Life is like mountaineering, standing tall can see far.
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"Magnifying glass": Zoom in on someone else's shining point
It's easy to spot the shortcomings of others, but it's hard to recognize the strengths of others. When you find that someone has shortcomings, you might as well use a "magnifying glass" to see the shining points in him.
Being good at discovering the strengths of others, affirming their value, and learning from them is a valuable ability. Appreciating the conversation of others will enhance our eloquence; Appreciating the generosity of others will broaden our hearts; Appreciating the talents of others will elevate us.
A person who is obsessed with the shortcomings of others and always sees the world narrowly with his own prejudices; And a person who can appreciate the merits of others can gain the respect of others with his mind and bearing. Learn to appreciate others, and only then will you win the appreciation of others.
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"Microscope": Doing things with attention to detail
There will be some ambitious people in life who want to do a big career, but they scoff at the little things at hand. As everyone knows, no matter how ambitious the goal is, if you don't start from the small things in front of you, it will always be out of reach.
Excellent people will always be down-to-earth and serious when doing things, and strive for excellence. They can always think of points that others can't think of, and notice details that others overlook. Treat every little thing with heart, not perfunctory, and never slack off.
Prepare a "microscope" for yourself, see the details, do the details, and do your best to do every little thing, so that the results can make a qualitative leap.
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"Telescope": Ascend to see far
Life is like mountaineering, standing high, can you look far. When you hesitate, you might as well hold up the "telescope" and look into the distance, and you will find that the difficulties in front of you are temporary, and there is a better future waiting for you ahead.
If you only pay attention to the one acre and three points of land in front of you, how can you see the sea of stars in the distance? A person with a "telescope" has a never-depressing enthusiasm, the ability to clear the fog, and the mind to plan for the future.
It is difficult for people who only care about immediate gains and losses to go long-term. Only those who have a vision can see the future. Only by looking at the world and life through the perspective of a "telescope" can we make decisions that take into account the overall situation and are far-sighted.
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"Plane Mirror": Look at the mountains as mountains, and see the water as water
When the experience of life accumulates to a certain extent, you will have a clear understanding of things and yourself. Know what you're after and what you're going to give up.
Such people have a "flat mirror": not distorted, not narrow-minded, true and natural. They enjoy the highlights of life, but they also accept the regrets and imperfections in life, and calmly face the real world as it is. Look at the mountain is still a mountain, look at the water is still water, do not be alarmed, have a degree in the world, return to the truth, chic nature.
Take these four "mirrors" well, and your life path will definitely get wider and wider.
#YUE DU# Good Book Recommendation
"The Courage to Be Hated"
[Sun] Kishi Yoichiro, Kokan Shiken
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The dialogue in the book is between a young man and a philosopher. Filled with confusion and challenge, young people look to philosophers for meaning in life and a path to self-realization. Through dialogue, the book explores the following key themes:
(1) Freedom and Responsibility: Emphasizes the importance of individual free will and the fact that people should be responsible for their own lives.
(2) Courage to face not being liked: The "courage to be hated" referred to in the title of the book refers to the courage to live out your true self, even if it may lead to incomprehension or disgust from others.
(3) Goal-oriented behavior: Emphasize that people's behavior is to achieve certain goals and is not determined by past experiences.
(4) Self-acceptance and self-esteem: Explores how to accept one's own imperfections and build self-esteem.
Excerpt from the golden sentence
- Psychological trauma does not exist! It is not the past experiences that determine who we are, but the meaning that we give to our experiences.
- You hate yourself because you're so afraid of relationships, and you're running away from relationships through self-loathing.
- The so-called "pursuit of superiority" means that we are constantly moving forward, not being superior to others.
- So feeling lonely is not because you are alone, and you feel alienated from others, society, and community around you. If we want to experience loneliness, we also need to have the presence of others. That is, people become "individuals" only in social relations.
· Produced by Meishan Tianfu New Area Financial Media Center ·
Editor: Hua Xia Yu Duty Editor: Ma Yifei Responsible Editor: Lin Jiahao Article source: People's Daily