Marriage is a crucial thing for everyone. However, some people can be very happy in their marriage, while others may feel less satisfied. These experiences are all first-time encounters with marriage, and more often due to family factors.
At a young age, girls can boldly pursue love, without expecting anything in return, and only enjoy the process. However, when pursuing marriage, women are more interested in stability, expecting the person she marries to give her the life she wants and make her feel happy.
Chapter01
My college classmate Xiaoli came from an ordinary family, but she was very self-reliant. In my free time, I am either in the library or working part-time to contribute to my family. Her classmates admired her tenacity.
After graduating from college, many people are anxiously looking for a job, but Xiaoli was recruited by many companies, and finally chose a good company and became a newcomer in the workplace. Although the salary is not high, there are no limits to the prospects for future development.
While at work, she met her current partner, Myeonghan. The two fell in love at first sight and always had dinner together after work every day. Soon they fell in love and officially became lovers. It didn't take long for them to start thinking about getting married.
Minghan's family background is quite good, much richer than Xiaoli's family. Before getting married, Minghan's mother once opposed the two of them being together, and she was also dissatisfied with Xiaoli. Although they finally got married, in order to prevent Xiaoli from spending the family's money, Minghan's mother proposed the AA system, which made Xiaoli feel a little uneasy. However, in order to get married, she also had to compromise.
Chapter02
After getting married, the life of the couple is as plain as water. Xiaoli's mother-in-law doesn't come often, and the two have a good relationship. But in terms of usual expenses, Minghan insisted on the AA system, which made Xiaoli a little uncomfortable.
One day, Xiaoli's mother suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized, and the family was in urgent need of money. Xiaoli used her savings first, but it was still not enough. So she wanted to borrow some money from her husband to support her. But when my mother-in-law learned about it, she said that she could borrow it, but she had to pay it back.
At this time, Xiao Li's heart was already cold, and she felt her mother-in-law's indifferent attitude. She still nodded in agreement with your request. After a while, Xiaoli returned the money used for treatment to Minghan and worked harder.
Chapter03
Later, Xiaoli became more and more successful, and her salary became higher and higher. But her mother-in-law is starting to change her mind. Although her mother-in-law often asks Xiaoli for money for various reasons, Xiaoli no longer agrees easily. Although Xiaoli originally wanted to help her mother-in-law, she remembered the hardships she had encountered, so she finally rejected her mother-in-law.
Before the Chinese New Year, her mother-in-law said to her: "Daughter-in-law, let me take 20,000 yuan, I want to buy New Year's goods." However, Xiaoli directly refused: "It's not free, you said AA system at the beginning." After that, the two always quarreled unhappily because of money, and the relationship was in jeopardy.
Sentiment Analysis:
It's really not easy for two people to come together, and after getting married, you should treat each other as the closest people. When facing your own people, don't be too each other, after all, money is not the most important, family affection is the most precious.
Sometimes, the man's mother hopes that her daughter-in-law will be more self-reliant, financially managed, and less dependent on family resources and financial support, because she hopes that her daughter-in-law will live independently, rather than treating her as an outsider. After all, the daughter-in-law is also his own relative.
My daughter-in-law has joined our family and become our loved one. At this time, if you have to share the expenses with her no matter what happens, won't our family relationship lose its meaning?
If you don't treat the other person as your own relative, then the other person will not treat you as a relative. At this time, if you want to get something from the other person, it will be difficult. You have to give to take, don't be too stingy.