After seeing Jiang Ping, a secondary school student who beat Qingbei, I decided to raise a child in a different way

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2024-06-21 22:29Posted in Anhui parenting field creators

Every child is a shining star, and parents should be good at discovering their children's shining points.

Let your child shine his own unique light and light his way forward.

Author | Fireworks in March

Recently, Jiang Ping, a 17-year-old secondary school girl, has remained hot.

Because she was successfully shortlisted for the finals of this year's Alibaba Global Mathematics Competition with a good score of 12, she is the first secondary school student to enter the finals since the competition was held.

In this competition, she competed with other contestants from Peking University, Tsinghua University, Cambridge University and other world-renowned universities, fully demonstrating her mathematical talent and strength.

No wonder netizens called her a "math genius".

Jiang Ping is from Huai'an City, Jiangsu Province, and is a student at Jiangsu Lianshui Secondary Vocational School, majoring in fashion design.

Mathematics has always been her interest, and she never gave up studying mathematics when she went to secondary school.

With the support and encouragement of her math teacher, she participated in this global competition and became famous in one fell swoop.

Now she is actively preparing for the upcoming finals.

In the minds of most parents, there is a chain of educational contempt, arranged in order, in order of key high schools> general high schools> technical secondary schools.

If the child's grades are not good during the high school entrance examination and he applies for a secondary school, the child's future is almost ruined.

The truth is not so absolute.

The temporary quality of the grades really does not determine the child's long life.

Just like Jiang Ping, even if she is in a secondary school, as long as you grasp your interest and make unremitting efforts, there will be infinite possibilities in the future.

There are no useless children

Only geniuses who run the wrong track

Zhejiang's Mahonda was also a disappointing person in the high school entrance examination, he chose to use skills to rewrite his life, and embarked on the road of counterattack from "plasterer" to world champion.

Mahonda did not give up on himself because he stepped into the door of the technician college, but with the desire for his dream, after learning certain knowledge and skills, he resolutely signed up for the selection of the worldskills competition plastering and partition system project.

During the training, he came to the training room early every day, wearing work clothes, wearing a hard hat, and holding tools, and began training day after day.

When he realized that his skills were not good enough and he needed to practice harder, he gave up his rest time, increased his training volume, and even sweated in the training room in the dead of night.

His hands were frayed from the skin, but he never complained.

In the end, he won the applause of the audience with his superb skills and smooth movements, and successfully won the gold medal in the world-class competition.

After graduation, Mahonda returned to his alma mater as a trainee teacher and coach of the World Championships, passing on his experience and skills to more students and contributing to the cultivation of more skilled talents.

They all said, "God has prepared a low branch for every child." ”

Every child has the possibility of soaring, the key is to find the low branch that belongs to him first.

Not long ago, Xu Wei and Li Yukun, 2022 students majoring in computer application at a secondary vocational school in Guangxi

Won the first prize of the 2024 Guangxi Vocational College Skills Competition (Secondary Vocational Group) "Mobile Convergence Media Production and Application" (Group Competition).

During the high school entrance examination, both of them were not admitted to high school because of their poor grades, but chose to go to a secondary vocational school and became classmates.

However, the two did not relax their requirements for themselves because they entered the vocational school, but continued to absorb knowledge in their own specialty fields and actively participated in various competitions.

During the preparation for the competition, Xu Wei devoted himself wholeheartedly to training. In addition to his class time, he spends almost all of his spare time training.

He actively communicates with his instructors, is good at summarizing experience and reflecting on problems, and effectively solves the difficulties encountered.

Even after a long period of training and pressure, I never complained or regretted it.

Li Yukun showed great perseverance and determination in the preparation process.

Not only does she practice repeatedly on the computer, but she also uses a notebook to record the difficulties and solutions.

She treats every practice session as an official competition and holds herself to high standards at all times.

She quickly went from being a novice to being a novice to being able to complete her events efficiently.

There is a saying that says, "Choosing the right path is more important than working blindly." ”

Effort is important, and the choice of path is even more important.

Placing children in the wrong environment will not only prevent them from showing their potential talents and talents, but will also cause them to struggle in areas where they are not good at them, and experience endless hardships and frustrations.

Don't be afraid of starting from a low-lying place

I'm afraid of lack of stamina

Recently, Peking University announced the list of proposed admissions for 2024 master's students, and one of the students named Shi Shuangkui is particularly eye-catching.

He went from secondary school student to college to college, and then to college promotion, counterattacked all the way, and finally successfully landed as a graduate student of Peking University!

Looking back on Shi Shuangkui's study path, he is full of tenacity and determination.

When he was in junior high school, he set his ambition to study medicine. Faced with family pressure and learning challenges, he chose to start with a medical secondary school and enter a tertiary school three years later.

However, he did not stop there, and after passing the college entrance examination, he was successfully admitted to Henan Kaifeng Institute of Science and Technology and Media, becoming a freshman in clinical medicine in 2021.

During his undergraduate years, Shi Shuangkui was deeply affected by the strong learning atmosphere.

