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How to deal with emotional problems in couples? Find the essence of the problem and mend the emotion with action

author:Bin Tsai

In the corner of the bustling city, there lives an ordinary couple, the husband is called Lin Hao, and the wife is called Su Qing. Lin Hao is a middle-level manager in a technology company, and he is busy with work on weekdays, but he always finds time to spend with his family. Su Qing is a primary school teacher who is gentle and kind and patient with her students. The two met in college, and after graduation, they walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, thinking that they could face the ups and downs of life together, but unexpectedly, in the triviality of life, the relationship between the two gradually cracked.

How to deal with emotional problems in couples? Find the essence of the problem and mend the emotion with action

Lin Hao's family is not wealthy, and he has known the importance of hard work since he was a child. He was diligent and motivated, and he came to his current position step by step. However, as he moved up the ranks, he became more and more stressed, often working overtime late into the night. Su Qing is a caring and patient person, and her concern for students has won the praise of parents. However, as she grew older, she began to crave more love and companionship from her husband.

At first, the two were able to understand each other and support each other. But as time went by, Lin Hao's busyness made Su Qing feel more and more lonely. She began to wonder if her husband still loved her as much as before, while Lin Hao was unaware of his wife's mood changes because of the pressure of work. The misunderstanding and estrangement between the two deepened, and finally after a fierce quarrel, the two fell into a cold war.

How to deal with emotional problems in couples? Find the essence of the problem and mend the emotion with action

In the days of the Cold War, Lin Hao and Su Qing both felt very painful. They try to forget each other by being busy, but in the dead of night, they always think of each other's good. Lin Hao began to reflect on his behavior, and he realized that he had put too much energy into his work and ignored his wife's feelings. And Su Qing also began to understand her husband's hard work, she knew that her husband worked hard for the family.

However, the estrangement between the two has not been eliminated. They began to avoid direct communication and hide their inner pain with silence. Until one day, Lin Hao met an old classmate at a company party. An old classmate told him that his marriage had experienced a similar crisis, but through communication and hard work, they eventually found a solution to the problem. Lin Hao was deeply inspired by this, and he decided to take action to mend the relationship with his wife.

The next day, Lin Hao returned home early. He took the initiative to talk to Su Qing, trying to break the silence between the two. Although Su Qing was a little surprised, she was also moved by her husband's sincerity. The two began to sit down and talk, sharing each other's thoughts and feelings. Lin Hao apologized to his wife and admitted his negligence and mistakes at work. He promised to adjust the pace of work and spend more time with his wife and family. Su Qing was also moved by her husband's sincerity, and she told her husband that she was also wrong, and that she should be more understanding and supportive of him.

How to deal with emotional problems in couples? Find the essence of the problem and mend the emotion with action

During the conversation, the two gradually found the essence of the problem - the lack of communication and understanding. They realize that in their busy lives, it's easy to ignore each other's feelings and needs. To solve this problem, they decided to make a family plan and schedule some shared time each week to get along and communicate. In addition, they also agreed to say goodnight to each other every night before going to bed to express their love and concern for each other.

Over time, the relationship between the two was gradually repaired. They began to cherish each other's feelings and time even more, and worked hard to manage their married life. They cook, watch movies, travel together, and enjoy the sweetness and warmth of the world of the two. Lin Hao's work is also getting better, he is able to find a balance in his work, and no longer neglect his family because he is busy.

However, life is always full of uncertainties. Just when the relationship between the two gradually warmed up, Su Qing suddenly received a bad news - her father was seriously ill and hospitalized. This news made Su Qing fall into grief in an instant, and she didn't know how to face this sudden blow. After Lin Hao learned the news, he did not hesitate to put down the work at hand and accompanied his wife back to his hometown.

In the hospital room, Su Qing saw her father's haggard face and painful expression. Her heart was like a knife, and she didn't know how to comfort her father. Lin Hao held his wife's hand tightly and gave her endless support and comfort. He told his wife to be strong in the face of this difficult time and believed that he and his father would be able to get through it.

During the days in the hospital, Lin Hao and Su Qing took care of their father together. They took turns staying at the bedside, feeding his father medicine, scrubbing his body, and chatting with him. In the process, the relationship between the two became deeper. They support and encourage each other to face the difficulties and challenges of life together.

In the end, under the treatment of doctors and the care of his family, Su Qing's father's condition gradually improved. When the doctor announced that he could be discharged, the whole family was thrilled and happy. Lin Hao and Su Qing also realized the importance of emotions between husband and wife more deeply in this process. They understand that only by understanding each other, supporting each other, and working together can they get through every difficult time in life.

How to deal with emotional problems in couples? Find the essence of the problem and mend the emotion with action

After returning to the city, Lin Hao and Su Qing continued to live happily ever after. They cherish each other's feelings and time, and work hard to manage their married life. They know that with love, faith and courage in their hearts, they can overcome all difficulties and challenges. They use their own experiences to tell people: when they encounter emotional problems in their married life, don't run away and give up, face and solve them bravely, find the essence of the problem, use actions to mend emotions, and make married life more beautiful and happy.

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