One
1967 was a peaceful year, but Shenyang was not at all peaceful that year, and although the war was over, it was still chaotic and terrifying.
This year, Venus was born in Shenyang.
Her father, Kim Yong-chol, was a soldier who served as chief of staff in the Operations Department of the Shenyang Military Region, and her mother, Han Ying, was also a political worker in the Commerce Bureau.
Jin Xing is the first boy in Kim Yong Chul's family, for his arrival, Kim Yong Chul and Han Ying are very happy, named him "Venus", hoping that he is like a rising Venus, strong and dazzling.
In times of chaos, not a single snowflake is tranquil.
After Venus was born, his family suffered a change of fortune, and soon became sloppy, and his material life was not rich. However, the strong parents have set up a quiet little world for Venus.
Jin Xing showed a unique dance talent and enthusiasm for dancing at a very young age, in order to support children to develop interests, but also in order to allow children to have a skill to support themselves in the future, Jin Yongzhe and Han Ying discussed sending the 9-year-old Jin Xing to the army to receive professional dance training in the Shenyang Military Region Song and Dance Troupe.
When he first arrived at the song and dance troupe, the little Venus was not taken seriously, he was smaller than other children, small, always ignored by the teacher, and rarely gave him the opportunity to perform on stage.
At one point, an actor was temporarily ill, and the replacement was two girls and Venus. Venus's spinning, turning and other techniques are better than the two girls, but his hind legs are not as soft as others, and the teacher does not want him to play, and wants him to retreat: "If you complete the leg pulling action within a week, give it to you." ”
Unexpectedly, Venus did not have the slightest intention of giving up, but tirelessly trained repeatedly in the dance studio, and completed the leg wrench within a week, convincing the teacher.
Relying on this strength of not accepting defeat, Venus won the first place in the junior group of the first "Tao Li Cup" dance competition in the country at the age of 17, and at the age of 20, he won a full scholarship provided by the Asian Cultural Association to study modern dance in New York, becoming the first Chinese dancer sent by the state to learn modern dance in New York, usa.
Two
In 1988, the spring breeze of reform had just blown on the land of China, and American jackets and jeans gradually became popular in Chinese mainland.
That year, Venus went to New York to learn modern dance, and the dance master Marie Luis was Venus's teacher.
"Your dance skills can be used for the next life, what you need now is style."
In the United States, Venus transformed into a thoughtful soul dancer, transparent, atmospheric, and with its own personality.
At the same time, there is also his gender consciousness.
Venus has felt like a girl since she was a child, and sometimes even dreams of being struck by lightning and suddenly becoming a daughter.
However, traditional China did not provide him with the soil for "transformation", while the free United States made him more aware of his differences.
At the age of love, Venus found that she had no interest in girls, but fell in love with griffith, a handsome boy in the United States.
The two met in a texas disco, the bustle of the discotheque was boiling, Griffith wore a pair of black-rimmed glasses, sitting quietly in the corner, the two eyes casually looked at each other, but provoked a thunderous love.
Venus quickly shifted his gaze, but Griffith stood up and walked straight toward Venus, his one-meter-ninety-eight tall, domineering and calm, and suddenly hit Venus's heart at the dim light.
Griffith invites Venus to drink, the two see each other and hate each other late, talk very happily, and the two young people soon fall in love.
For love, Venus even gave up her dancing career in New York and followed Griffith to a farm in Texas, where venus learned to milk cows, drive tractors, ride horses... This is Venus's first love, pure, fully engaged.
But three months later, Griffith said to Venus, "Go back to New York, you shouldn't stay on the farm, the stage belongs to you." ”
In this way, Venus's first relationship ended with her boyfriend's voluntary abandonment.
After that, Venus also experienced several unforgettable loves in the United States, but they were all in love with men, and he was more and more convinced that his gender should be women, not men.
Three
In 1991, Venus was hired as the chief choreographer of the American Dance Festival, and his dance "Half a Dream" won the American International Dance Festival Award, for which he was awarded the title of "Best Choreographer".
In 1993, at the age of 26, Venus returned to China and was employed by the Ministry of Culture of the People's Republic of China.
He started from a very high point, and held a special evening party for modern dance in Beijing in November of that year, which was a great success and was known as the founder of Modern Dance in China.
In 1995, he co-founded the Beijing Modern Dance Company with the Beijing Cultural Bureau and served as his first artistic director.
Without the transgender thing, Venus is definitely a monumental figure that few people in the Chinese dance world have surpassed.
However, the operation after the Spring Festival in 1995 completely changed the trajectory of his life.
