In this college entrance examination season, when we focus on the students who have achieved high scores, many people ignore another group, that is a huge group, they are silent, like a cloud in the night, and no one pays attention to its color.
More than 13 million people will take the college entrance examination in 2024, and how many will be able to get their wish? An exam, a few happy and a few sad.
The boy scored 600 points in the college entrance examination, and after finding out the results, he was silent, and his mother saw him doing housework in the kitchen
Recently, in Hebei, there are families with college entrance examination candidates at home, and on June 25, the mood of the family is always a little worried. You don't know what it will be like to open Pandora's box.
In Hebei, a woman recorded the scene of her child's results checking after the college entrance examination. When the woman came home from work and came to the kitchen, she saw her son who was washing the dishes, and asked anxiously: "Is it out?" "Out." The son turned his head. "You must have done well, right? How many points did you exceed expectations? "The mother has faith in her son.
The mother asked a series of questions, but the boy was silent and did not answer, and the mother thought that the child was selling a pass, "Hey, what are we going to eat today?" Let's celebrate with something delicious. "Mom didn't know the specific situation, but she tried to think about the good as she could.
Because after the college entrance examination, I listened to my son's estimation that he could get 600 points in this exam. However, the son never told his mother how much he scored.
The son took a deep breath, paused, turned to his mother and said, "I brushed my shoes and washed the clothes." Let's not go out to eat yet, I can cut the potatoes well, let's fry the potato chips, okay? ”
Hearing her son's words, the mother instantly understood that she must have failed well in the exam, and later when the mother knew that he had found out 397 points, the mother was still a little disappointed. Mom said: "Before the score was released yesterday, he said that the score was 600 points, and I still had hope for him, and when I woke up this morning, I found the child cooking in the kitchen, and I knew that he had failed the exam." ”
"With a score of 397, I'm still a little disappointed. But the child's attitude has been placed here, although the college entrance examination is important, but it cannot represent everything. ”
We deeply understand the mother's feelings, and netizens also said after seeing this video: No matter how you study, you are a good child.
Netizens said: "600 points are not necessarily talents, and 397 is not a waste material." ”
The netizen said: "Yesterday, my old cousin's son was estimated to have a score of more than 400, and he was able to get a general second book and found 165, but now he is lying in the hospital and has been beaten to a fractured left arm." ”
Netizens said: "It's the first time that the estimated score can be 200 higher than the real score." ”
There are really not many such cases, some netizens have doubts about the evaluation of scores, the so-called evaluation of scores, is only an estimated number, for students with good academic performance, they are afraid of finding out the results, let themselves be hit, like to press down when evaluating the scores, and when the final results are checked, they may receive a surprise.
For students with average grades, they are afraid of their parents' blame, so when evaluating the scores, sometimes they will deliberately estimate a little more, at least during the time between the college entrance examination and the scores, the parents' mood will be more relaxed.
In fact, the test paper is over, the results are already there, and the estimated score is just to give yourself a psychological preparation, don't be disappointed at that time, but there is still a big difference between the estimated score and the actual score.
There are several factors that affect this, one is the answer posted on the Internet, which may not be the standard answer, the second is that the child has forgotten the answer to the question after the exam, and the estimate is not accurate, and the third is also related to the looseness and strictness of the teacher's grading standards, especially in the liberal arts, it is difficult to estimate whether it is good or bad. The fourth is related to the scoring method of each province, some provinces are assigned points, and it is difficult for candidates to know the ranking of their results in the province, so it is difficult to estimate accurately.
As a parent, don't rely too much on your child's estimated score, and don't scold your child too much because he doesn't do well in the exam, because all roads lead to Rome, and when God closes a door for his child, he will definitely open another window for him.
As netizens said, 600 points in the test is not equal to talent, and 397 points in the test is not equal to waste materials, when the road of learning is not passable, the child still has countless ways to go, as long as he has worked hard, as long as the attitude is correct enough, the child's personality is down-to-earth, good character, willing to endure hardships, then, I believe that the future can also be successful.
Epilogue:
Give your children more love, understanding, and encouragement. After all, if the test is not good, the child is sad enough, if the parents blame him too much, it will only increase his psychological burden, and the child's physical and mental health is more important than anything else. Don't you feel the same way?