Another show of internal entertainment has been torn up.
The guests shook their faces in front of the camera.
"When I meet a guest who is pretending, how do you let me play?"
Outside the program, the party Yu Xiuhua posted on Weibo to complain.
"For this show, I used the limit of my patience!"
tore to netizens and followed the onlookers to stand in line.
Each insisted on its own words and bombarded each other.
With related entries, it also rushed to the hot search, which stimulated a lot of discussions.
Wait, what kind of melon is this?
Uncle Yu's gossip soul is burning, so let's take a look at it together.
It all starts with a show.
This is the recently released new all-female variety show "I Love Me, It's Great".
The show invited four female guests who are quite topical at the moment to travel together.
The first is a poet who is famous in the literary world for his poetry and surfs wildly by scolding, Yu Xiuhua.
The legendary experience, uninhibited attitude towards life, and a sharp mouth that will never admit defeat have made many people crown her the title of "big heroine".
The second is the "50-year-old self-driving aunt" who ran away from domestic violence, Su Min.
Halfway through life, re-embarking on the road has inspired many women to seek freedom.
The third is Deng Jing, who was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer and recorded her "100 last wishes in life" with a video.
The last one is more special, it is an Internet celebrity, Wanyan Huide.
The reason why she is special is that she has a lot of contradictions and controversies.
Like a black and red constitution:
After winning the certificate in psychology from Peking University, Wanyan Huide opened a live broadcast to receive psychological counseling.
However, because of many speeches with rotten concepts and peculiar accents, he was ridiculed by netizens and became popular.
"Okay, it's a girlfriend, if it's bad, it's a friend of enemies."
"Laughed and embraced"
"-Why didn't my mom take me when she got married--Because you're her oil bottle......
All of the above has made many people question his academic fraud, live broadcast fraud, and even a trend of cyberbullying.
Who knew that she quickly relied on a documentary to reverse the criticism.
In the film, she talks a lot about cyberbullying stress, living alone in poverty, having no children and daughters, and having a rough life......
More like a poor man covered in scars than an internet celebrity.
The guests all have personalities and stories, and there must be no shortage of highlights.
Sure enough, the opening scene was a tear X.
According to the program arrangement, Yu Xiuhua and Wanyan Huide met first.
The two of them are rebellious and traditional, and they don't deal with each other when they first meet.
As small as lifestyles, habits are very different:
For example, Yu Xiuhua's sitting posture is informal, and in the eyes of Wanyan Huide, "there is no woman's shape".
Yu Xiuhua loves to drink and relies on alcohol to sleep all year round.
and Wanyan Huide, who advocates health preservation, ignited the smell of gunpowder in a few words.
When you go out together, the path is also different.
One is poetic and picturesque, the other pays attention to hard work, and collides with inexplicable laughter.
As big as the attitude towards life, it is even more unrelated.
For example, Wanyan Huide's attitude towards marriage issues is very traditional, and she often advises people to endure it:
"Young couples are always in company, and it's better to have someone by your side than no one at all. I cherish this wife around me, the bottom of every pot is black, but the degree of blackness is different."
But as we all know, Yu Xiuhua insisted on divorce in her early years, and later when she fell in love, she also talked about the whole network watching.
Sitting below like this is tantamount to listening to a joke.
"I don't know if what she said is useful to those old men and mothers, anyway, I don't think I can use it."
Disagreements large and small accumulated, and contradictions finally broke out.
The two ate together, and the marriage issue was discussed again at the dinner table.
The concepts are different, and there was some friction between the two during the previous filming.
After a few words, the emotions went up, and they quickly broke up unhappily.
- Why didn't you get married?
- Why talk about my privacy.
-The whole network knows that I just ask, is it private for you to get married or not?
- Definitely counted. One, you're not my friend, and second, you're not my colleague, so I'm reluctant to answer.
- Met a guest in costume, how do you let me play.
Immediately afterwards, Yu Xiuhua directly expressed her disgust in the camera.
Outside the program, he also went online and was openly dissatisfied.
Many netizens naturally heard the wind and participated in the judgment, so that the two of them got along with each other mixed with the fermentation of female topics, which aroused a lot of discussions.
The all-female variety show, which was originally rushing to show the power of women, also relied on tearing forks to rise sharply.
To be honest, Uncle Yu always felt that the entertainment effect of the show exceeded the seriousness after watching it all the way.
Even their quarrel has its own laughter.
Yu Xiuhua's leading mental state and intimidating skills, coupled with Wanyan Huide's own hot stalk attributes, make the interaction between the two of them very comedic.
Many netizens just watched out of the mentality of having fun, and some even knocked on this pair of "enemy honey cp" (Uncle Yu admired).
In addition, the misunderstanding between the two was quickly resolved, and they slowly got along well in the show.
Yu Xiuhua's casualness gradually made Wanyan Huide relaxed.
