I think my uncle is a scoundrel, and he has to find my father when he can find other people's help. He always took advantage of my father as a relative, and I was really fed up!
My father stared at me, and his eyes revealed a trace of helplessness and grievance: "Child, I know you don't like this in your heart. But he's my relative, and I can't ignore it when I need help when I'm in trouble. Besides, family affection cannot be chosen, and relatives should help each other. ”
Although my father's words made me feel a little distressed, I still stubbornly insisted on my opinion: "But Dad, you always do your best to help him, but you never think about yourself. You have given too much for him, and he seems to be Xi to it, and he does not know how to be grateful. ”
The father leaned silently on the back of the chair, his eyes misty, as if he was recalling some things from the past. After a while, my father's voice sank into deep thought: "You know what, he used to be my closest friend when he was a child. We grew up together, played together, and went to school together. Our family relationship has been tempered by the years, and it is created by the joint efforts of our two families. ”
My father's words shattered my long-standing stereotypes about my uncle. I never thought they would have such a deep relationship. After listening to my father, I fell into inner contradictions and struggles.
I recall the day after day when he neglected himself in order to help others, and he was always quietly and silently under great pressure. He is a forbearant person who always silently pays for his family. It may be because of his dedication that we can live a good life.
I suddenly felt a warmth welling up in my heart, and too many images of my father flashed through my mind: he helped me organize my school bag, cooked for me, and silently picked me up. He was always so obscure, and I always ignored his hard work and dedication.
"If I were you, I would reject him. "I let go of my arrogance and stubbornness and began to try to understand my father's choices from his point of view.
My father smiled and looked at me quietly, saying, "Son, I know you're doing it for my good." I feel both your worry and concern. But in my eyes, family affection is the most important thing. I am willing to help him because he is a relative and an integral part of my heart. ”
I bit my lip and held back the last shred of unease. My father saw through my confusion, and he stared at me affectionately: "Child, we have formed a warm family, and I, as your father, am willing to contribute silently to this family. Don't complain, we have to cherish every day together. ”
My father's words were like an electric current that stirred my heart. I have come to realize how blessed it is to have a family that loves and cares for us. I can no longer dispute my father's choice, I want to love him more sincerely and understand him.
Gradually, I took the initiative to accompany my father to the fish pond to fish. We put on straw hats and fishing rods in our hands and embarked on a fishing journey together. On the way, we chatted with each other, and my father recounted his childhood with his uncle, portraying the bits and pieces of what the two of them experienced together. I listened quietly, feeling his deep affection for his family.
When we arrived at the fish pond, my father and I spread out the nets together, waving our arms constantly to store the delicate nets. The fish I caught struggled happily, and I gently put them in the basket. At that moment, fatherly love and family affection seemed to be intertwined, replacing my original anger and complaints.
In the process of fishing, I couldn't help but ask my father, "Dad, why can't you bear to refuse your uncle's request every time?" My father stopped his movements, stared at the water, smiled and said, "Son, father's love is a responsibility and obligation. No matter what time it is, I am willing to give because he is my family. ”
My heart was deeply touched and my eyes moistened. I finally understood that family affection is selfless and unconditional. Fatherly love is a great and real emotion, and they always give and give silently. I am ashamed of my indifference, but I am also immensely proud to have such a great father.
After fishing, we sat together under the tree next to the fish pond, enjoying the breeze, and I leaned on my father's shoulder, gently feeling his warmth and breathing. I told my father that I understood his choice and why he was always willing to help others.
My father hugged me tightly and said gently, "Child, it is the greatest comfort and joy for me to have your understanding and support. We are a family, and family affection is our eternal bond. ”
On that day, I truly felt the power of family and affection, which were like a vast sea that could accommodate every sincere heart. Since then, my father and I have become closer, and we have spent many wonderful times in a warm and harmonious way.
Family affection is the best gift in life, it gives us strength and warmth, and makes us strong and happy. I will always cherish my father's love and affection, and love and care for this precious treasure. At the same time, I will also pass on the family affection that my father taught me, and use my actions to care for and help others.
This story taught me that family is our warmest harbor, and family affection is our most solid backing. No matter what difficulties and challenges we face, we will never feel alone because we have the support and love of our families. Let's embrace each other tightly and create a better tomorrow together.
In the days that followed, I began to be more actively involved in the affairs of the family and help my father as much as I could. Whether it is household matters or business decisions, I try to participate with my father and provide my own opinions and help.
Whenever my father cooperated with others or had relatives and friends in need, I took the initiative to reach out to them and treat them with sincerity and warmth. I have learned to pass on affection to more people and want them to feel the power of love and care as well.
My relationship with my father has gradually become closer, and we often walk together, chat, and share the joys and sorrows of life. He would share his experience and wisdom with me, and I, for example, would listen to his teachings and reflect on my own growth.
Our family has also become more harmonious and happy, and the bonds of family have bound us together. Every day when I return home, I feel the warm atmosphere of home, and this family affection has become my most solid backing.
I understand that family affection is a kind of selfless dedication, which is not about gains and losses, but is based on shared understanding and love. My father's selflessness and persistence taught me how to love and how to tolerate. In my heart, fatherly love is always the greatest and most selfless being.
I hope that one day, when I become a father, I will be able to pass on my father's love and affection and let my children feel the same warmth and care. Family is the starting point for creating a happy life, and family affection is the cornerstone of this happy life.
Through this incident, I understood the preciousness of family affection and the greatness of my father. His dedication and selflessness taught me how to face life's challenges and how to treat others. I swear that I will always be grateful to my father, cherish the warmth of my family, and pass on my father's love to more people.
Family affection is the most precious wealth in life, use it to create a real and beautiful life, let us work together for the family, for the family affection. Because only in this way can we truly appreciate happiness and fulfillment in life.