Zhang Ailing wrote a very famous sentence: marrying a red rose, over time, the red becomes a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, the white is still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; married to the white rose, the white is a grain of rice stuck on the clothes, but the red is a cinnabar mole on the heart.
Before marriage, she was a goddess, a woman who was willing to give everything she got, and what she expressed was sincere. But if you really get it, you will feel that the woman depreciates quite quickly, and it feels like holding hands is like holding a right hand with a left hand, even if you sleep in a bed, you don't have the satisfaction of getting what you want.
If a man has a successful career, has some savings, and has a little spare time, the family has a virtuous wife who can take care of the children and the elderly. At this time, he will not be grateful to his wife, but will breed some new ideas in his heart.
Full of warm thoughts and lust, in his heart, he thought more about the "white moonlight", which was "cinnabar mole". The more you don't get it, the more you can't eat or sleep, when you can be with each other, you can feel no regrets. Some men will use their minds on crooked doors and evil ways, they want to steal, and they do not want their wives to get benefits, so they tempt their wives to make mistakes, creating a situation that harms others and benefits themselves.
However, the real can't be fake, the fake can't be true, once the conscience of the person who is used is discovered, then everyone's life will be chaotic like a pot of porridge, at this time there is no winner, and all people will be seriously hurt.
Man, don't be clever. If you want to get it, you have to pay a price. Exhausted, you will eventually wrap yourself around this innings, and you will not end up well.
Wisteria tells about her marriage, and no matter how wonderful the TV series can't play the twists and turns. There is vanity and there is also sincerity. There are people who have been wrong all the way to the end, and there are also people who have found out in their conscience and turned evil back to righteousness. There is no real sense of good, and there is no real sense of bad.
It's another year of alumni association.
After Wisteria got married, she would go to the alumni association every year, and the college classmates would get together once a year when they had time. Many people can't go to the scene, they will also call the video, contact the feelings, and can also recall the youth in this friendship. This kind of event has been held for 3 years, but unexpectedly, this time it happened.
Among them, there was a male classmate named Yushu, and at that time, the classmates joked with the names of the two of them, "Wisteria around the Yushu, a natural pair." Coaxing and coaxing, this boy is a very cold faction, although Wisteria has a good feeling for him, but he does not dare to go close.
In the first few meetings, there was no splash between them, and Wisteria just sat far away from him, secretly glancing at it. This time, he took the initiative to sit next to Wisteria, chatted with her, asked for her contact information, and looked at her with a kind of affectionate look.
After the party, Yushu chatted with her from time to time, and she knew that Yushu was not yet married, worked in a fairly large company, and had not made many girlfriends in recent years. Moreover, he said that he found Wisteria this time to make up for the regrets of that year.
Wisteria's brain roared, regret? Could it be that he also has a good feeling for himself? Yushu said that he was very inferior and his family conditions were very bad, and he did not dare to pursue any girls, especially the goddess-level wisteria. Now it is also a small career success, there is a house and a car, but Wisteria is already married. He still decided to tell his heart, and how the relationship between the two people developed was decided by Wisteria.
Wisteria instantly returned to the past, and Yushu was the only man who made her feel like a fawn bumping into her. Now her husband, but crazy pursuit of her, she was moved, so she agreed to get married. Originally, he still wanted to be responsible for the marriage, but he still went to the Yushu Covenant, and the two people had a relationship.
Such a relationship makes Wisteria have a feeling of loss and recovery, and Wisteria feels guilty about her husband. Classmates will see the rekindling of their first love and become pregnant two months later. The child must be Yushu's, she decided to confess to her husband, even if it is a clean house, it does not matter if you don't want anything, in this life, you must be with someone you really like. I broke the divorce decisively, but it was a trap.
She told Yushu about the divorce and wanted to reorganize the family with him. Wisteria recounts the feelings in her heart and tells Yushu that she has always loved him, and her heart has never changed since she was in school. Seeing that the former goddess was willing to give everything for him, he wept bitterly and told a terrible secret.
Husband's calculations.
Wisteria never thought that her husband Zeyang had actually played the role of a "initiator" in this matter. He had already cheated on him, got the goddess he had once been, and soon had no feelings, and felt that many women were the targets of his pursuit. Some time ago, he liked a woman named Shui Qing, and that woman fascinated him, so he had this plan, found Yushu, and let him seduce Wisteria to cheat.
Then you can stand on the moral high ground and let the wisteria go out of the house. He gave Yushu 50,000 yuan, and Yushu killed Wisteria for this 50,000 yuan.
However, Yushu really fell in love with Wisteria, and he begged Wisteria for forgiveness, and he would tell him all about it, so that Zeyang would spit out the part of the family property that belonged to Wisteria to make up for the harm to Wisteria. Wisteria re-filed a lawsuit against Zeyang, who hated Yushu's fickleness, so he thoroughly investigated Yushu and found that he had a wife and a son, so he sent the video of Wisteria and Yushu's secret affair to Yushu's legitimate wife.
A while ago, Shui Qing quarreled with Ze Yang because Wisteria wanted to share the money, and the relationship between the two people quickly deteriorated. Wisteria also learns the fact that Yushu is married and suffers a double blow, but Yushu swears that he is really in love with Wisteria, hoping that Wisteria will give him a little time, he will definitely divorce, and hopes that Wisteria will keep this child.
Yushu's wife kept making trouble, scolding Wisteria for being shameless, so that Wisteria could not be at peace for a moment. At this moment, Zeyang regretted it, and did not expect that things would develop into such an uncontrollable situation.
Wisteria and Zeyang meet up, and Wisteria hopes to understand what is going on. Ze Yang said: "In fact, I am greedy for money and lustful, see a love one, want to divorce you, find a legitimate reason, but also let you not divide the family property, who knows Yushu anti-water, make things so complicated."
Wisteria said, "I want half of the family property, and then you go and tell Yushu's wife that it was his husband who seduced me for the sake of profit, not his husband who I seduced." Then, I can promise Shui Qing that I will leave your life and never appear again. In this way, we can all live a little better."
After reaching an agreement, Wisteria left, not with Yushu and away from her previous life. No one knows where she went or if she gave birth to the baby. Yushu still divorced his wife, and he looked around for Wisteria, but there was no result.
Enter into marriage to be rational.
Women should see the man's character clearly, do not have anyone to chase, feel that this is true love, and enter marriage with each other. The reason why Wisteria is so painful is that it has made two mistakes.
First, marriage is too hasty. There was no feeling of heartbeat, but the other party kept chasing, showing a very strong desire, and agreed to the other party's request, thinking that it would be cherished. In fact, on the contrary, men who are in love with this kind of emotion often come and burn fast when the fire of love comes and burns out quickly.
When a new goal arises, he will fall in love with another woman so intensely that such a man is unreliable. If the man is selfish and wants everything, then it will often make the woman fall to a very miserable point.
Second, cheating is too sloppy. Feel that the person you love appears, but also know that your current state is "married". To find out the real background of the other party, do not believe what others say. Don't have an improper relationship with someone else in a very short period of time.
You can keep friends for a long time and see what he can do for love. In addition, you must know your husband very well. If a man cheats, then the woman will not be ignorant and unconscious.
Love or not love, you must think clearly about how to go your way, do not easily entrust yourself to a man, which will make yourself fall into a very passive situation. Life is a lot of good years, don't put yourself in the middle of complicated chores.
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After a woman is married, what is the most likely reason to cheat?
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