In 1977, Teresa Teng and Yamaguchi Baihui, as the top performers of that era, performed on the same stage. Yamaguchi Baihui can quit the showbiz for marriage, why can't Teresa Teng?
Yamaguchi Momoe is 6 years younger than Teresa Teng, her parents divorced when she was a child, and she lives with her mother. In November 1980, 21-year-old Momoe Yamaguchi and Tomokazu Miura held a wedding, after which they withdrew from the entertainment industry. This caused a great sensation at the time.
In 1981, 28-year-old Teresa Teng and Guo Kongcheng got engaged, and the wedding was originally scheduled to be held the following year, but Guo's grandmother put Teresa Teng's withdrawal from the showbiz as a condition for marriage, and Teresa Teng did not accept it, so she withdrew from the marriage.
Why are Teresa Teng and Yamaguchi Baihui's concepts so different?
It's just because Chinese women are fundamentally different from Japanese women.
First, it has to do with the growth environment.
Growing up in a broken family and lacking fatherly love from an early age, Momoe Yamaguchi met Tomokazu Miura, who was everything to her. In addition, the status of Japanese women has always been low, and it is natural for women to be dependent on their husbands and focus on their families after marriage.
But Teresa Teng grew up under the care of her father and brother and accompanied by her mother, she never lacked a sense of security, and her self-esteem and self-reliance were her conscious consciousness. Don't forget, we are a country with Wu Zetian, Hua Mulan, and Mu Guiying in history, and Chinese women are eager to be self-reliant and self-reliant.
Despite this, it is said that when Teresa Teng chatted with friends, she had plans to fade out of the showbiz after getting married. However, when her fiancé's family proposed this as a condition for entry, she thought it was a sign of lack of respect for her.
The most important thing is that singing is as important and indispensable to Teresa Teng as eating and breathing. Not letting her sing undoubtedly made her life meaningless.
In the TV series, from the very beginning, the grandmother of the Guo family knew that her grandson would have to work harder. He pursued Teresa Teng, but can Teresa Teng wash all the lead for him and be willing to be a housewife?
She knew in her heart that it was impossible, but she still put forward three conditions, and the original intention was to prevent it.
Of course, there is no right or wrong in life, only choices, and everyone's position is different, and the choice is naturally different.
When you choose who you are with, you are choosing a lifestyle and values.
The song "I Only Care About You" is just like her state of mind at that time:
If I hadn't met you, where would I be,
How is the life going, whether life should be cherished.
Maybe you know someone and live an ordinary life.
I don't know if it will be, but there is also love that is as sweet as honey.
Time flies, and all I care about is you.
Willingly infect your breath.
Life is geometric, you can get a confidant.
It is not a pity to lose the power of life.
So I beg you, don't let me leave you.
I can't feel the slightest affection except for you.
If there is a day when you say you are leaving.
I will lose myself and walk into the sea of boundless people.
Don't make any promises, just be together every day.
I can't just rely on pieces of memories to live.
Every time I listen to this song, I feel pity and regret.
Perhaps, no one can achieve their wishes and get their wishes at the same time as fame and fortune. There must always be some shortcomings and regrets before the world is true.
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