Friend's husband
I have a very good friend, she is kind and capable, and she has a good temper! She is full of enthusiasm for life, but she is very dissatisfied with her husband! Her husband is a master who only knows how to make money outside and doesn't care about anything at home! But fortunately, he doesn't prostitute or gamble, he doesn't have any fancy intestines, and his bad hobby is smoking, eating snacks and drinking drinks (not drinking plain water)! So he is not very well, and he has gout and diabetes! In fact, my friend has told him many times that he should drink less and smoke less, but this strange man thinks that my friend is distressed about money! [Covering his faceEvery week, he can save a big bag of drink bottles, and now he occasionally 'pays attention to his body' and uses more than half a bottle of drink to half a bottle of mineral water! I am very curious, how did my friend like her husband? My friend said that after graduating from college, she stayed, and her aunt's brother and sister-in-law took very good care of her family, and her husband was a colleague of the sister-in-law introduced by this sister-in-law, saying that the person is very simple, the local people have financial ability, and the unit is good, my friend thinks that my brother and sister-in-law will not be wrong (her brother and sister-in-law are much older than her, and they are also very prestigious) I didn't understand anything at the time, but my personality was slowly exposed after I got married!
For example, her husband and mother-in-law have communication barriers, and often they can't talk together, and they can quarrel in a few words; when the lights in the house are broken, her husband never repairs them, and he doesn't care about them, and when other things are broken, it's the same, as if he didn't see them; he can't control his emotions, and his emotions come up, and he trains his children regardless of the occasion; he doesn't give the money he earns to his wife, and he doesn't pay living expenses, and he thinks that his wife can make money by herself, so he should do it; he can leave his hair unwashed for a month and not cut for two, three, or four months......
Now she also works through her husband to pay for living expenses and children's make-up fees, and the family will also pay extra for buying large items, but there is not much change in addition, she often says that she doesn't have a child, and she won't be with him for a long time, and the child will have to open his eyes wider when he finds his in-laws in the future...... I feel like a realist, if I can't see any hope of change from the other half, I will try to live my own life, I also persuaded her, people have a very short life, there is no chance to start over, some people have some things, just do your best, don't force it!
In fact, it is very simple to change the husband, but it is not necessarily better to change, for my friend, although her husband has a lot of dissatisfaction with her, but he loves children, loves the family, and the essence is not bad!
