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Kou Zhenhai sat alone in the living room, staring at the starry night sky, recalling the marriage process full of twists and turns. The first wife, Zhang Xiaohui, was a beautiful woman in the past, but it was precisely because of the filming of a drama that the two met and fell in love, and finally went to the marriage hall.
In 1981, Zhang Xiaohui gave birth to a beautiful and lovely daughter for Kou Zhenhai, named Kou Aluo, who was a first-time father, full of longing and high hopes for this warm family.
Recently. With the booming career, Kou Zhenhai poured more energy into his work. Every night, I dragged my tired body home until late at night, and my wife and daughter had already slept peacefully.
Zhang Xiaohui's mood gradually declined, and the conflict between the couple continued to intensify, Kou Zhenhai deeply realized this, although he tried his best to find time to spend with his family in his busy schedule, it was always difficult to achieve.
In this way, when Kou Aluo was just a young five-year-old girl, Zhang Xiaohui resolutely decided to separate from Kou Zhenhai. The breakdown of this marriage was like a bolt from the blue, which made Kou Zhenhai fall into a low point in his life, and his acting career also encountered unprecedented difficulties.
However, Kou Zhenhai was not discouraged by this. Like the character he played in the play, he bravely faced the challenges of life, devoted himself to his career, and found his own value and direction in life.
However, fate seems to be particularly cruel to him. In the years when his career started again, he hurried into another marriage. This lady had some understanding of Kou Zhenhai's identity and character, but in the end the two chose to part ways.
This short and in-depth marriage ended in failure, casting a shadow on Kou Zhenhai's psyche again.
The tricks of fate are always so ruthless, and when Kou Zhenhai fell into the abyss of loneliness again, a person quietly walked into his life like a spring breeze.
This person is Li Ting, a young, beautiful and talented actress of the new generation. In 2003, during the filming of the TV series "Mirror Flowers", the two became a high-profile on-screen couple because of the drama.
In the play, they play a loving couple who have to perform frequently for the needs of the role.
When they first met, Kou Zhenhai only regarded Li Ting as a young actor with unlimited potential, and he instinctively led and taught her with the patience of a mentor. However, with the passage of time, Li Ting's innocent and pure, enthusiastic and restrained temperament deeply attracted this experienced "old actor", which made him rekindle the long-lost passion and expectations in his heart.
The close cooperation between them on a daily basis has deepened the tacit understanding between them, and the interaction on set has gradually transcended the boundaries of the role. Kou Zhenhai will carefully pour a glass of warm water for Li Ting during the break; Li Ting will also take the initiative to care about Kou Zhenhai's health and take care of his diet.
These seemingly insignificant acts of care have quietly narrowed the distance between each other's hearts.
"Who ever said that an old drama bone can't have a romantic love story?" Kou Zhenhai often laughs at himself for this. In between shooting, he would hold Li Ting's hand tightly, accompany her to enjoy the beautiful scenery of the sunset, and listen to the most beautiful praises of nature.
In the face of this old man's deep affection, Li Ting deeply felt Kou Zhenhai's deep love for her.
"However, you are a full 21 years older than me...... Li Ting is often worried about this, worrying about whether this relationship can be understood and supported by her family." As long as I'm sincere, your parents will have peace of mind.
Kou Zhenhai said firmly, "I will spend my life caring for you and cherishing you."
Li Ting's concerns are not unfounded. In that era of strong traditional concepts, a couple with an age gap of 21 years was indeed eye-catching. What's more, Kou Zhenhai was already middle-aged at the time, and he had a 19-year-old daughter Kou Aluo, who was older than his new girlfriend.
When he learns that his father is in love with a woman who is 21 years younger than him, the first thing Koaro considers as a daughter is her own feelings. She found her father privately and said frankly: "Ah Luo, you have to understand that my father is sincerely in love with Li Ting this time.
Despite her young age, please believe that her father will spend the rest of his life taking good care of her."
Koaro smiled slightly, not showing any disapproval. "Dad, I have seen your meticulous care for me since I was a child, and you have always been a good and conscientious father.
Now that you have finally found your own happiness, I am very happy for you.
This scene was deeply moving, and Kou Zhenhai couldn't help but burst into tears. Kou Aluo, who lost his loving mother at a young age, has never experienced true warmth and companionship in his father's care. But today, when she saw her father finally find a good companion, her heart was filled with endless joy.
In this process, Kou Aluo's support and encouragement undoubtedly gave Kou Zhenhai greater confidence. He felt more and more that it was a blessing from heaven to spend the rest of his life hand in hand with Li Ting. With his daughter's deep understanding and strong support, he seems to see the dawn of marriage.
However, the next thing to solve is how to convince Li Ting's parents. Kou Zhenhai is determined to use the greatest sincerity and patience to eliminate the barriers between each other and win their blessing and recognition.
Due to the age difference between the two parties is 21 years, Li Ting's family has always maintained a cautious attitude towards this marriage. As a filial daughter, Li Ting bravely confessed her heart to her parents.
"Mom and Dad, I understand that you have concerns about my relationship with Mr. Kou, after all, we have a big age difference." Li Ting said expectantly, "However, please believe that he is a person with a great sense of responsibility and affection.
His love for me is so sincere and selfless, and I really hope to receive your blessings. ”
Faced with their daughter's unwavering eyes, Li Ting's parents also began to re-examine this issue. "Actually, we don't underestimate Mr. Kou's personality qualities, and the evaluation of him in the circle is generally very high.
Li Ting's mother said, "It's just that there is a big difference in age, which may bring a lot of inconvenience to your life."
Li Ting's mother is also concerned about her daughter's future, "However, since this is a decision made by you after careful consideration, we are no longer against it." We only hope that you can stick to each other's love like your first love, support each other, and spend the rest of your life together.
So, under the joint witness of relatives and friends, Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting tied the knot in 2007. At that time, Kou Zhenhai had already entered the later stage of his life, while Li Ting was in the prime of his youth.
On the day of the wedding, the affectionate and sweet picture of the two made all the guests present moved. Li Ting was wearing a white wedding dress, elegant and generous; Kou Zhenhai was dressed in a black dress, solemn and majestic.
Although the groom is 21 years older than the bride, there is no generation gap between them.
Walking hand in hand on the red carpet, exchanging rings, kissing the bride...... Every link immersed the two of them and reveled in it.
During the banquet, Kou Zhenhai raised his glass with tears in his eyes. He sighed: "God really loves me! In the most confused moment of my life, it brought me such a deep love.
Li Ting, having you is the greatest happiness in my life" As soon as his words fell, the scene immediately resounded with thunderous applause and enthusiastic cheers.
The next morning, Kou Zhenhai faced Li Ting in good spirits, smiled confidently and said, "You see, I once promised to spend my life taking care of you, and now your parents have finally nodded and agreed to us.