Today I happened to swipe a video, about a sister to her younger brother to attend the school's parent-teacher meeting, the video is very funny, but I have mixed feelings after watching it, I really don't vomit unhappy!
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School Thanksgiving Education Association
Combined with the video scene and background music, it is obvious that this is the school's "guilt-based education" before Mother's Day. I believe that many people have participated in this kind of parent-teacher meeting when they were young, and the school likes to call it "Thanksgiving Education Conference".
The general process is to ask a so-called gratitude speech master to frantically output on the stage how hard parents work and how disobedient children are. If this kind of master does not make the audience snot and tears, they will be regarded as a failure, and they may not get the same labor remuneration for appearing in the speech.
A common method is for parents and students to sit in rows on the playground to be baptized. The necessary process is like in the video, so that children and parents look at each other, hoping to add the catalysis of the master's language and music, and cry directly in this step!
The younger brother couldn't help but laugh maniacally
Maybe it's because my sister participated in place of my parents, this younger brother really couldn't bear to look at it directly, but he was also trying to brew emotions, biting the scarf with his mouth many times, and he couldn't control his laughter.
The younger brother's expression switched back and forth, shy, patient, and overwhelmed, and finally he really wanted to use his toes to pick out the three-bedroom living room and get into the soil, he could feel it, this was really a complete torture of his body and mind!
The attitude of netizens
Anyone who has experienced this kind of conference knows that the last indispensable link is the sale of books, and many people have questioned what this kind of parent-teacher meeting is for, and it is difficult not to suspect that there is a profit-making purpose.
The author of the video also deliberately pinned his own explanation, saying, "It's not a book seller, the family, it's for people to voluntarily buy courses on mobile phones." It may really be voluntary, but by the speech of the master, it is quite possible that this voluntariness is built on some kind of "coercion".
Netizens complained that the mother of the school principal should also come at this time, hahahaha, it's really vicious, I agree with this idea, after all, gratitude can't only make children grateful, teachers should also lead by example!
More netizens said that this laughing child is the most normal child, and a child who knows how to laugh at this moment is not only a normal child, but also a happy child, because he must live in a relaxed and healthy family atmosphere!
Personal comment: The Thanksgiving Conference is mostly a deformed education
For example, I experienced this kind of battle once in junior high school and high school, and after listening to what the master said, I felt so sorry for my parents, and I couldn't wait to kowtow to my parents on the spot and confess my guilt.
This incident poisoned me for several years, because I thought the master was so attractive at that time, and I wanted to be a master of speech when I grew up, and I even often spent time going to Internet cafes, not playing games, to watch such thanksgiving speeches, and to see tears streaming down my face in Internet cafes.
But when I grew up, I found out that I had been cheated. This so-called guilt-based education is really stupid and hateful, and even feels that it is a sick and deformed way of education!
Especially now that I have a child, when I see this kind of video again, my whole body is cracked, what age is this, it is understandable to do it 15 or 6 years ago, but I didn't expect it to be there now!
Thankful parents should need their children to feel from the bottom of their hearts and in the bits and pieces of life, rather than this kind of forced cramming, hoping to be able to rush out through a parent-teacher meeting!
And now as a father with children, I don't want my daughter to live in guilt, everywhere in order not to let her parents worry about it, not to let her parents chill to study, learning is her own business, and life is also her own.
What do you think about this? Have you experienced this kind of education? Do you want your child to go through it? Let's talk about it in the comment area!