It has been said, "When you love someone, you treat him well without expecting anything in return." No matter what happens to you in the future, he just follows the guidance of his heart in the present. ”
Feelings are like this many times, there are not too many flowery words, and the person who really wants to go on with you will always use his own way to let you see his sincerity.
Rather than a promise that you don't know when it will be fulfilled, the people who love you are more willing to keep you with practical actions.
In a relationship, when you are really in love, a man will treat you in the following ways, and he is very secure.
1. Take the initiative to get the money into your hands
In the relationship between men and women, "money", "consumption", "transfer", ...... These are very sensitive words. In the eyes of many people, it is as if their feelings become no longer pure once they are contaminated with the copper smell of money.
But the feelings of adults always can't escape the firewood, rice, oil and salt of real life.
For a person who loves you from the bottom of his heart, he will not feel that it is cheesy to talk to you about money, but he is willing to face the trivial things in life with you, and he is also willing to face the financial expenses with you openly and honestly.
He is willing to take the initiative to hand over his salary to you, and to some extent he is also giving you a sense of security.
As the writer Sanmao once said: "If love is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it will not last long." ”
People who love you deeply will take the initiative to hand over the money to you.
It is not a constraint on you to him, but a guarantee of his commitment to you.
2. Plan your future carefully
In the relationship, there is love, and there will be a future.
If a person is with you and only wants to enjoy your present moment and not think about what to do with you in the future, then he probably doesn't love you that much. What's more, he just wants to be with you for a short period of time, and then the matter will be over.
On the contrary, if he loves you deeply from the bottom of his heart, then he will do everything he can to keep you by his side. You're already the best partner for him, so he doesn't want to miss you and he doesn't want to go to anyone else.
In such a situation, he will carefully plan for your future and will also include you in his future.
You can see that he is introducing you to your family and friends with all his heart, and you can also feel that he is preparing for your later life.
A man who will plan your future with his heart loves you deeply, otherwise he would not have bothered so much.
3. His friends all know you
If a person doesn't love you that much, then you won't have a chance to get to know him too many close friends. Because he won't let anyone around him know that you exist—and by the same token, it means that he doesn't plan to be with you for too long.
On the contrary, if he loves you deeply in his heart, then he will introduce you to his friends and let them know that you exist. It's not just about giving you a sense of security, it's more often about letting your friends know that he's happy with you at the moment.
When people feel happy, they are always willing to share their happiness, so that more people know why they are happy. It's like if you're very happy after a trip, you'll be more willing to post on Moments to let everyone know your mood.
When his friends know you, you should know that he loves you deeply in his heart.
There are many things that cannot be explained clearly in words, but many times you can't just listen to what the other party says, but also feel more carefully about what he has done for you.
As it is said in "The Little Prince": "Important things are invisible to the eye." ”
Good feelings cannot be measured by time, nor can they be measured by words, only by feeling with heart, so that there is an answer in the heart.