This is a real case 20 years ago that shattered the three views!
Zhao Qingxiang, who works in the United States, returned to China with her husband to visit relatives, but because of financial constraints, she refused to be a "brother demon" and paid for her younger brother to buy a house, which angered her father Zhao Yuling.
The cold-blooded and murderous Zhao Yuling took advantage of the nap of his daughter and son-in-law to pick up an axe and hack the two to death.
Even in court, the brutal father still said: The white-eyed wolf should be killed! It can't meet my requirements, and it's useless to keep it!
In 1972, Zhao Qingxiang was born in a rural area in Yantai, and in the countryside of that era, the preference for sons over daughters was very serious.
Zhao Qingxiang's birth is not a happy event for the Zhao family, because according to the words of the countryside: girls are money-losers.
When Zhao Qingxiang was 2 years old, her younger brother was born, but not long after birth, she got meningitis and fell into epilepsy.
Zhao Qingxiang, who was not taken seriously, was sent directly to her grandmother's house, and did not return home until she was in elementary school.
Zhao Qingxiang, who goes home every year on vacation, is the little nanny at home, not only does not have the love of her parents, but also has to be careful everywhere.
Growing up in such an environment, Zhao Qingxiang was destined to suffer.
Perhaps because she felt the partiality of her parents, Zhao Qingxiang has been studying hard since she was a child, and her grades have always been among the best, but no matter how hard she tries, her father will always speak coldly.
In 1987, after 9 years of compulsory education, Zhao Qingxiang took the first place in the village.
After taking the admission letter from the key high school home, Zhao Yuling poured a basin of cold water on it, and he asked Zhao Qingxiang to drop out of school and go to work. What's the use of a girl studying, it's better to go to work early, and help the family earn some money while she is not married.
Fortunately, the people in the village persuaded Zhao Yuling: If Zhao Qingxiang is admitted to university, the state will assign a job that is higher than the salary of a part-time job. In order to get more in the future, Zhao Yuling agreed to Zhao Qingxiang to go to high school.
In 1990, 18-year-old Zhao Qingxiang was admitted to the Department of Chemistry of Nankai University and became the first college student to "fly out" in the village.
People in the village came to say goodbye, but Zhao Yuling felt: What is the reason for her daughter's life? Won't you get married and have children in the future and become another family?
It wasn't until I heard that Nankai University was a top university and would make a lot of money in the future that I was relieved: "When can I send money home?" ”
Zhao Qingxiang was silent for a while and said, "I'll go find a job after graduation." ”
In the years when Zhao Qingxiang was in college, Zhao Yuling and his wife never sponsored a penny for their daughter, but despite this, the sensible Zhao Qingxiang never complained to his parents, but continued to go to school while sending the money he saved home.
In 1997, Zhao Qingxiang and college classmate Wei Bin met and fell in love, Wei Bin had a wealthy family and was considerate to Zhao Qingxiang, which made Zhao Qingxiang feel very happy.
But living in a patriarchal family for many years, Zhao Qingxiang had some faint worries in her heart as early as the beginning of her relationship with Wei Bin.
She understands her father's temperament well and understands that when it comes to talking about marriage, he will inevitably be the first to jump out and sing the opposite.
And everything is indeed as Zhao Qingxiang expected, after dating for a period of time, she and Wei Bin are ready to get married, and at the same time apply for a place to study in the United States, Zhao Yuling scolded after hearing this:
"Bastard thing! When your wings are stiff, you want to run, so you can get rid of your brother, right? What's the use of reading so many books! ”
Zhao Yuling's attitude made Zhao Qingxiang feel cold, and she had a big quarrel with her parents.
Because of this quarrel, the contradiction between Zhao Qingxiang and her parents was completely intensified, so that on the day she and Wei Bin got married, Zhao Yuling and his wife did not appear at the wedding scene.
Zhao Qingxiang didn't get any dowry from her parents, and even the wedding was handled by her in-laws.
