Preface
Rich and has no in-laws, Ye Haiyang, a 35-year-old female president, has become the envy of all women.
On June 20, Ye Haiyang officially announced the good news and gave birth to a pair of good-looking mixed-race twin sons, both children and daughters, and his life was complete.
Previously, Ye Haiyang once went to the United States to buy sperm and give birth to two mixed-race daughters, which aroused heated discussions among netizens.
If a woman has money, she can choose artificial insemination to give birth to a baby and live the life she wants, so is Ye Haiyang's choice correct? Will the growth of the four children be affected?
1. Twin sons, very different in size
Yesterday, the news that Ye Haiyang gave birth to twin sons quickly appeared on the hot search, shocking many netizens.
In the video, Ye Haiyang came to the United States to give birth, and there are many midwifery nurses and precision instruments in the delivery room.
Ye Haiyang closed his eyes, and did not howl in pain as he imagined, it seems that the production conditions are still very good.
Then, a loud cry of babies shook through the delivery room, and two mixed-race babies were born, their bodies were red and clean, and they were very healthy.
What's even more surprising is that the two babies are so beautiful.
We all know that when many babies are born, they are wrinkled, like a little old man, and they have not yet grown up, and they can't see their beautiful appearance.
But these two babies are meaty, and as soon as they come out of their mother's belly, they can see the appearance of a mixed-race handsome guy.
It's just that, like most twins, the two brothers are quite different in size, one is long-legged and "tall and strong", and the other is more like a newborn Chinese baby, slightly smaller.
The larger one can clearly see the big black and shiny eyes, the European-style large double eyelids, and the high nose bridge, and the facial features are relatively three-dimensional.
The other one is very similar to his mother Ye Haiyang, with big eyes, a small double eyelid, and his eyes are dripping, which looks very smart.
Moreover, Ye Haiyang's two daughters also came to the United States with her.
When the two sisters saw the birth of their younger brother, they were so excited that they went to their mother with the cake to visit their mother and little brother.
After waiting for the two little brothers to wash up, Ye Haiyang took the first group photo of the four children in their lives.
The eldest sister Doris hugged her twin brother, and the second sister Hatti hugged her younger brother with a happy look, and the little ones could play together and have more company from then on.
And Ye Haiyang behind the camera shed extremely moving tears.
This is her 18-year-old wish, to have both children and enjoy the warmest family life, and now it has finally come true.
The hard work of a woman giving birth to a child alone also turned into silent happiness at this moment, and she said to the children:
"In this life, my mother has traveled a long way and encountered a lot of scenery, but the most beautiful is at this moment."
I have to say that Ye Haiyang is really good!
started his own business to achieve financial freedom, chose artificial insemination to give birth to 4 mixed-race babies, and became a winner in life.
2. Go to the United States to buy spermatozoa and welcome 4 mixed-race babies
In 2017, 28-year-old Ye Haiyang was already the president of a cosmetics company in Guangzhou.
She made a shocking decision to give birth to a child on her own and build a happy family.
However, unmarried women are not allowed to do IVF in China, so Ye Haiyang came all the way to the United States.
Eventually, the father of the future child was selected from the sperm bank.
The man graduated from an Ivy League university in the United States, had a lively and cheerful personality, beautiful brown eyes, and was of mixed four races.
Good looks, high education, good character, it's really perfect.
Ye Haiyang bought his three tubes of sperm at one time, each tube was more than $1,000, the transplant cost was more than $30,000, and the whole process of artificial insemination totaled $500,000.
In anticipation, Ye Haiyang welcomed her first baby girl, Doris.
The gender was chosen by Ye Haiyang, she wanted to have a baby girl and have a soft and lovely daughter.
It's just that the pain of pregnancy is still beyond her imagination.
Her body grew to more than 170 pounds, and she began to become very bulky, and she had to go for a prenatal checkup alone.
The double torture of physical and psychological made her feel extremely broken, and even a little depressed for a while.
However, all the grievances and torture disappeared the moment I saw the baby.
Doris is so cute, like a little doll, and you can't put it down when you hold it in your arms.
In the face of this daughter, novice mother Ye Haiyang will also have times when she is at a loss, but patience and love have been nourishing Doris, making her grow into a smart and clever little girl.
Ye Haiyang will take Doris to travel abroad and enjoy different scenery.
Would accompany Doris to ballet lessons and watch her dance like an elegant princess.
She will also watch Doris gallop handsomely on the racecourse, like a female warrior to take the British Jockey Club Level 3 qualifying exam.
Therefore, Doris has a rich life, a rich spirit, and a strong independence, like a little elf, who can talk to his mother on an equal footing, and will become a president in the future to help his mother.
After Doris was 5 years old, Ye Haiyang went to the United States to pick up his sister Hatti.
Hatti is different from her sister, she should look like her father, her facial features are very deep, her mixed-race characteristics are obvious, her personality is eccentric, and she is completely Ye Haiyang's second little padded jacket.
Of course, with the birth of the third son, some people may say that Ye Haiyang is patriarchal, and he has two daughters who insist on giving birth to sons.
This is just groundless speculation, Ye Haiyang is financially free, and he can choose to give birth to boys and girls abroad.
But let's ask, who doesn't want to have both children and daughters, with a gentle and beautiful daughter, a handsome son, and Ye Haiyang's family, many people should be envious.
However, this choice to leave the father and the son still makes many people feel disapproved.
Some netizens believe that it is difficult for children to live in a single-parent family without a father, and it is difficult to cultivate a sound personality.
So, is this really the case?
3. If a child does not have a father, his personality is not sound?
In the traditional concept, in all kinds of parenting books.
It is often believed that the father's companionship and education play a vital role in shaping the child's personality and character.
Children who have a father's love will be more resistant to frustration and have a more resilient personality.
Of course, it certainly makes sense.
But this is also based on the premise that the family is harmonious and happy, and the father values and is willing to accompany the child.
In many cases, the mother plays two roles in the family and takes on the responsibilities of the father, which is what we call a widowed marriage.
A teacher once did a small survey among kindergarten children and asked their fathers what they like to do most at home, and the answer was unexpected.
Most of the children's answers were playing with their mobile phones, smoking, eating meat, fishing, playing games, and even one lying down, and only one child said that his father liked his mother the most.
One can imagine what the child's father would be like at home.
Some people may say that men earn money to support their families, and women should be at home with husbands and children.
But times have changed, and women can choose to wash their hands and make soup, or they can go out and bear the financial expenses of the family.
But back at home, many women are still taking care of the children and doing housework.
When the children are hungry, thirsty, and sick, the first thing that comes to mind is not their father, but their mother.
If you meet such a father, will the child really get better and better?
And Ye Haiyang took the child with him, and he still raised the child very well, and once Doris asked what his father did.
Ye Haiyang did not evade, listing the things that her father could do with her and the impact it brought her, but Doris said that this was not her mother.
Therefore, for such a brave woman, we should be more tolerant.
epilogue
"My daughter, if China can't tolerate me, I'll take you abroad, the world is so big, there is always a place for us."
Ye Haiyang is right, she just took the path that many women wanted to take but didn't dare to take, or didn't have the ability to go.
As long as she lives a chic and brave life, and the children grow up healthy, it is enough.
The source of the information in this article
The protagonist's personal account "Ye Haiyang (Di Shi Aipu)"