Husband and wife are like two doors.
The I Ching: "One yin and one yang is the Tao." ”
Yin and yang, representing men and women. Yin and yang also represent heaven and earth, yang is heaven, and yin is earth.
In the family world, the relationship between lun and chang is called the yin and yang of heaven and earth.
The sun represents the yang, the moon represents the yin, and the sun and the moon together are "bright", and if the yin and yang are not together, it is unknown. Therefore, the yin and yang harmony of husband and wife can be clear.
This is the way of husband and wife.
Two gates,
Support a portal;
Two men and two men,
Combine a family.
The I Ching: "There is heaven and earth and then there are all things, there are all things and then there are men and women, there are men and women and then there are couples, there are couples and then there are fathers and sons." ”
In a family, men are heavenly, tianxingjian, self-improvement, so men must be strong and responsible.
Women are the earth, the terrain is kun, and the virtue is loaded, so women should be tolerant and gentle. The more virtuous a woman is, the better the children are, and the more successful the husband is.
A family of men and women occupy their respective positions, yin and yang and harmony, the family will be harmonious and warm, and children will grow up healthily.
Two doors the same size,
Two people are equal;
Each of the two doors has its own door socket,
Both people have their own point of view.
Men are like mountains, women are like water.
The mountain inherits the masculinity of the heavens, and the water absorbs the aura of the earth.
Since ancient times, mountains and rivers have been able to form beautiful pictures.
Green mountains and green water, mountains surrounded by water, mountains and water are always closely interdependent, mountains without water are not beautiful, water without mountains is not vast.
The world is so magical, everything can only be long-lasting if yin and yang are harmonious.
Two doors with only one lock,
The door is locked firmly;
Two people have only one heart,
The heart is tight.
The I Ching: "Family, the female is in the inner position, and the male is in the outside position." Men and women are righteous, and the righteousness of heaven and earth is also. ”
The man is dry (heaven), outside the Lord, to receive his wife and not to care about his wife; the woman is Kun (earth), and inside the Lord, he is to help the husband and not the husband.
Men lead their wives to the road, and women help their husbands become virtuous. To really achieve this is the balance of yin and yang.
Two doors can only be painted one color,
just good looking;
Two people have to have a face,
So as not to embarrass each other.
Men have to lead by example, not to regulate their wives, and that's for heaven.
Heaven forbid? Heaven forbid, it is mainly an example. Men act as the backbone of the family, are the sunshine and rain, and are always paid.
Women should be at ease with the situation, with the poor and with the rich, can be high or low, as water can nourish all things, but do not compete with all things.
When the two doors are opened and closed,
Will make a squeaking sound;
Two people get along for a long time,
There will inevitably be bumps and bumps.
A man is happy at home and has a good cultivation, which is called Tianqing; a woman is at home and kind, and does not lose her temper, which is called Di Ning.
The earth is quiet, and the heavens will be clear. Men's tempers are forced out by women. Women must first do the ground, and men will do the sky.
The sky is not clear, at most thunder and hail, the earth will be restless, so the sky is not clear for a family is harmful, the earth is not peaceful for a family is a disaster.
The two doors will deform after being exposed to the sun and rain,
This is when it needs to be repaired,
make it reassemtomous;
When two people go through tribulations, there will be a gap,
At this time, we must understand each other,
Only when it rains is clear.
The ancients said, "If you are responsible for each other, the heavens and the earth will be clear; if you are responsible for each other, the world will be turned upside down." ”
Husbands and wives have been together for a long time, some of their own weaknesses will be exposed, each reflecting on themselves and blamed themselves, running into each other is the right way, if you complain and accuse each other, you will become more and more distant, and even make a world-shaking mess.
Encounter a storm,
Both doors should be closed at the same time;
Encounter difficult and difficult things,
Two people have to work together.
The I Ching: "Two people are in the same heart, and their profits are broken." ”
Men to women are compassionate, and women are admiring men.
Husband and wife are related, ten years of repair to cross the same boat, a hundred years of repair to sleep together.
When you wake up from time to time, a grateful heart will bring infinite joy to yourself and your family.
Welcome to your guests,
To open the double door hole;
a major event has occurred,
The two of them should open their hearts,
Discuss together.
Husband and wife are the deepest practice, and home is the best dojo.
The two people should talk about love, and the more they talk about it, the more intense it is; don't be reasonable, the more reasoning they talk about, the more they split.
The love of husband and wife needs to be managed, more understanding, more tolerance, more thoughtfulness, more communication, in order to be happy with a lifetime.
Communication between husband and wife is carried out almost every day, and attention should be paid to the art of speaking, frank and enthusiastic conversation, and the attitude of joint consultation when encountering things.
The man opens the door on the left,
Go out to earn money;
The woman leans against the door on the right,
Watch over your home.
The word "marriage" is a woman.
Women are the feng shui of the family.
Women are eventful, men are silent; women are not soft, and the family wealth is not prosperous.
The wife is the husband's wealth star, if the woman can get the husband's respect, happy and favored, the husband's financial fortune and career luck will be good, this is called "wife wealth".
Posted on the door:
Uplink is a man,
The lower link is a woman,
Yokozuna is a child.
Husband and wife are the beginning of human morality, the end of all things.
Yin and yang are harmonious with heaven and earth, and husband and wife and their children and grandchildren will be prosperous.
The water of the dirty pond, the loach blackfish, the water of the waves, the partial carp; the clear water of the river, can produce the carp of the golden scale.
Originating from the Master brother of Jingyuan, the copyright of the picture and text belongs to the original author
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