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Preface
On a cold afternoon in February 2012, in a hospital ward in Beijing, the dying Bai Han held Haiqing's hand and said in a weak voice: "Qingqing, Qingqing will please you." "
Han Qing, who was 31 years old at the time, stood aside and burst into tears.
No one expected that this powerful actor, who had just won the Magnolia Award for Best Actress, would die suddenly at the peak of his life.
What she didn't expect was that she would regard her friend Haiqing, who was 22 years younger than herself, as her "son's trustee".
At that time, many people did not understand Bai Han's choice.
Why entrust an adult son to a man of a similar age?
Can Haiqing really take care of Han Qing?
However, 12 years have passed, and we finally understand Bai Han's good intentions.
To understand Bai Han's choice, we must first understand her life experience.
The haze of childhood: parents have passed away one after another
In 1956, Bai Han was born into a family of intellectuals in Fengsheng Hutong, Xicheng District, Beijing.
His father was a university teacher, and his mother was a court recorder, and his family was well-off.
However, the good times were short-lived, and the haze of the Cultural Revolution enveloped the family.
In 1963, 7-year-old Bai Han witnessed his father being criticized and sent to the countryside.
As a result, my mother suffered from severe mental illness and spent her days in tears.
In 1970, 14-year-old Bai Han experienced the biggest blow in his life - his mother chose to commit suicide.
"That morning, I woke up to find my mother gone. I searched everywhere and finally found her in the kitchen. "
Years later, Bai Han recalled in an interview, "At that moment, my world collapsed. "
Soon after his father returned to Beijing, he was diagnosed with esophageal cancer and passed away soon after.
At the age of 15, Bai Han became an orphan and had to face this cold world alone.
Acting career: from supporting role to after-view
The difficult experience of childhood did not defeat Bai Han, but honed her strong character.
She liked to listen to radio dramas since she was a child, and planted the seeds of her dream of being an actress.
In 1971, the versatile Bai Han was recruited into the Beijing Municipal Power Supply Bureau as a literary and artistic specialty.
Later, she was admitted to the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama and became an actress at the National Theatre of China after graduation.
In 1983, Bai Han played the role of nurse Chen Ying in the movie "Inch Grass Heart", officially starting her screen career.
Since then, she has portrayed a variety of roles in many film and television works, although most of them are supporting roles, but her acting skills have been recognized by industry insiders.
In 2010, 54-year-old Bai Han ushered in the peak of his career.
Her role in the TV series "The Beautiful Times of the Daughter-in-law" is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and the show has achieved a good rating of 16.5% for a single episode.
With this work, Bai Han won the Magnolia Award for Best Actress at the Shanghai TV Festival, realizing a gorgeous turn from a supporting role to a behind-the-scenes.
Married life: two marriages, one happiness
Bai Han's love life is not smooth.
At the age of 26, she married an outsider and gave birth to her son Han Qing after marriage.
However, the marriage lasted for 8 years and ended in failure.
After the divorce, Bai Han raised his son alone, and his life was very difficult.
In 1996, 40-year-old Bai Han met his true destiny - director Han Xiaolei, who was 15 years older than her.
The two fell in love at first sight and soon entered the marriage hall.
This marriage gave Bai Han an unprecedented sense of happiness.
She once said in an interview: "Xiao Lei made me understand what true love is, and he gave me a complete home." "
However, happiness is always short-lived.
On March 19, 2003, Han Xiaolei died of heart failure at the age of 62.
Bai Han, who lost her beloved, fell into despair for a while, but for the sake of her son, she gritted her teeth and survived.
New Year's friendship with Haiqing
In 2009, Bai Han and Haiqing became acquainted with each other because of their cooperation in the TV series "The Beautiful Times of Daughter-in-law".
Despite the 22-year age difference between the two, they quickly became good friends who talked about everything.
"Sister Bai is like my own sister," Haiqing said in an interview, "she is always so gentle, kind and full of wisdom." We often talked and ate together, and she gave me a lot of life advice. "
Bai Han also likes Haiqing very much, and often praises her for not only her good acting skills, but also her better character.
