Text: Kapok
At 23:00 in the middle of the night, there was a discordant sound in the community that should have been quiet, at the gate of the community, 37-year-old mother of the second child Lili (pseudonym) held her 2-year-old daughter in one hand, and her 8-year-old daughter in the other, and carried a big bag on her shoulder.
Lily was about to run away from home, while her husband pulled Lily's collar roughly, and roared angrily while pulling: "You are really the most unfilial daughter-in-law in the world, you see how angry you are with my mother, my mother has high blood pressure and heart disease, if you make my mother angry, I will not be done with you!" ”
While comforting the two children, Lily stubbornly said to her husband: "Since you listen to your mother so much, you can live with your mother, you have already slapped me 3 times, isn't it fun?" ”
At this time, everyone noticed that Lily's face was red and swollen, and finger prints could be faintly seen.
Next, Lily complained to everyone about the atrocities of her mother-in-law and husband, and it turned out that her mother-in-law and husband took turns to slap her three times because of a bucket of expired peanut oil.
01. A barrel of expired peanut oil.
Lily introduced to everyone that in her daily life, she and her mother-in-law have many conceptual conflicts and get along very unhappily, but fortunately, they have lived together for many years, and there are not too many contradictions.
After Lily gave birth to a son, she wanted to continue to work and wanted her mother-in-law to help her take care of the baby, but her mother-in-law was very young at the time, and she loved to play mahjong and travel, so she only helped Lily take the child for 3 days, so she said that she was not in good health and couldn't take the child, so she left it alone, Lily was unhappy, but her mother-in-law was right: "Mother-in-law has no obligation to help her daughter-in-law take care of the child." ”
But as soon as my mother-in-law came home, there was nothing wrong with her body, she played mahjong for eight hours a day, and went to climb the mountain every month.
There was no way, Lily had to resign and take the baby from then on.
But who would have thought that my mother-in-law's body has really deteriorated a lot in recent years, 4 years ago I suffered from a herniated lumbar disc, 3 years ago I had a slight cerebral thrombosis, and 2 years ago I was diagnosed with a serious fatty liver, so my mother-in-law firmly said to Lily: "You can rest assured that you will have a second child, and I will live with you when the time comes, and I will help you bring it." ”
Of course, Lily disagreed, knowing that her mother-in-law couldn't take care of herself, and wanted her to take care of her two children and take care of her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law still said confidently: "I'm just such a son, I'm old and sick, who will I live with my son, do you have an opinion?" Do you have any comments that work? Even if you go to court, you have to lose! ”
In this way, after Lily gave birth to her second child, her mother-in-law moved over, and the family has been restless ever since.
A few days ago, my mother-in-law went out for a walk and came back with a bucket of unopened peanut oil.
Lily's mother-in-law is the kind of person who picks on the door, and since living with Lily, she hasn't even bought a needle at home, and this time she brought back a bucket of peanut oil, which made Lily very curious.
The mother-in-law explained that the bucket of peanut oil was picked up next to the garbage can in the community, and she saw that the oil pot was still unopened and intact, so she took it back and wanted to eat it at home.
Lily was curious, so she carefully checked the barrel of peanut oil, and when she looked at the production date, Lily instantly understood that this barrel of peanut oil had expired for 2 years, and she couldn't eat it at all, so she asked her mother-in-law to throw it away.
But the mother-in-law said, "Why is it expired?" If the older generation has such a barrel of oil, they can't eat it for five years, who will say that it will be thrown away when it expires? You go to the supermarket and take a look, such a barrel of peanut oil costs two or three hundred, you have to throw it away, why are you so loser? ”
Next, Lily told her mother-in-law about the dangers of eating expired peanut oil, but her mother-in-law didn't believe it at all, and finally her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law reached an agreement: this barrel of peanut oil that has expired for two years, her mother-in-law can fry and eat it by herself, and Lily, her husband, and children do not eat this barrel of oil.
That night, after her husband got off work, Lily told her husband about the expired peanut oil, thinking that her husband would stand on her side and persuade her mother-in-law, but her husband reprimanded Lily: "You are really hypocritical, what's wrong?" Can you get cancer if you eat a bucket of expired peanut oil? Will it die? Who are you scaring about? ”
The next morning, my mother-in-law opened the bucket of expired peanut oil and fried a plate of vegetables, and Lily's husband tasted a few mouthfuls of greens and said to Lily: "You are hypocritical, this is no different from the unexpired oil!" ”
Since then, my mother-in-law has used this bucket of expired peanut oil to fry vegetables, and Lily's husband has eaten the vegetables fried with this bucket of oil.
02. Pour peanut oil into the toilet.
Although Lily couldn't stop her mother-in-law and her husband's behavior, she felt very uncomfortable.
But recently, one of the mother-in-law's behaviors touched Lily's bottom line.
