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Saying that an "influential person" is "low-profile" and "simple-minded" in a certain field, even if the other party has had many radical behaviors, is tantamount to a resounding slap in the face.
But in this war of words in the entertainment industry, Huang An's sharp accusations against Big S really surprised many netizens.
The cause has to start with a video that went viral. In public, Big S spoke ruthlessly about a female artist who tried to go to Taiwan, clearly saying "As long as I want, I can stop her". This arrogant remark undoubtedly once again exposed her style of "access to power", which aroused widespread concern and condemnation.
In the face of the heat wave of public opinion, Huang An did not go along with the pollution, but hit the nail on the head: Big S is just an "illiterate" who graduated from junior high school, full of "negative energy", mercenary, playing with power, and his style of doing things is too "low". This commanding "roar" instantly triggered an Internet carnival - the long-established big S was actually planted in the hands of an outspoken "little young"?
Some people say that Huang An's approach is a "fall into the well" and a personal attack on a woman. But too much "compassion" often only condones more transgressive behavior. For public figures, their words and deeds should be subject to public scrutiny and criticism.
Compared with Big S's reckless behavior and stumbling blockade, Huang An's bluntness is actually quite "Mingjun" style. He just told the truth and pointed out the ugliness of Big S's "being unkind to the rich" and "mercenary", without any personal attacks. What is even more commendable is that Huang An used fearless courage to face the "suppression" of authority without fear, and his high-spirited righteousness became a positive energy.
Power is a double-edged sword for people - some people use it to restrain themselves, be humble and polite; But there are also people who have intensified and demanded power excessively. Big S obviously belongs to the latter, habitually doing whatever he wants with the help of influence and resources. Don't forget, behind her sentence "As long as I want to, I can stop her" is the domineering psychology of putting her own self-interest above the career development of artists.
As a public figure, Big S has the right to pursue his own interests, but he must not be above the law, let alone wantonly harm the legitimate rights and interests of others. Nor does being a married woman give her the privilege of being a backshit. Therefore, Huang An's rebuke can be regarded as a punishment, which made Big S wake up and stop the precipice.
Big S had previously said "to apologize to Huang An", which is indeed a wanton display with power. If it is said that the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, then the big S is probably completely unqualified to put the word "responsibility" on his lips.
Power is a source of strength, but if it is abused, it can become a curse. Big S is in a special social position, and he should have been more self-aware: retreat in the face of difficulties and go with the flow, instead of being unscrupulous and empty-eyed. Doesn't conscience often warn her to reflect on whether she has crossed the line too much?
In contrast, Huang An's courage and righteousness are the virtues that we should learn and emulate. In the face of power, he never bowed his head; In the face of intimidation, he never flinched. This kind of straight and upright backbone is the integrity that the new era should have.
But I have to admit that Big S is not completely without merit. Her "energy is indeed not small", and it is not easy to completely contain her. What's more, she obviously has her own philosophy of survival, predicament, and helplessness. Nor should we be too harsh and belittle the efforts she has made.
Everyone has flaws and deficiencies, and Big S is no exception. But the key is whether we have the courage to face up to our own flaws and seek to correct them. This is especially important for her in a high position.
The reason why Big S has been repeatedly criticized is largely because she lacks sufficient self-knowledge. She always habitually puts her special social status first, and rarely reflects on whether her actions are reasonable and legal. This kind of disregard for laws and regulations and reckless behavior will undoubtedly bring serious damage to her image.
But even so, as outsiders, we have no right to dictate her life path. Everyone has their own unique growth experience and survival philosophy, and Big S is no exception. Perhaps some of her practices stem from her own unique life experiences and values. In addition to outspoken and well-intentioned criticism, we should strive to understand her story with an open and inclusive mind.
After all, blind criticism can easily make people rebellious. If we really want Big S to change her life, then we should give her enough space to think independently and make her own choices. Forcibly preaching may cause her to bow her head temporarily, but it will eventually lead to stubborn resistance. Only with empathy can she re-examine herself and consciously abandon some excesses.
The road of life has never been smooth sailing, and Big S may have experienced all kinds of difficulties and tribulations. It is these twists and turns that may have created some of her "bad" behaviors today. But again, that doesn't mean she'll never have the possibility of self-improvement.
We believe that deep down, Big S must also have a heart that longs to be valued and understood. Her "recklessness" may be another way to vent this longing. If we could have treated her in a kinder, more empathetic way, she might have let her guard down, re-examined her heart, and achieved self-improvement.
Of course, the premise is that Big S himself must also have such self-knowledge and determination. If she still rests on her laurels and turns a blind eye, it can only be said that she is doomed to her fate. But we at least gave her that opportunity and tried to create a good atmosphere in an open-minded and friendly way.
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