In order to earn money, I went to work alone in other places and made a lot of money. But I tried to test my son and daughter, so I lied to them that I had lost a lot of money in my business and wore a tattered dress

In order to earn money, I went to work alone in other places and made a lot of money. But I tried to test my son and daughter, so I lied to them that I had lost a lot of money in my business and went home in tattered clothes. I didn't expect my son and daughter-in-law to react. When I gave 700,000 yuan to my daughter-in-law, my son and daughter-in-law directly changed their attitudes.

My hometown is in a mountain village, but I don't like farming. Inadvertently, I got a chance to go abroad to farm, so I couldn't wait to set off. I have a son and a daughter. My wife died shortly after my son got married, leaving us with my grandfather and a daughter.

The personalities of sons and daughters are a world apart. The girlfriend is very honest, working in the post office in the city, and the monthly salary is not low. Although the son-in-law is an ordinary delivery man, he is honest and honest, and he also takes good care of my daughter. My son is lively and cheerful, a businessman, able to speak the Tao, and always speak sweet words to make me happy.

But there was only one old house in my hometown. When my daughter got married, because my family conditions were not good, I changed the old house to my girlfriend's name. When my son got married, I bought him a wedding house and a wedding car with the money I had accumulated over the years. Then when my son got married, he asked me to go to his house, and I thought, I have nowhere to go, so let's go to my son's house.

But I haven't lived for a month and I feel uncomfortable. Because my communication with my daughter-in-law always went wrong. She hated me for eating and drinking at their house every day. I also know that I can't make a few dollars now, so my daughter-in-law naturally feels uncomfortable.

At this time, I inadvertently got the opportunity to work abroad. After signing the overseas labor contract, I quickly got the visa, so I set off quickly. I flew to the United States with other people from the farming company.

When I arrived in the United States, the labor service company asked me to go to a farm to replace the management first, I was already a farmer, which is also my old business. And basically Chinese, and the speech barrier does not exist.

I spent five years in the United States. My daughter and son will also call me often, and my daughter always asks me if I am adapting here? And my son asked me how much money I made? In five years, I saved 800,000 yuan in addition to the money I spent. After five years, I can't move, it's time to go back, and I'm ready to retire with this money. After I went back, I still wanted to live in my son's house, my son could talk, always make me happy, and I still liked my naughty child.

But the day before I went back, I suddenly wanted to test who the two children really meant to me, so I called them in advance, and I said that this year's business failed, all the money I earned before was lost, and now the place to live is gone, and I don't want to do it.

I put on a tattered dress, packed up some clutter and set off early in the morning. When I returned to China, I only saw my girlfriend picking me up at the airport alone. The girlfriend said that he was busy and went to dinner with his friends. Then I came on my own.

My daughter and I came to my son's house. After knocking on the door, the person who opened the door turned out to be a stranger. Then when I went in, my son and daughter-in-law and a group of people I hadn't even met were drinking beer. When my son saw me, he casually said, "It's coming so soon." Then he turned his face and continued drinking with his so-called friends, ignoring me anymore. I thought they would let me eat together, but I didn't expect such an attitude, I almost fainted, turned around and left.

Then came to the girlfriend's house, and the son-in-law prepared a table early. As soon as I entered the door, my son-in-law hurriedly took the suitcase in my hand and said, Dad, I am tired abroad, come and taste my son-in-law's craftsmanship. I stared blankly at a table of meals and suddenly burst into tears.

At dinner, I told my girlfriend that I had lost all my money in business over the years. I can't support myself anymore, can I live in your house? The girl glared at me and said, "Dad, what did you say?" I'm pulling big with one hand, and my house is your home. "Even if I sleep on the street, I can't let you sleep on the street." Although my family does not have a brother's arrogance, there is still a place for you to live, and the son-in-law keeps saying next to it, right, right.

After dinner, we sat down on the couch, and I said to my daughter, you go with me to my son's house. I feel like I still have to ask him if he wants to retire for me, I'm his father. So my daughter accompanied me to my son's house. The son and daughter-in-law were watering flowers in the yard. When they saw me, they started counting me down, saying that I was so old, and I still went abroad to earn money? Five years were wasted.

I asked directly, I can't survive now. Will you raise me? Before the son could speak, the daughter-in-law directly interrupted and said, "Why did your daughter-in-law eat what did your daughter-in-law eat instead of letting your son raise you?" Pension also has the responsibility of the girlfriend. Besides, my father and my mother are still coming to live in my house, and if you come again, it is too crowded.

I turned to my son and asked, "Do you think the same way?" He nodded and said, "Dad, just follow my sister." And I'm also busy, my mother-in-law always loves to come to my house. When I'm free, I'll go to my sister's house to see you and bring you some nutritional supplements! ”

I pointed to my son and said, "Don't give me regrets, don't regret it!" After saying that, I followed my daughter back home, and when I got home, my daughter saw that I was a little depressed, so she comforted me and said, "Dad, don't feel bad, my daughter will raise you." As long as there is a bite of food from me, there will be a bite of your food, and you will forgive my brother. ”

I went back to the house, opened my suitcase, took out a bank card, handed it to my girlfriend and said, here are 800,000, it should be my pension expenses.

Later, my son learned of this and came directly to me and knelt in front of me and cried. He was in debt because he was doing business, so he had no choice but to turn me away. He said that Jean would lend him 800,000 yuan, and when he came back, he would definitely buy me a house and give me a pension.

Guys, should I give my son the money?

@ Solo Journey: After listening to your story, I think you still don't want to give money to your son, his nature is difficult to move, and since he can't bear to turn away his father who raised him, it can be seen how selfish he is. So if his business is losing money again, it is estimated that he will not let you into his house. Not everyone deserves to be treated kindly, and not everyone deserves to be tolerated. Kindness has a ruler, tolerance has a degree, keep a distance from people who do not understand gratitude, and do not contact people who are inching forward.