<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > 60 women divorced, saying that they wanted to marry Jin Dong. </h1>
A few days ago, I was swept up by such a news, a woman in her 60s and her husband were arguing about divorce. She said she fell in love with film and television actor Jin Dong, and claimed that Jin Dong announced it to the people of the whole country through Douyin.
Not only that, she also traveled thousands of miles to Changchun to see Jin Dong. Everyone can't help but laugh when they see it, and Jin Dong, a handsome and successful actor, can't intersect with such a big sister in life. Of course, this is a trap for the liar, and it is really ridiculous that the trick of the liar is so clumsy that it can confuse her.
In the video, as soon as her husband mentioned that Jin Dong was a liar, she threw things angrily, and her son persuaded her, and she also scolded her.
Netizens exposed the tricks of the scammers, and they put Jin Dong's avatar together with some edited videos, accompanied by some words of concern. It is easy to deceive the middle-aged and elderly people, so that they mistakenly think that they have really met well-known actors, and they also interact with themselves and confess every day.
The scammer's purpose is to play the emotional card and get the target group to pay for the product they are selling. Many netizens believe that this is the use of middle-aged and elderly people's ignorance of network technology to deceive their feelings.
There are also well-known psychologists on the Internet who say that this big sister is "loyalty delusional". Even if Jin Dong herself confesses the facts, she will refuse to accept the truth.
The psychiatrist sent by the TV station to solve her secrets and try to pull her out of the delusion, but the eldest sister said, "Even if (Jin Dong) is fake, I will continue to wait." ”
The real sadness is this, is to know the kind of life situation, let this big sister know that the feelings she pursues are the moon in the mirror, she is still addicted to it and is not willing to come out?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > lonely moms are a group of people who are ignored. </h1>
Then the living environment of the eldest sister was excavated, and she has been caught in family disputes in recent years, with many contradictions between her husband, children and her, and she is alone.
This is actually the current situation of the majority of middle-aged and elderly women, women like this big sister are living everywhere, their material conditions are not good when they are young, their education level is generally not high, and the proportion of housewives is high, even if they go out to work, they are mainly engaged in low-end work.
They are important to a family, but few people are grateful for their efforts, as if their sacrifice for the family is justified.
When youth is gone and old age, they still have to work for the elderly and children. Her emotional needs, the need to be understood, have never been valued.
So those scammers can walk into the hearts of these lonely big sisters with just a word of concern.
They cheat because they need to be pampered. In their thirsty hearts, suddenly a considerate person came, even if the liar brought out poison, they were willing to drink to quench their thirst.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > 5 days of love, enough to comfort a lifetime. </h1>
The famous American novelist Nicholas Sparks told such a story in the book "Love on Rodin Island":
The heroine is a 45-year-old divorced mother who lives alone with three adolescent children after her husband cheats on her, and the changes in the family have brought different degrees of psychological problems to the children.
They are rebellious, lonely, and constantly creating chaos, which makes her anxious in her studies and life. In addition, Dad fell ill in bed and had to be sent to a nursing home, which required a large amount of medical expenses. She had to take care of her children and father, and she was financially stretched, so she had to work as a librarian to solve the dilemma, earning a meager income to support the family.
Worst of all, she has no one to rely on and can only face all these problems on her own. She got up every day before dawn and dragged her tired body to bed late at night, filling her life with heavy labor to numb her nerves, and she mistakenly thought she was strong enough not to need any dependence.
She lived a life of repetition day after day.
By chance, because of her friend's outing, I entrusted her to take care of her hotel for a few days. She thus met Paul, a guest who came to stay at the hotel. An unprecedented storm trapped them on the island.
During the days of isolation, they developed love. Each felt like they had met someone who understood themselves. On the occasion of their farewell, they agreed to reunite after a year, when they would be united and spend the rest of their lives together.
Paul will accompany his son during the year. To make up for his absence from his upbringing because of his work. But on the day of the engagement, the heroine was waiting for Paul's son, and he brought the news of Paul's death.
Throughout her life, the heroine did not marry again. She kept their vows of love alone until she grew old.
The story is over, in fact, in the few days they are together, nothing earth-shattering has happened, and their mutual understanding is only produced through bland chats, they talk about the ordinary things in their lives, growth and status quo.
This makes people think that for middle-aged people who carry the weight forward in the journey of life, understanding only needs three words of concern and warm companionship. It is so easy, yet so scarce.
For example, the life of the heroine, the problems faced by each of her children are the problems she needs to solve every day, and her father needs her to accompany her every day in the nursing home, and she needs to pay the bills.
But who cares about her needs? Even if she wanted nothing more, no one would think of giving her anything. Asking her for it became a matter of course, but no one wanted to give her a word of comfort.
After a few days of getting along, the erection of love has given her the courage to continue to face life, and it has also allowed her to untie the knot and forgive her husband's betrayal.
Because in this love, she sees her own value: she is worthy of being loved!
The heroine of the novel recalls the love affair in her old age
Modern people celebrate youth all day long, but she doesn't want to be young again. Back in middle age? Maybe, but don't be young again. Because the years have brought more valuable experiences, she has been able to sleep peacefully at night for so many years, probably because she did not have too many regrets and regrets in the first half of her life. ”
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > is as scarce as love, understanding and care</h1>
It can be seen that being understood and truly loved by others, even if it is only once, even if it is only for a few days, it is enough to give the middle-aged man who fights alone the courage to live.
Back to the story at the beginning of this article, we know that the eldest sister was deceived by the fake Jin Dong, and the eldest sister's family, the majority of netizens, and even media reporters and psychologists all tried to prove to the eldest sister: Jin Dong is fake, no one is in love with you, you are not worthy of being loved!
This is the most heartfelt. So the eldest sister would rather not come out of the truth, even if this love is illusory, but in the illusory world, she is worthy of being loved, worthy of being booed and asked, cared for, and understood! But what we are doing, we explain the tricks of the liar in detail, and try our best to prove to the eldest sister that she has been deceived! But I didn't expect that such an exposure would be a blow to the eldest sister.
Her illusory love is gone!
Such a big sister, maybe we each have one in each family, so we should think, what are we really depriving? Can we do something for them? Understand me more and be tolerant, and stop ignoring them. Let them get the rewards that match their efforts!
@ Light Cold Reading