When we are unmarried, we pay more attention to the situation of our boyfriend. But after getting married, people began to pay attention to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
A good mother-in-law is not only a help in the marriage when there is a conflict in the relationship between husband and wife, but also a very good family in life, and the daughter-in-law is naturally the same, although the daughter-in-law is not a relative, but in the later life she is like a relative.
The wife's willingness to maintain close contact with her biological parents is motivated by a deep love for her lover. Even if there are some small contradictions, they will not be unhappy. But what do we do when the contradictions between each other accumulate to a certain extent, or when we face some greater difficulties?
Although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is common, it should not be underestimated. Reconciling relationships is something we must do and cannot be delayed forever.
The accumulation of troubles in people's hearts is increasing, gradually distorting their thoughts and behaviors. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important, and it is one of the ways to maintain married life.
Yu Xiaolai's mother-in-law actually got along with her very happily today, and even her words no longer carried so much vitriol. At dinner, Yu Xiaolai's mother-in-law finally spoke up and said her request: "Daughter-in-law, you have so much money, can you help your nephew?" Hearing this, Yu Xiaolai suddenly realized that she understood the reason for her mother-in-law's change in attitude today. Yu Xiaolai said: "After I gave birth, you didn't say that when you asked me to go to work. ”
When the mother-in-law heard this, she knew that Yu Xiaolai refused to help, and she began to become the same as before, and her tone suddenly became critical.
If it weren't for your family's gift money, you think I would have agreed? Your son's nephew is also yours, how can you ignore it? The cost of learning music won't cost you much, so you might as well give it up.
Yu Xiaolai listened to these words and said lightly: "No matter what you say, I will not agree." After saying that, she turned around and went back to her room, and her mother-in-law was so angry that she followed back to her room, and the door "banged" sounded, making the layout in the living room seem more restrained.
Yu Xiaolai was thinking about how to get along with her mother-in-law in the room, after all, her mother-in-law was not as difficult for her as she is now before she got married. However, after getting married, it became more and more wrong, and her mother-in-law always commented on what Xiao Lai did, and her dissatisfaction with her was also a basket. Yu Xiaolai tried to reconcile the relationship between the two, but in the end, he couldn't avoid being angry and returned to the room.
What's even more unbearable is that during the confinement period here, Xiao Lai's mother-in-law intensified and said directly to Xiao Lai: "You don't want to do things well for a month, you always lie in bed, and your life is more ugly than death." She even said that she married her son just because she liked her parents' bride price.
Yu Xiaolai's heart became more and more cold, and for the mediation of the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, these days have slowly disappeared. Before getting married, she didn't expect that the relationship with her mother-in-law would become so cold. Her husband had tried to mediate, but the outcome was unknown, and her mother-in-law had not changed her mind. The relationship gradually cooled and eventually became the state it is today.
Sentiment Analysis:
"Daughter-in-law, your family is so rich, can you help your nephew?" "When I was confined, you didn't say that you would come out to work immediately." After this modification, the whole sentence is more fluent and natural, and it can be read more to reflect the feeling of daily conversation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In the mother-in-law relationship, the new daughter-in-law (mother-in-law) who is not a relative may be a little uncomfortable, but over time, the connection between them will become very intimate.
Under her mother-in-law's words, Yu Xiaolai's heart became colder and colder. If the mother-in-law had been more friendly and treated her daughter-in-law with kindness, things wouldn't have gotten so bad. I hope that my mother-in-law can show a better side, and the relationship between them will become warm and intimate.
Don't let the disputes in the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship backlog, that will only become more troublesome, and it will not be resolved in the end.