Even with the deepening of friendship, Yu Xiuhua also took the initiative to help this enemy honey who was hurt by netizens because she was too old-fashioned and serious.
She frequently joked about accent stalks, which made Wan Yan realize that many words were not as malicious as she imagined.
During the process, he also talked about his traumatic experience and his original family, which was sincere and full of kindness.
The journey progressed, and the friendship between the two became stronger.
Yu Xiuhua deleted the Weibo of the intimidating people, and later kept in touch privately.
This kind of plot direction can be called a cure.
The parties are already happily playing, what are you arguing about on the Internet?
Uncle Yu looked at it and was silent.
Some are still stubbornly standing in line, vowing to find the fault party for the opening fork drama.
There are many more, obsessed with criticizing the female consciousness of the guests.
According to the content of the speech, the two were labeled as "advanced" and "backward" for a comparative trial.
Those marked as "backward" are criticized.
For example, Wanyan Huide, many conservative speeches were ridiculed by the group, and even considered the "shame" of the show.
Those marked "advanced" were scolded even worse.
Because "three sentences do not leave a man", and always discuss marriage issues, Yu Xiuhua has become a representative of the love brain that is not advanced enough.
If it's just a discussion, it's within a reasonable range.
However, the development of public opinion was not controlled, and the previous statements of the two were turned out again.
Like Yu Xiuhua's famous work "Passing Through Most of China to Sleep with You", with the follow-up of the tearing incident, the wind review was also questioned and questioned.
Later, it developed into a personal attack again.
This drama must be familiar to everyone.
As we all know, with the awakening of women, it has gradually become a trend to judge film and television works with feminist ideas.
It can indeed fight against stereotypes and positively encourage the birth of high-quality works.
However, this perspective is always inappropriate in this show.
In fact, it's not that the show is good, Yu Xiuhua once pointed out that the controversial marriage problem is set up by the program team.
Viewers who have watched too many routines can also realize this kind of deliberate guidance for the sake of the effect of the show.
However, the controversy caused by this show is still a sense of dislocation.
For example, use new ideas to judge middle-aged and elderly women.
Yu Xiuhua (48 years old) and Wanyan Huide (55 years old), who were scolded, have long been confused.
Most of their education paths are broken, and their upbringing experiences are also a history of suffering.
Like Wanyan Huide, his father died when he was five and a half years old, his mother remarried, and he could only live in a relative's house.
Later, her stepfather forced her to withdraw from her reasonable marriage in order to demand a sky-high bride price.
turned around and forced her to drop out of school, wanting to sell her as an adult to a disabled "rich man".
In order to resist all this, fighting for a breath, Wanyan Huide escaped from the house.
Who knew that he was in a car accident later, and the road to making a living was bumpy.
Due to her upbringing and environmental limitations, she does have a lot of stereotypical ways of thinking.
I really can't say any lofty theories, but there is a simple resistance and self-help.
Judging them solely by the current standards of online gender consciousness is actually a kind of arrogance.
And under the same standard, all the women in the show are bound to be "collapsed".
Yu Xiuhua was scolded for "love brain", Wanyan Huide adhered to the decadent "female virtue", Su Min has left but still can't let go of the family......
Many people don't realize that these judging principles are ridiculous in front of them.
In addition to the dislocation of the times, there is also the absurdity of using the standard of frame death to demand the living.
Indeed, now that everyone has seen too many labeled thin "big heroine" characters, and star artists who sell fake characters, they have already accumulated too much dissatisfaction, and they have also been trained to have a more rigorous judgment eye.
But the problem is that several female guests are not artists in the end, and some are even from the bottom.
For example, Su Min, a "self-driving aunt", has suffered domestic violence for a long time and once committed suicide, and her mental condition has improved after the self-driving trip.
She wanted to live, so she filed for divorce from her husband.
In the show, Su Min dialed her husband's phone again.
But the other party is still vague and evasive, and the divorce has been delayed again and again.
also grabbed Su Min's identity as an "Internet celebrity".
After the show, her husband asked him for 500,000 divorce fees, forcing Su Min to go online for help.
All this is even a copy of Yu Xiuhua's divorce dilemma.
This kind of predicament that ordinary women may encounter, together with the places in them that are seen as "backward", is a living proof of them.
Because in reality, there is no woman who is absolutely right and does not make mistakes, and who is absolutely "advanced" and not stumped by difficulties.
It is precisely because of this that the difficult progress of an imperfect ordinary person is more empathetic and moving.
To put it bluntly, the life experience of each of them is far richer than the thin theory.
Because of this, we can give each other weighty support and comfort.
also through the screen, giving some plain power that is different from the chicken blood slogan.
In the final analysis, when new ideas become new standards, when standards become sharp edges, users naturally have choices.
It can be aimed at injustice, at Keqi, at Shen.
But it can also be used as a crutch to reach into the distance and support specific people.
Holding on may not be perfect most of the time, but there is always some light in a lifetime.
"The flames are always rising, and so are the ashes."