Look at your village, there are people who are so rich that they are oily, and there are people who are so poor that they can't open the pot.
It is clear that in the seventies and eighties of the last century, every family was very poor, and there was not a single household of 10,000 yuan.
In the community in the city, some people drive luxury cars, some people can't afford to buy a car, and there are mortgages that are pressing on them.
People of the same age, I don't know when, become uneven.
Everyone wants to get rich, but on the way to get rich, they feel more and more hopeless.
When you reach a certain age, you will find that if a person is rich, he is not rich, and if a family is rich, he is really rich.
"Home" is the starting point of life, and it is also the final destination. Therefore, we must find ways to make our families rich, think more from the perspective of our families, and change our lives.
If your family can't be "rich", read Liu Bowen's six sentences, and you will understand.
01
"Resign from its name, accept the facts, the great wisdom of the world": lose face and work hard.
The best wisdom is to abandon hypocritical fame and accept things for what they are. However, many poor people die to save face, and for the sake of saving face, they have done a lot of unreasonable things and spent a lot of money.
Some parents see that their neighbor's child has made a new dress, and they have to buy one for themselves, otherwise they feel that their child will be wronged and looked down upon.
Some middle-aged people, mixed in the social circle, do not invite people to dinner, and do not go to themselves, so the more people they interact, the greater the expenses, but no one brings him benefits.
Yan Jiehe, a wealthy man, said: "We never want face when we do big things, we can tear off the skin and throw it on the ground, kick it a few times, and walk away without disdain." ”
Put down your face, live a down-to-earth life, and make money, then you won't be picky about your work, and the expenses you show off will be gone, and your life will naturally improve.
02
"Will be nurtured and cultivated, with enough for the people, its feelings are different": living within the means, more than enough.
To nurture something, it is necessary to multiply it to meet the needs of the people. Think about it, why is your family's wealth not surplus every year? It is simply that you spend more than you earn, not that you have no income at all.
Those families who got rich first are not ridiculously high incomes, but are good at planning living expenses and plugging the loopholes of "buying, buying, buying".
A family must have a long-term plan, and it can never get by.
If you keep the money, you can turn it into capital, so as to meet the investment needs in the future, and you can give your children and grandchildren more opportunities to make a fortune. If everyone is used to eating up and using up all Xi, the next generation will have to start from scratch.
As long as the children are not morally corrupt, then the property left by the parents will increase the thickness of life. Several generations have a surplus, so why worry about the family not being rich?
03
"A woman regards her husband as the sky, and does not abandon her misfortune, how can it be reasonable": husband and wife suffer together, and heaven is the way.
In ancient times, some people disliked their sick wives and divorced them, while others were driven back to their mothers' homes because they had not given birth. Men don't know that women treat their husbands as heaven, and it is against heaven to divorce their wives.
Now, we are no longer the era of male superiority and inferiority, everyone is equal, but the things that husband and wife abandon each other will still happen. Especially in some families that get rich, the husband and wife are fluttering, and they have found a third party, or they can't resist the temptation of the outside world.
A true husband and wife who share weal and woe. When the husband and wife divorce, the family property is divided into two, and the children live miserably, how can such a family be rich?
Society has a temperature. Even if one of the husband and wife falls ill, as long as the other person does not leave and takes good care of him, caring people will appear, and then countless people will help him, and he will still be rich.
04
"A person with one eye can make the eyesight, and the stone of the five poisons can make ulcers": each does his best, and works together.
A person with one eye can see a spirit level, and poisonous drugs can also treat carbuncles. Everything has its value.
I've seen a little story.
The three brothers in the family are all in poor health and are worried about their mother, but the father is very optimistic.
The eldest son could not walk on his feet, but learned to paint, and supported himself by selling paintings; the second son could not move his hands, but his feet were very flexible, and he won medals on the running field; the younger son was not good at his hands and feet, but he had a good singing voice, and he was also good at singing.
"Looking horizontally at the side of the ridge and forming a peak", a family, from a longitudinal point of view, the elderly help to take care of their grandchildren, which is to give full play to their surplus heat, and the children to support their parents is filial piety. Horizontally, siblings can do anything by helping each other.
If the family is not rich, it is often that everyone does not discover their own advantages, and there is no complementary advantage. If so, it would be very different.
The key to the prosperity of family and everything is the synthesis of "labor, skills, and financial resources", not to raise the bar to each other, and not to produce internal friction.
05
"The boat is in the water, and its movement is also like the water, not the automatic of the boat": ask less for others, and cross yourself.
When a boat moves in the water, it is not the boat that moves, but the action of the current. The ancients went with the water, and people today are not like this, but invented motors that can push boats and set off in any direction.
Think about it, where is the "motor" of the family?
Don't complain that the society is too dark, outsiders don't help, you have to rely on your own family, how to create value. If you have a "motor" and can sail against the current, no matter how chaotic the society is, you will also have a place.
As a family, study hard and seek a career together. If the family is outstanding in a certain aspect, there will also be good things such as "rich in the mountains and distant relatives".
06
"Is it the taste of weeds that is different? It's just human affection": the situation is born from the heart, contentment.
The same bowl of beans, different circumstances, the taste is different. Because of the different realms.
Once upon a time, there was a man named Uncle Zheng who fled to the wilderness, and the farmer gave him a bowl of bean soup, and he ate it with relish.
Later, when he became an official, he went to the farmer's house and felt that the bean soup was not as sweet as before.
Perhaps, it is not that your family is not rich, but that there are too many desires, or that the living conditions are too good, causing everyone to feel miserable and compete with each other for property.
The most terrifying thing is that your family has a mansion, but it is deserted, but it is not as good as the ordinary people in those small buildings. The family has no fireworks, and it is too tired to go out every day to eat delicacies from the mountains and seas.
A good life requires bittersweet memories. If not, he is holding on to gold, and he still resents that he is not the first tyrant in the world.
07
There is a line in the TV series "In the Name of Family": "Home is a trivial but warm daily life, and it is also the one that belongs to you in the lights of thousands of homes." ”
If a family wants to get rich, it needs manpower, but also human affection and warmth. As long as everyone works together to create wealth and live a thrifty life, they will be rich every year.
I have money, my heart is satisfied, and my family is in happiness.
Rich and not rich are relative and never fixed.
From today onwards, everyone is positive, and the family is more prosperous.