to open a restaurant. At that time, the restaurant was far from saturated, and she was the first to smell the business opportunities. After careful investigation, Du Xinzhi and his wife decided to open the restaurant near a lot with a large population throughput and frequent flow. Because Du Xinzhi and her husband Guo Xikuan can bear hardships and stand hard work, the two get up early and go dark, night and day, coupled with sincerity, small profits and high sales, and the business is extremely hot. It is said that husband and wife are in the same heart, and their profits are broken. Over the past few years, it has made a lot of money. As early as the end of the 1980s, the two were well-known local households. At that time, the million-dollar households were more popular than today's millionaires, far beyond the average working class, and they lived a well-off life in advance.
As recently as 1985, they had their eldest daughter. It may be due to overwork during pregnancy, coupled with the child's lack of oxygen suffocation during the delivery process, the daughter's mental development is slow, and she is eventually diagnosed with intellectual disability. In order to see her daughter, Du Xinzhi traveled to and from the Provincial Children's Hospital many times, but with little effect, but the couple never gave up the hope of their children's recovery. Continue to take care of the hotel business while seeking medical advice. In 1991, inadvertently a new life was quietly conceived. But because he did not have the qualifications for the birth of a second child at that time, Du Xinzhi originally wanted to beat up this child who had not come at the right time, but her husband felt that life was not easy to come by, and everything was caused by karma and insisted on staying. Later, after being checked as a boy, he strengthened his determination to keep the child. Since the first child was a daughter, the arrival of this son is undoubtedly the best gift that God has specially given to the couple.
For the sake of the healthy health of the child with the belly, during pregnancy, Guo Xikuan changed his tricks to make food for his wife, and cooked rib soup and chicken soup for her every day. The couple checked regularly for fear of any missteps. Later, ultrasound B showed that the child had signs of an umbilical cord around the neck, and he was admitted to the hospital for observation in advance to ensure that he could give birth to a child in good health. In order to prevent accidents, Du Xinzhi insisted on caesarean section, preferring to suffer more by himself and hoping to save some effort for his children. Who knew that man was not as good as heaven, but he was artificially mistaken in the hospital, laying the groundwork for the unfortunate end in the future.
The birth of the child gives the couple great expectations and motivation, and they will give everything for this new life. Seeing their well-behaved and lovely sons as the treasure in their hands is also the continuous motivation for them to fight for it, even if they give their lives. Although Zhumadian is not a big city, but the relatively favorable family conditions do not let the children suffer anything, more importantly, Du Xinzhi will put down his hands every weekend to accompany the children throughout the business, the couple spends all their energy on taking care of business and educating children, sacrificing all hobbies to keep their lives in order. Whether it is for his daughter with intellectual disabilities or for his eighty-year-old mother Gao Tang, Du Xinzhi has poured out his love and care. And it was in this overwork that the years eroded her beauty, and the hard work destroyed her health, but she was still the cheerful and smiling woman.
When you know about the wrong change, it is like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and when you know that your own son is in danger, it is like five thunderbolts. This sudden succession of blows made her completely confused, and her kindness and generosity not only did not impress the person who returned the sick child, but also caused more violent harm. The weakness of human nature of bullying the soft and fearing the hard is vividly manifested in this storm of wrong exchange. I thought that the nurturing feelings accumulated in the years had been deeply rooted in the heart of the adopted son, but in the end I still underestimated the influence of the environment and the temptation of fame and fortune, and finally I could only watch the son who was brought up with one hand go farther and farther.
Life is a zero-sum game, no matter how hard you work hard in the first half of your life, the second half of your life will be stripped away little by little. When the son who has been raised for 28 years chooses to leave, Du Xinzhi and his wife still can't help but feel a faint pain in their hearts, because that child has long become an inseparable part of their hearts...
Or does Cao Xueqin see life thoroughly, saying in "Good Song": The world says that the gods and immortals are good, but only children and grandchildren can't forget; obsessive parents have come to many places, and filial piety to their children and grandchildren who have seen?