Once, an extras in the crew suddenly fell ill, and Haiqing paid for his medical expenses out of his own pocket without saying a word.
Bai Han witnessed this scene with his own eyes and was deeply moved.
"Qingqing, you kid has such a good heart." Bai Han patted Haiqing on the shoulder and said, "If anything happens to me in the future, you can take care of Qingqing more." "
At that time, Haiqing just responded with a smile, but he didn't expect this joke to become Bai Han's lifebed entrustment.
Haiqing's commitment: interpret the truth with action
Although Han Qing is 31 years old, in Bai Han's eyes, he is still a "child who can't grow up".
Han Qing is introverted, has an unstable job, and has never started a family.
Bai Han's biggest worry is that after he leaves, his son will lose his direction.
In Bai Han's opinion, Haiqing is the most suitable person to take care of Han Qing.
She is young, has a successful career, and has good connections in the circle.
More importantly, Haiqing is kind and upright, which can have a positive impact on Han Qing.
After Bai Han passed away, Haiqing fulfilled his promise with practical actions and became a noble person in Han Qing's life.
In the first few months of Bai Han's death, Han Qing could barely live a normal life.
Haiqing often visits him, chats with him, and cooks for him.
Under Haiqing's guidance, Han Qing slowly walked out of the haze of sadness and regained his strength.
Han Qing has always wanted to enter the showbiz, but he has no chance.
When Haiqing learned about it, he immediately mobilized his connections to fight for opportunities for Han Qing.
In 2013, under the recommendation of Haiqing, Han Qing successfully entered the crew of a well-known director to do scene notes.
Although the work is hard, Han Qing cherishes this opportunity.
With the passage of time, Han Qing gradually gained a firm foothold in the film and television industry.
He started as a scene reporter, later became an assistant director, and even began to try his hand at screenwriting.
Whenever Han Qing encountered professional confusion, Haiqing would patiently give him advice.
Sometimes, she also takes Han Qing to participate in industry activities to help him expand his network.
In addition to career help, Haiqing also cares about Han Qing everywhere in his life.
Every holiday, she would invite Han Qing to her home for dinner.
When Han Qing was sick, Haiqing took care of him personally.
As he grew older, Han Qing's marriage became Haiqing's biggest concern.
She often introduces partners to Han Qing, and personally helps prepare for blind dates.
In 2020, under Haiqing's matchmaking, Han Qing finally met his favorite object.
The two quickly established a relationship and entered the palace of marriage the following year.
On the day of the wedding, Haiqing, as a witness, said with a smile on his face: "Qingqing, your mother will definitely be proud of you in the spirit of heaven." I am sure that you will be happy. "
Today, 12 years later: the deep meaning of Pakhan's entrustment
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Bai Han has been gone for 12 years.
Looking back, we finally understand the deep meaning of her deathbed entrustment.
Bai Han's life is full of parting.
His parents died young, his first marriage failed, and his beloved husband died.
These experiences have made her deeply aware of the importance of her loved ones.
"My greatest wish is that my son will never be as lonely as I am."
Bai Han once said this to his friends. This sentence expresses the deepest fear and expectation in her heart.
Bai Han entrusted his son to Haiqing, not only because of trust, but also because he hoped that his mother's love could continue through Haiqing.
Bai Han's biggest worry is that his son will be lonely.
And the appearance of Haiqing filled the gap in Han Qing's life.
She is both a relative and a friend, giving Han Qing emotional support.
Bai Han's entrustment not only changed Han Qing's life, but also affected Haiqing.
Facts have proved that Bai Han's original choice was not wrong, and Haiqing fulfilled his promise with practical actions.
Epilogue:
12 years have passed, and Han Qing has started a family and lived a happy life.
Every time he looked at the sky, it seemed that he could see his mother's smile of relief.
And Haiqing, because of this responsibility, has reaped a double harvest of career and life.