In October 1998, Zhao Qingxiang gave birth to a son, and her application to study in the United States was approved. In order to take better care of his wife, Wei Bin also decided to go to the United States with her.
Before leaving, considering that the future study will be very busy, the couple sent their son, who is less than two months old, to Tianjin, where his in-laws will take care of him, and they come back regularly to visit the children.
Zhao Qingxiang and Wei Bin studying in the United States was not easy.
In order to save money, the two hardly participate in party activities, in addition to studying and doing research, they work every day to make money, because Zhao Qingxiang not only has to earn money to support himself, but also sends money home to subsidize the family.
Father Zhao Yuling did not feel sorry for his daughter, he felt that this was what she should do, he should have come out to work a long time ago but insisted on studying abroad, since it is so beautiful, then it is natural to subsidize the family, when Zhao Qingxiang and Wei Bin were thrifty in the United States, Zhao Yuling used the money sent back by his daughter to build a new house.
In 2002, Zhao Qingxiang and Dr. Wei Bin graduated and successfully found a job with a very good salary, and at the same time, they decided to return to China to visit relatives and take their son abroad to live together.
After the two returned to Zhao Qingxiang's house, Zhao Yuling prepared a large table of meals, extremely enthusiastic, and before the meal was finished, he asked Zhao Qingxiang to give his younger brother 80,000 yuan to buy a house and marry a wife.
Faced with this expensive request, Zhao Qingxiang directly refused on the spot, and he told his father that it was impossible to buy a house for his younger brother for the time being. Wei Bin was also very angry, his father-in-law's family had been of no help to the husband and wife except for sucking blood, so he retorted a few words at that time.
So, the meal broke up.
After that, Zhao Qingxiang lived at home for three days, and the topic of buying a house for his younger brother has not been interrupted, the husband and wife have a resolute attitude, and Zhao Yuling's hatred has become deeper and deeper.
On the afternoon of March 26, 2002, the couple was about to take the train back to their mother-in-law's house in Tianjin to pick up their son.
Zhao Yuling asked his wife to persuade her daughter again, saying that it was persuasion, but it was actually the last pain.
Seeing that her daughter and son-in-law still did not let go, Zhao Yuling, who had fallen into madness, had red eyes at this time.
Since your daughter is gone, and your son is gone, since you don't listen to me, regardless of your brother, what's the use of me keeping you?
At noon that day, Zhao Qingxiang and his wife took a nap in the house, Zhao Yuling first lay on the windowsill and looked, and after making sure that both of them were asleep, he picked up an axe and rushed into the room, and slashed wildly at his daughter and son-in-law who were napping.
Seeing this scene, the son was so frightened that he had a seizure, and the neighbor directly called the police, and Zhao Yuling was soon controlled by the police.
On July 4, 2002, the court heard the case in public, and Zhao Yuling confessed to his crimes, and when he arrived in court, he still said unashamedly that his daughter should be killed and that he was a white-eyed wolf.
In the end, Zhao Yuling was sentenced to death.
After the verdict of the case, Zhao Qingxiang's younger brother also appealed to the court, demanding the division of Zhao Qingxiang's property, which was rejected......
The short-sighted and pedantic Zhao Yuling ruined his daughter's childhood, ruined her daughter's life, and finally took her daughter's life.
Source: "Ode to Joy"
Zhao Qingxiang went through all the tribulations, but before the happy life began, he died under his father's knife.
It's embarrassing and sad.
In that old-fashioned era, the dregs of patriarchal thinking imprisoned groups of numb people, sowed the seeds of viciousness in people's ideas, and then took root and sprouted, intensifying.
Fortunately, the times are progressing, and people's ideas are also being updated.
Today, patriarchy is no longer a mainstream value.
If you happen to still live in a patriarchal family of origin, you must note this slightly mean sentence: be selfish, be cold-blooded, and love yourself more.
Author: Brother Claw.