Today I will talk to you about what is a true brother and what is true brotherhood.
Origin: Start with buying a car
In June 2018, I actually spent less than 30,000 yuan to buy a 6-year-old car. This little car is very porcelain, it is also very economical, and the car itself has few problems. It's such a small broken car, I have been driving for 6 years, running 15,000 kilometers every year, going to Xi'an, Linfen, Baoji, and preparing to go to Qinghai Lake to see.
However, the grade of this car is too low, my lover has complained in front of me more than once, she really has no face to sit in my car, the car looks too shabby, it is really inappropriate with our actual situation today, and it is easy to make people laugh.
Therefore, my lover, including most of my colleagues, leaders, friends, and relatives around me, encouraged me to change cars in various ways.
But I don't think so.
The joint venture car is still OK, although it is a little smaller
The people who encouraged me to change cars really went out of their way for me
Nowadays, wherever I go with the car, everyone who is familiar with me says, change the car. Your car is too old and broken, and it really doesn't fit your identity. I sometimes smile wryly, a crying worker, I don't know what my identity is.
Then they will recommend a variety of cars to me, among which new energy vehicles are the first choice. The reasons they give are nothing more than the low total price of the car, the low monthly payment, the energy saving, and the long mileage, which is really the first choice among the first choices.
Some also give me a down payment, loan interest, and a monthly repayment plan. To be honest, when it comes to whether or not I want to change cars, too many people around me are paying for me, which can be said to be heartbreaking.
Energy vehicles are a big hit
As mentioned earlier, my lover, my children, and my parents are all this suggestion, they always feel that the car is also a matter of face, and if you don't change the car, it means that you have no strength, and you will naturally be looked down upon.
But I was unmoved.
I'm pretty comfortable with what kind of car to drive
I think I'm extremely comfortable with the question of what kind of car I drive.
The car is a means of transportation, as long as it can refuel, it can start, the performance, power, safety of the car is acceptable, and it is energy-saving, it can take you to where you want to go, and it will not give you the chain, then it's okay, I care about others, what do I care about face.
Driving Alto can go from Shanghai to Tianjin, driving Audi can also go from Shanghai to Tianjin, and the ultimate goal is to reach Tianjin safely from Shanghai, which is not the end of the matter, which is not much different from what kind of car to take.
I'm mainly saying here that it's mainly aimed at ordinary people.
Therefore, as long as there is no major problem with my car and can accompany me to the end of the world, I will not change the car.
Only my best brother supported my decision, and this is called brotherhood
Good brother, deep love
God I mentioned this matter to my brother who has been with me for more than ten years.
My brother told me that in this situation, combined with our own situation, we can save a little money in hand, and there is really no need to spend hundreds of thousands, or tens of thousands, and then take a loan to support the car in installments. I have a little money to spare, and I am sure of everything.
If the car you drive now is really not good, you can spend another 30,000 yuan to buy a second-hand car that knows the roots, the fuel-efficient kind, and take good care of it.
Nowadays, the most important thing is not to buy a luxury car or buy a house for a house, but to spend money and energy on children's education.
The baby has studied well, and he will have a chance in the future, and it will be easy for you to do anything at that time. Now that I have a house and a car, I have made a mistake in the baby's study. The baby is not famous in school, and it will be a mess in the future, when we are old, the baby will suffer, and when the parents will also suffer, there will be no way to stare at all.
I think this is a true brother, a brother who is really good for us.
Live a life that's right for you
People live for a lifetime, and face is important, right? Of course, it is also important, but the most important thing is how to make yourself better, and this better life is not affected by external interference and influence.
Sometimes when you think about it, you just dress yourself up in a fancy way, or wear strange clothes, at most you will be laughed at by others, and more often, people actually don't feel it. Everyone is busy, how can they have time to pay attention to the every move of people who have nothing to do with them. So, don't care too much about what others say, just live a life that suits you.
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