Whenever he saw the honor roll of graduate students on campus, the "Peking University dream" in his heart began to take root.

"Why can't you go for your dreams?" He asked himself.

So, he began to prepare for the exam with all his might.

Library, study room, small garden...... In every corner of Henan Kaifeng Institute of Science and Technology and Media, Shi Shuangkui has been left to study hard.

Now, he has successfully realized his dream of being a graduate student at Peking University, and has drawn a strong stroke for his study path.

Don't be afraid of the mountains ahead just because the starting point is a small hill.

As long as you have dreams and move forward bravely, you can eventually climb to the pinnacle of your own life.

I still remember three years ago, I confidently said in my speech:

"I'm just a 'soil pig' from the countryside, and I'm determined to arch the cabbage in the big city!" And Zhang Xifeng, a graduate of Hengshui Middle School who caused a lot of controversy?

In that year, he was admitted to Zhejiang University with a high score of 674 points, majoring in computer science.

On the eve of this year's college entrance examination, he was interviewed again.

Now that he is a junior, he is the same as he was 3 years ago, and he no longer has the youthful and high-spirited appearance he used to have.

He admitted that he was very confused at this time and regretted his choice of computer science.

When he first filled in the volunteer, he didn't know where his hobby was, but he just heard that the computer major made money, so he filled in the computer science.

When he really learned it, he found that it wasn't what he liked at all, and he hated writing code.

He also said that he had enough high school and didn't want to go to graduate school anymore.

Now he is looking for an internship in great pain.

He said that his current state, like the capybara: "It's good to be alive, it's okay to be dead." ”

In the past, Zhang Xifeng also had light in his eyes, but now his eyes are full of emptiness.

Compared with secondary school students, whether it is Jiang Ping, Ma Hongda, Xu Wei and Li Yukun, or Shi Shuangkui, although their starting point is low, they have never given up their efforts, and they can also harvest a brilliant future.

And those children who are no longer enterprising after being admitted to a prestigious school will play a good deck of cards to a pulp.

I am not afraid that the children's starting point is low, but I am afraid that their stamina is insufficient.

As parents, how to choose the most suitable growth path for their children according to their unique personality and potential, and provide them with a fertile soil that can be deeply rooted, is a topic that we need to do all our lives.

1. Accept your child for who he is

My aunt's cousin's high school entrance examination results were not satisfactory and failed to meet the admission line of high school.

My cousin wanted to learn technology from secondary school, but my aunt and uncle-in-law felt that it was embarrassing. So I decided to spend a lot of money and send my cousin to a high school in the city.

However, after entering high school, my cousin found that she was out of step with the classmates around her, and she seemed to be unable to do anything in terms of knowledge level or pace of study.

The expectations of her parents and the pressure of the school made her feel depressed, and her grades at the bottom of the school were even more slumped.

Gradually, my cousin became reticent, lost interest in studying, and shivered at the sight of the test papers, and suffered from insomnia at night, and her hair fell out badly.

It's understandable that parents have expectations for their children's learning.

But if you can't accept the child's true appearance, you will be irresponsible to the child if you force the child to stumble in the field that he is not good at.

Children's learning ability is limited, and they can't get into high school, so it's not bad to settle for second.

2. Use an appreciative eye to discover your child's talents

Two years ago, Gong Zheng, a boy from Quzhou, Zhejiang Province, was successfully admitted to Zhejiang Sci-Tech University with a perfect score in mathematics and a total score of 562 points, ranking second in the province.

You know, he is not a top student in a key high school.

Back in the high school entrance examination five years ago, Gong Zheng's mother faced a major choice:

Whether to let her son choose the path of secondary school.

Gong Zheng's academic situation is worrying, and his grades have been unsatisfactory, especially in English and Chinese, and his grades are often failing.

Although he excelled in science subjects, his overall score in the high school entrance examination was only 450, which prevented him from getting into the local general high school.

Gong Zheng's mother, as a teacher at a key high school, is full of expectations for her son's future.

However, in the face of her son's serious bias and failure in the high school entrance examination, she could only make positive adjustments after sighing helplessly.

After in-depth communication with her son, she decided to respect Gong Zheng's wishes and support him in choosing secondary school.

This decision may not have been favored by most people at the time, and was even considered a helpless choice.

Unexpectedly, Gong Zheng's gorgeous turn three years later amazed everyone.

In fact, whether it is vocational education or going to university, it is best for parents to help their children choose the path that suits them.

There are many ways to excel in life, not necessarily to prove one's ability with academic performance, but also to be recognized for those who work hard for their hobbies.

Albert Einstein once said:

"If you judge a fish by its ability to climb trees, it will feel like a fool for the rest of its life."

Every child is unique, they have their own strengths and strengths, as well as their own interests and hobbies.

For example, some children may be good at math and science, while others may be better at art and music.

As parents, we should respect and support their choices, rather than forcing them to pursue what we consider to be "success".

Remember:

Every child is a book, and although the cover is different, it all deserves to be gently flipped through and understood.

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