One morning, when Lily was busy changing diapers for her 2-year-old daughter, and her 8-year-old son needed to eat right away and go to school, Lily asked her mother-in-law to help fry an egg for the child to eat.
After a while, Lily came to the kitchen and found that the lid of the unexpired corn oil she usually used was not opened, but the cap of the barrel of expired peanut oil was open.
Lily immediately asked her mother-in-law, "Did you use expired peanut oil to fry your child's eggs?" ”
The mother-in-law said confidently: "Yes, I can eat this oil, and of course the children can eat it." ”
Lily asked her husband for comment, but her husband said, "If you get up early, don't look for trouble, you can't die after eating once." ”
Another time, Lily's mother was hospitalized, and Lily went to the hospital to take care of her for a day, telling her mother-in-law to make supplementary food for her daughter, and she could put some oil to make boiled pot noodles, which the child likes to eat the most.
That night, when Lily came home, her daughter began to vomit and diarrhea, and developed a high fever, Lily went into the kitchen, and sure enough, she found that her mother-in-law had used the expired peanut oil to make boiled noodles for her 2-year-old child.
Lily was furious, but her mother-in-law was still confident: "The child is so young, vomiting and diarrhea, and fever are normal, what basis do you have for the child to get sick because he ate expired peanut oil?" ”
Lily's lips trembled with anger, and she shouted to her mother-in-law, "I'll tell you again, you are not allowed to give my children peanut oil that has expired for two years, you must eat it yourself, you must get sick yourself, and don't affect my children." ”
The mother-in-law was also anxious, and accused Lily: "I'm helping you take care of the child, you are not grateful, and you still talk to me?" Such a big barrel of oil, you let me eat it myself? How long do you have to eat? You said it, it's been two years since it expired, you should eat it as soon as possible, as a daughter-in-law, don't say that you take the lead in eating her as soon as possible, but also say that you don't eat it, and you don't let the child eat it, all pointing at me, an old lady who is sick after eating, your heart is black! ”
Lily didn't want to argue with her mother-in-law anymore, so she just picked up the bucket of expired peanut oil and walked to the bathroom, and poured the bucket of oil into the toilet.
03, 3 slaps from mother-in-law and husband.
Seeing Lily pour all the peanut oil into the toilet, her mother-in-law instantly became angry, and the moment Lily walked out of the bathroom, her mother-in-law raised her hand and gave Lily a loud slap, and said while beating: "Who told you to pour my peanut oil away?" You are really a loser, you have been married until now, you don't earn a penny, eat my son's, spend my son's, use my son's, don't know how to be thrifty, and are so wasteful, what's the use of you! ”
Lily was blinded by her mother-in-law, and she was also dizzy, she was about to fight back, but her mother-in-law took two steps back, fell on the sofa, took out her mobile phone to call Lily's husband, as soon as the phone was connected, her mother-in-law cried: "Son, don't go to work, go home quickly, your daughter-in-law is about to make me angry, my current blood pressure, it is estimated that it will not last for a few hours, and if you come back late, you may not be able to see me." ”
Sure enough, after a while, Lily's husband returned.
Lily originally thought that if she explained the ins and outs of the matter, her husband would be on her side, but when her husband came home, he saw his mother lying on the sofa, gasping and sighing, and without saying a word, he raised his hand and gave Lily a resounding slap.
Lily covered her red and hot face and cried and told her husband what had happened, but her husband said, "My mother is the child's grandmother, will she harm her granddaughter?" What's the matter, why can't you think about the better and always treat your mother-in-law as the worst person? Why is your heart so dirty! ”
Lily knew that it would be useless to talk to her husband, so she went back to her room and began to pack up her and her children's things, preparing to run away from home. She married far away to her husband's family, and her parents are in the countryside of another city, not to mention a 5-hour train ride, but her husband will not give her thousands of yuan in high-speed rail fees, and she will not be able to return home.
When her husband saw Lily packing up her things, he instantly became angry, raised his hand and slapped Lily again, and said while beating: "You are the mother of two children, do you still think that you are an 18-year-old girl, and I will look for you if you run away from home?" I tell you, if you want to go by yourself, leave my children with me, and leave or leave with you, but before you walk out of this house today, you must apologize to my mother! ”
Despite her husband's accusations and abuse, Lily still carried her bag, held a child, pulled a child, and stubbornly walked out of the house, so her husband chased her to the door of the community, the scene at the beginning of the article.
04. Write at the end
Listening to Lily's story, it was really emotional.
In marriage, the ignorant mother-in-law and the foolish husband are the biggest disasters for women; There is no economic income, the contribution is not seen, the self is completely abandoned, and the marriage has problems, and the only choice is forbearance, which is the greatest sorrow of a woman.
May Lily's experience be a wake-up call for you, me and her in life.
May the above words be encouraged by my readers!
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