He went from being a man to a woman!
This was definitely a shocking thing in China at that time.
"The skin of the body is received by the parents."
Venus actually wants to change her gender!
When Venus tells his parents about being transgender, his father understands him, but his mother opposes it and falls ill.
But Venus is determined, while taking care of his mother at the bedside, he tells her mother about her gender knots and how much she wants to be a daughter.
Eventually, Venus persuaded her parents and lay down on the operating table, officially changing from Mr. Venus to Miss Venus.
After this operation, Venus's wish was finally fulfilled, but the world's mouth boiled up, and the discussion about Venus's "transgender person", "no man and no woman", "shemale" and so on never stopped, and even the reputation of "transgender man" far exceeded that he was an excellent dancer.
In the face of this, Venus seemed very calm, as Venus's father said: "After 28 years, you have finally found yourself." ”
Four
Sex reassignment surgery, for Venus, is both a blessing and a disaster.
Although the sex reassignment surgery was successful, due to the negligence of the nurse during the operation, Venus's left leg was pressed by the medical device for 16 hours, and all the muscles below the calf were necrotic.
"Miss Venus, I regret to tell you that your leg cannot be fully recovered, and I am afraid that you will be considered disabled."
However, Venus does not recognize his fate, and I have done such a thing as changing gender, am I afraid that I will not be able to recover my calves?
She actively carried out rehabilitation exercises, countless times of electric shock treatment, countless times of rehabilitation training, she endured the pain every day to dance, walk, after a long period of serious treatment, it was miraculously restored.
After recovering her health, she stood on the stage again, wearing a red dress, and lovingly performed her famous work "Half Dream", on that day, her action performance was stronger than ever, and at the end, Venus could not help but leave tears: "I have regained a freedom from life!" ”
"How much suffering can I bear, I can ask God how much life he wants!"
Venus, who has come back to life, lives transparently and boldly, and she does not care about the world's discussion: I am Miss Venus, I am a woman, I want to live more beautifully and more beautifully than other women.
She likes to wear a cheongsam, likes to wear high heels, walks like the wind swinging willow, sits down like a loose posture, can see the strip muscles on the legs of the perennial dance, and the whole person looks both the elegance of a woman and the strength of a man.
In 2011, Venus served as a judge of the "Dance Forest Conference", but unexpectedly became popular in this dance show because of her "poisonous tongue", and her fiery comments always said what others did not dare to say, which was deeply loved by the audience.
In 2012, Star TV tailored a talk show for Venus, "Venus Hits Mars", commenting on various acute social issues.
In 2015, Oriental Satellite TV launched a personal show for Venus - "Venus Show", which quickly spread across the country as soon as the program was broadcast. "Venus" is thoroughly understood by the people of the whole country.
Five
"Sister Jin, I leaned on my legs before I was thirty years old, and I leaned on my mouth after I was thirty years old." Venus often says so.
She has lived twice and has nothing to say, over the years, many stars have been scolded by Venus: satirizing Sa Dingding is "Shandong Dayi", satirizing Wang Yibo "there is no "Every Day Upward", I know Wang Yibo", satirizing Zhang Yimou "as soon as there is money to have a baby", satirizing Feng Xiaogang "Xiao Gang thinks, the audience does not laugh"...
Not only does the spit stars show no mercy, Venus also likes to expose the chaos in the entertainment industry, what "Miss Digital" who can't recite lines, "Liu Lang" who rolls six plays at the same time, and exposes that Mango Tai does not dare to ask her to be a judge because the cat is too tired...
Anyway, where there is Venus, where do not think about taiping, Venus followed by dominating the dance forest with two legs, once again with a mouth to elaborate on Qiankun, was praised by netizens as "Golden Mouth Shock Huaxia", unconsciously, but also angered many people.
I don't know when, "Venus Show" stopped broadcasting, "Tonight Paramount" was only updated to 2016, and Venus's appearance in variety shows became less and less.
Where has Venus gone in the past two years?
Some people say that she offended the "big people"; some people say that "Venus Show" is jealous; some people say that the platform does not encourage the "half-man and no woman" culture...
In short, Venus "hid" in public.
But in the absence of a magnesium lamp, Venus still has a light and breezy life, and I heard that she is still supporting a dance troupe, has a German husband who loves her, and has three cute and healthy children.
"It makes sense for a man to go into the world... My parents gave me this name in the dark. Venus...... The brightest star, the retrograde star, the loneliest star... Turn loneliness into a force... It's good, like my life. ”
Whose life is not lonely?
But how many people have the courage and transparency of Venus?
Bless this woman.